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I know making-out is like kissing, but how do you position your mouth? When do you use tounge? I'm afraid I'll mess up.

ok, well, the first time i made-out with someone i just did what felt natural and it worked! i mean, maybe you should just try it. let him initiate the tounge. thing you do the tounge. follow his rythm!
~mandy

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like my sister, i get it, i might need your help sometime, is that alrite with you?

of course sweetie! anything you need!

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i sound stupid but im only 13 and i have no clue how to but... i really wanna know how u make out with a guy

please help!!!

alright, making out is just like kissing but you're ussually on top of each other and you ussualy are naked and stuff. it's like sex without the intercourse basically!!!

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This has probably been asked a million times, but me and my friend like the same guy. She doesn't know I like him, but I overheard her telling someone else about how she REALLY liked him... but the problem is, so do I. He doesn't know that either of us like him, and I don't want her to tell him, because I really like him too, but she's known him longer, so they're better friends. I know this sounds selfish, but I want him to myself, lol. I don't want her to get mad at me, though. I know everyone says "pick your friend over the boyfriend" but is there any way to compromise?

omg, this like just happened to my friends! ok, just so you know, in the end, he picked my friend named julia, and my friend emmy was so upset, she cried for a while and then she told julia that she wasn't going to be her friend anymore.
~2 weeks lata~
emmy told julia that she was sorry and then it all basically worked out. the truth is that you can't both have the guy. one of you is going to 'lose'. prepare yourself and i just hope it works out for you!!!!
~mandy

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Well i really like this guy (mason) but of course he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me ALOT and is always hangn around with me, but then this girl seyd "She wants you to break up with yur g/f so yuu can go out with her" AND I NEVR SEYD THAT .. im so mad, he wont talk to me anymore! =[ **-- I rate 5s --**

this kinda happened to me. just don't get mad, and calmy tell him to not say that. slap him if you have to! this guy is like not someone who you should like if he's treating you like this! you deserve better!!!
~mandy

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i really like my friend and i poured my heart out to him (after we told him i liked him 3 months earlier!) and he goes oh you still like me???? and so it was awkward for a while but hes been liek more normal anyway like this week is spring break and he hasnt been on so i went on an old sn and he WAS on so i found out HE BLOCKED ME!!!! i am so upset right now and i keep trying to get over him..please help me what to dO?!?! i am 14 female--hes 14 male

i think you might've freaked him out a little bit. you shouldn't confess your love or chase after any guy, GUYS like to do the chasing!
~mandy

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Well, i was wondering. It's dumb. And gross. Whats cum??

yay, my kind of quesiton! ok, it's this white thick liquid that comes out of a guys dick when he is so incredibly turned on, ussually after he has been given a bj!

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this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K)

ok, well, the only thing to do is to tell the truth. i know you might wanna impress a guy. but, if you're a virgin and you tell him and he's not into that, then let him get over it. you don't wanna be with someone like that anyways. and, since no one ever truly does the right thing or tells the truth or w/e, and you're not sure what to do, just say, "it's personal". and then let him think what he wants to, but i wouldn't lie about that kind of stuff, it could come back to haunt you later or something. i hope i've helped!
~mandy

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I have a friend.. lets call her... loogie. Well loogie and I have been best friends for 3 years. I love her to death! (as a friend.. duh) but she is just kinda annoying!! I mean my friend and me had plans to go to the movies. Well the night before I asked loogie to spend the night. I called the person I was going to the movies with to make sure it was still happening or whatever.. MY FRIEND GOT SO MAD AT ME!! because she wasnt invited. I mean I cant spend all my time with her! Shes not my ONLY friend!! What do I do to tell her I have other friends and she doesnt have a hold on me?

i have a friend exactly like 'loogie'. she always does that. but, you just gotta tell her exactly what you just said. just tell her that "i love ya to death, but i have other friends that i like to see sometimes, too." i think it would help if you invited her AND one of your other friends to do somethin together. just remember that you're a good friend who cares about her!
~mandy

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I live in Texas. You live in Texas. You are a hooker. I am a male. What part of Texas do you live in? And do you have AIM?

(And no, I'm not so much about to ask you for sex, I'm in college, I have no money.)

i do, but i dont' want to put it all over this, so send me a question telling me your aim s/n and tehn i'll talk to you. take it or leave it!

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will somebody please explain the law of conservation of momentum in words that i can actually understand?! i've tried looking it up online but when i read it i am getting so confused! and please help asap! project due tomorrow! thanks ahead of time!

momentum cannot be created or destroyed

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Hi right well i went out with my two best friends today called k and m we went to a theme park! and some of the rides were two person seats! m always wanted to go with k she never seems to want to be with me on anything and im confused! my friends mean everything to me and i dont want to have a big argument! how do i sort this problem out becauses it kind of feels like she likes k more even though ive been best friend with them both same amount of time and i like them both the same!
please help rate high! sorry its a bit long

well, i really don't wanna sound harsh, bcuz it's not really your fault but just a few thoughts: maybe your friend doesn't feel safe riding with you, or maybe your friend likes your other friend better, and maybe she is mad at you, but my mom always said before she died, to assume the best about people, and if you can't think of anything you did wrong that they just coincidently rode with your friend. personally, i don't think she meant to hurt your friends feelings. idk, but i hope i've helped and everything works out good for you! *kisses*
~mandy

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ok, im 15/f and i think i like one of my really good guy friends. he flirts with me all the time in math or atleast it seems like he does..one of my really good friends cant believe i like him..what do i do cause i dont know if i can talk myself out of liking him like i do a lot. please help!!

this could be harsh, but follow your heart. don't let your friend push you around. go get your man! but, you're a good friend for consulting people before just doing something! good luck with the hottie!
always here waiting for quesitons,
~mandy

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 and a half years now. We're both in college, and we're about half way across the country from each other, so I only get to see him a few times through out the school year. I'm going home in about a month to see him, and I want to do something special for him, but I'm not sure what. Any ideas? I was thinking about spending the weekend in a hotel, but that can get kind of pricy. Our parents won't let us sleep at each other's houses either, so in order to spend the weekend with him I'll probably have to get a hotel. Does anyone have any other suggestions as to what I could do? Or what else I could do in addition to the hotel? Just to show him how much I care about him? Thanks a bunch

I would see if you could stay in one of your friend's houses for a night or something and have them leave one night so ya'll can do stuff. of course, the best thing would be a hotel. but, yeah, i would see if there is a friend you can stay with..
~mandy

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This is weird to ask but me and my friend has been wondering what is oral sex. We no what normal is but what is oral. -weird wonders

ok, well, oral sex is oral stimulation of your partner's sexual organs. so, i'll just say it. it's when you give a guy a bj(blow job) or suck on his penis. and oral sex from a guy to a girl is basically when a guy sticks his tounge in a girl's vagina or fingers her. sounds weird, huh? always here, so plz ask me a question!
~mandy

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Hey I do track and My ankels and Knees hurt really bad. anyone know how to cure this? and i just got new shoes for the arches of my feet because that hurt.

This may sound funny but, does anyone know some tips to go faster?

we have our first meet on monday!!!

I do short distances, and i wanna do hurdles.

anyone have some tips on hurdles??


THANKS GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!

*-KeLs-*

:)

tips for running:
lean forward.. tilt your body diagonally. this will make you more airodynamic and it will help your speed. don't forget to run heel-to-toe.
I would get one of those comfortable pull on squishy braces for your knee and ankle, other than that, it might just be growing pains!

~mandy

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I ave this "condition" called lumbar lordosis where your lower back curves out so your butt really sticks out. I went to physical therapy and got kick butt abs to control it and now its a lot better. You can barely tell. But I have trouble fitting into jeans (i have to get a few sizes larger), skirts (the sideseam curves), and shorts and capris. I'm skinny and i know i have a good body to fit into this stuff, but it's the back-curving-out-slightly problem that won't let me wear anything but long shorts and huge jeans. Can i have some help or stores where i can get some good clothes?? 13/f SHOULD wear size 16 slim

try american eagle. i have a huge booty, and it works for me! but if you mean 16 in a kids size, then i would try old navy, i used to wear them before american eagle. **to get GOOD jeans, but name brand jeans like hollister and abercrombie! good luck!
~mandy

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

well, this kind of thing happened to me. When my friends asked this guy Chase if he liked me or not, he just looked away. He asked me out 2 days later. I think that he likes you, but he obviously can't show it because he has a girlfrient. so, i think he likes you. but, i think that you should just wait until they break up and see how things go from there. good luck!thanks for asking me!
~mandy

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This sounds so gay but i really wnat a keypal but i dont know how to get one. It would be cool and most of my friends have them.I could share anything with my keypal and wouldn't feel stupid.I erally want one.Anyone know how to get one?

go to www.penpalworld.com and find a penpal, then you can ask if they want to be a 'keypal'!

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Ok, I just wanted to know, if you were going to perform/receive oral sex, on my side (male) should I wear a condom or not? At least the thin thin ones just in case?

always wear one, just to be safe, it's confusing, but i went to this seminar thing and it says to wear a condom during oral!
~mandy

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