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Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 8:11 pm

ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...

1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?


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blondebombshell33 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 12:16 pm:
welll... huN thats kinda up 2 u about makin the right decision.... if u like him, have fun with him and have some physical attraction 2 him then u probably did... but if ur just going out with him cuz u feel bad 4 dumping him then probably not... well the RuMor? haha what is it? LoL... well u shouldnt believe anything until u acually hear it from HiM. ask him about it.... u may feel uncomfortable... but then you'll never know! HoPe I hElPed! ask me ne thin ne time! xOxO, aLeX

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naTralswtneSs answered Sunday September 19 2004, 12:19 am:
*hey sweetie*

I can help you, thats one question I answered lol n its up to you to beleive the rumor or not I think your better off just asking him n he could lie to you too but your better off asking him or forgetting about all of it now that your happy with him. Your other question the answer to that I dont knwo if you made the right decision or not, but since you say your happy with him and you felt bad when you werent with him, your happy so to me it would seem like you are happy with him! So I hope you stay happy n good luck with him!

*xO 'sberii' Ox*

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2daredvils answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:34 pm:
alright, so far so good. you have been making the right desicions! AWESOME!

depending on the rumor, you might want to ask your boyfriend about it. find him at a good time. talk to him calmly, casual, and slowly.



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Laura answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:19 pm:
It's not too long. :)

Anyway, yeah, it's good that you got back together. It was kinda wrong to dump him over a rumor. Just ask him if he's heard it, and if it's true. Just be flat out, and if he's really a great guy, he'll tell you. So, 1. Getting back together with him? Yes. 2. Not unless you ask him about it. 3. Hope I did!

~Laura~

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judith16 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:16 pm:
Ok

listen...

for starters he sounds like a wonderful guy!

the rumor you heard im almost 100% sure its NOT true...rumors hardly EVER are!

I'm 16 years old and I do believe you made the correct decision...

you go girlfriend!

judith (the lil' helper)

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xplisit15 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:15 pm:
Ok, rumors are usually wrong! You should ask him about it before you guys make anything official again.

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AquamarineRose answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:06 pm:
You didn't really elaborate on some things so the questions are a little difficult to answer.But I will try my best.

1.You made the right decision of getting back together with him if you are really happy with him and still like him.If you don't then no and maybe you should re-think it...
2.That seriously depends on how nasty the rumor was.For example if it was he hooked up with the school slut or picked his nose boogers in class. So yeah it just depends what it was and how far out it was.
3.Hopefully I helped.And if not I am sorry.If I answered things differently then you really meant...just restate the question add details and drop it in my inbox.

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Sherry answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:56 pm:
You did make the right desicsion and no you shouldent believe the rumor. Just talk to him about the rumor and ask him if its true. Dont believe other people..

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