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boys This has probably been asked a million times, but me and my friend like the same guy. She doesn't know I like him, but I overheard her telling someone else about how she REALLY liked him... but the problem is, so do I. He doesn't know that either of us like him, and I don't want her to tell him, because I really like him too, but she's known him longer, so they're better friends. I know this sounds selfish, but I want him to myself, lol. I don't want her to get mad at me, though. I know everyone says "pick your friend over the boyfriend" but is there any way to compromise?
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Yes, there is! If you like him, make sure your friend knows! If she is kewl about it, then she's the friend you need to keep, other than the boy. If not, then go for the guy! Ask him out or flirt with him!
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Tell her. You cant help if you like someone and your friend to. Hes not hers and if she gets mad then thats bull. She dont own him so he can go out wiht who ever he wants and so can you. Just tell her that you always liked him. You should let her know. x0 ]
omg, this like just happened to my friends! ok, just so you know, in the end, he picked my friend named julia, and my friend emmy was so upset, she cried for a while and then she told julia that she wasn't going to be her friend anymore.
~2 weeks lata~
emmy told julia that she was sorry and then it all basically worked out. the truth is that you can't both have the guy. one of you is going to 'lose'. prepare yourself and i just hope it works out for you!!!!
~mandy ]
Sit down and talk to your friend about this...maybe she'll understand if not maybe he isn't the right guy for you
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-the erik luver ]
Tell him you like him and start becoming really good friends with him and maybe he will like you more than your best friend and she will never have to know you like him. ]
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