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well.. i have a boyfriend.. and i really love him and stuff but sometimes i feel like hes not treating me "best" although he seems a little obsessed.. haha and theres about 6 other guys that i could go to.. but i know if i break up wtih him for them ill never be able to get over him! hes an awesome guy.. help please!
im a really generous rater...!!
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talk to yoru boyfriend and explain how you feel. thats the only way you will know if your relationship is going to last. but dont finish him for someone else, its a bad idea. you will always want to know if your relationship could have worked and regret finishing him. so see where your relationship is going first, and if its not going anywhere then its best to finish him. bt remember talk to him frtst! honesty is the best thing in a relationship.
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It's never a good idea to break up with someone for someone else - let your current relationship sink or swim on its own merits.
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You are just going to have to share your thoughts and feelings with this this guy. Communication and honesty are important in a good relationship.
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I think that you should stay with him, as a guy I get tempted to want to go out with other girls but thats natural. Everytime you want to date other guys, think of your boyfrined, it always works for me and I hope it works for you.
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The only thing you can do without breaking up with him is to talk to your boyfriend and explain how you feel about him. If he's an awesome guy, then he should listen and will try to fix this. Just tell him that you love him but you feel that he's not treating you right and he needs to fix that. Communicating with your boyfriend will make things better and you don't have to break up with him.
-Karen
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This kinda seems like my stories but lets see. If he's obsessed thats not good and you should talk to him if that doesnt work try to act like your obessed with him and hopefully he'll get the point. Look on the up side, you should be happy because some guys dont even bother paying attention to their girlfriends and he could really care for you but then again obsessing is just way too far. If you ever break up with him, of course it'll be hard to get over him and then see him with another girl but he'll probably feel the same way about you when your around other guys. So when you make ur decsion on breaking up think wisely. good luck!<br> ♥ amrit
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Just think.. if there are several other guys you can go out with that's great. But do they treat you better than your bf does? If they do, go for it, or just tell you're bf that things arent working out and maybe you can try again when he appreciates you more. It may sound mean, but if he's really an awesome guy, he'll start treating you the way you deserve to be treated.
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this has happened to me b4, try talking to him or getting your friend to talk to him, and tell him to give you a bit of space. if that doesn't work than just follow you heart, if you love a nother boy more then just break up with this guy and see if yu have a chance.
good-luck!
-dorinflower55
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if hes so awesome then think of the certain thing that you feel is missing. if hes so great then dont give him up! dont break up with him for another boy but if you do break up with him give yourself some time to get over him. good luck!
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your just going to have to choose who means more or go by who has the most guts to say he loves you and means it.i had the same promblem i dumped all of them really all the boys just had to come up to me and say i love you maybe you will find the one for you that has true love towards you
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just get down with him and talk to him tell him how your feeling...remember communication is vital to a relationship..if you really feel that way about this guy and he feels the same about you then he will listen and understand but if he keeps being unkind or treating you badly(if he does or you are just high mateinance-no offense if you are we all are in a way-)then you dont deserve that and should leave him behind.
<3 ya
hope i helped
Good Luck
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Well just talk to him about him, if hes an awesome guy I'm sure he'll take what you said and try to make things better. Just tell him that hes a great guy but sometimes you treat me bad and I dont want to break up or anything. I just wanna talk about it. I'm sure he'll unterstand and apoligize and try to make things better.
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Your'e just going to have to share your thoughts and feelings with this person. Simple as that. Communication and honesty are vital in a good relationship.
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