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3 Some??
I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have???
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ok this all depends on you. my friend has 2 guys in bed with her and she loves it me on the other hand thinks its quite weird. this could spice up your love life your girlfriend could be bi or lez at this poit. she doesnt really like the plesure you bring to the table so now she wants to spice it up or she could be testing you seeing if you have the balls to fuck another girl or even fall in love with her bestfriend. but this all depends on what type of girl ur girlfriend is to. but if you want hot sex i sugest you do it my friend have fun and hoped this helped.
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Re-evaluate your relationship with her. If she is not satisfied with the love you give her and feels that she needs another person in your bed then you need to move on. Let her know that you love her and that you only need her in your bed but if she feels that you aren't giving her what she needs that the door is over there. Good luck.
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Being female and therefore knowing females, we can be very crafty bitches. She is testing you. She wants you to say yes so that she can pin the blame on YOU and guilt you into thinking that YOU wanted to have a threesome in the first place. In every disagreement, either it be about where to eat or what color socks to wear this lovely evening, she will somehow bring this up and guilt you into wearing the lavender socks after all.
Some girls are like me, and prefer NOT to sink down to this level but we all have the capability.
Besides, whether she is testing you or if she REALLY wants to bring another person into the relationship, it would just shatter whatever you have into a million pieces you will never be able to pick up no matter how hard you tried.
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K here's ur options
1. Let the 3rd girl in and have a hell of a time and then ur relationship crashes.
2. Miss out and keep ur relationship goin.
(Maybe she's turning queer.)
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most guys wouldnt pass this up. but personally, i think 3 somes are never a good idea. you should never bring a 3rd person into your relationship, especially if it a serious one. if someone were to end up falling for the new person, or if the new person ended up falling for you or your girl, it could cause a lot of problems. or what if your girl sees you treating that other woman a certain way sexually and she gets jealous? i just dont think its a good idea. 3 somes may be fun if no one in it is in a serious relationship, i wouldn't know from experience, but i think if you are in a serious relationship there is no need for another person. ask her if there is something else you can do to spice up your sex life with out bringing another woman in.
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Well man, Sex is a beautiful thing created by God for us to enjoy, BUT only in a marriage covenant with God. So bringing another gurl in is immoral and is sexual immorality which is frowned upon by God.
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lmao, wow.. most guys wouldn't pass this chance up. do what you feel most comfortable with, if your gf loves you, she will understand and go with your decision
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Did you ever think that she wants to bring another woman in for herself? I say if you don't mind and she wants to.... :)
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Um. A 3 some, don't most guys like that? But I would tell her how you feel.
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Uhm, all I can say is do the riight thing, and follow what your heart tells you! <3
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Uhm, peRsonally, I don't think it sounds like a good idea. I'd be insulted if my paRtneR asked me that!! I suppose I see it as... if they want somebody else.. how much could they possibly want me??? Best wishes!! Hope I helped?? =D
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If your girlfriend really loves you, she wouldn't ask you to do anything that you aren't comfortable with. On the other hand, if this is something that you might be interested in, give it a shot. There is another issue, is it possible that this is her way of letting you know that she is questioning her own sexuality?
I hope this helps and feel free to ask me anything else.
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Hmm .. do what you want to do, I guess. You can talk to her about your concerns, + maybe she'll be able to reassure you that things'll stay the same between the two of you. I guess just do what *YOU* want.
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Well if your up for this sorta thing than i guess go for it.. anyways your getting two girls! haha well if u dont want to then tell her you mean something to her than she should accept your decision!
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umm..... if she is like that, then uh.. yeah.. lol if ur not comfortable with the fact then tell her, and if it dont work, then let her go, as much as it hurts, or if u like that sorta thing, then go ahead. but yeah. hope i helped!
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Dude,you should thank God.
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R U KIDDING ME !?!?!?!?!?!?!?! THE MORE THE MERRIER THINK ABOUT IT...... 2 WOMEN!!!!! AND UR GIRL FRIEND WANTS 2/1/1/1 thi is a very rare oppurtunity my friend so just go w/ it!!! have fun!;)
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If ya dont want her in ur sex life.. speak up! hopefully you girlfriend will understand
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well try it .. i mean why not it wont hurt anything nd i doubt it if yooh won bt if yoh dont like it then rtal to her .. tell her yooh feel uncomfortable .. nd im sure shell understand ..
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Bang the chick!!! OHH yeah buddy! dont pass that trash up!
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I don't think this could ruin anything. Try it once. If you think anything could go wrong, talk to your girlfriend about it. Tell her how you feel and that you dont anything in your relationship ruined. Show her you care.
But again, i don't see how your relationship could change and if it worries you, it can't hurt to talk. If it's just your sex life thats worrying you, how could it get worse? Probably adds a little more excitement to it.
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well it was her suggestion not urs so i would just say go for it unless u r not in 2 that kinda stuff but i don't c what guy isn't and i dont think it would hurt nething cuz u aren't forcin her in2 something she doesn't wanna do *STEPHANIE* :)
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If you really dont want another woman in your sex life then just tell your girlfriend no. If she is true and real she wouldnt mind. Hope it helped. Thanks.
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