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Just Wondering


Question Posted Monday August 16 2004, 12:22 pm

This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 4:39 pm:
The best age to start having sex,
is when you know you can take care of a baby.

Because there is always that risk.

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manda44 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:29 pm:
everyone is saying when u get married! i think the best age is when u are in love and u want to remember that person forever and u kno that they love you and want to be with you and when u kno everything u need to kno about sex!
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*Nickyx31* answered Thursday August 26 2004, 9:50 pm:
around 15 or 16 soemtimes even 14 when u think u are ready for it
drop it in my box nicky

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Nicolex31 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 7:56 pm:
Around like 15 or 16 as long as you use a condom drop it in my box if u got anymore questions Nicky

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AngelaMarie824 answered Monday August 23 2004, 5:34 pm:
when u get married

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On3-Sh3xii-Gl answered Monday August 23 2004, 12:35 pm:
when you get married

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skank answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:51 pm:
wehn you get married

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angelic23chika answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:50 pm:
have it when u feel ur ready ule kno if its time

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napalm3400 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 1:16 am:
No age really, just to wait till ur married, it is a sin to do it b4 marriage, plus u dont want to get pregnant and not be married.

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EmbracedxRain answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 8:25 pm:
There is no age. You do it when you feel ready. But you definately shouldn't waste your virginity on someone. Sex is meaningful and you should save yourself for someone you truley care about and wait til your 100% you are ready for the responsibilites and risks. Some people say the longer you wait, the better it will be. Its always good to save yourself until marriage too, its a good moral to have. Hope it helps =) *amber*

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 4:45 pm:
There's no right age to have sex. You can start having sex whenever you feel ready to have sex. If you want to have sex tomorrow, and are ready for the emotional issues and resposibilities, go for it. You decide when your own right age is.
xoxo
ali

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addictedx3punk answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 3:05 pm:
you jsut have to find the right peron .. someone you trust and love with all your heart .. someone you know wont ever hurt you - dont just do it with anyone out there

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bAyBeEgUrL8 answered Monday August 16 2004, 11:45 pm:
The most general answer is to wait for marriage, but maybe thats not your thing, ya know? Whenever you have sex, is when your ready. Its kinda up to you when it happens!! goOd luck babe rate mee!!<3

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x0xSeXiDaNcErx0x answered Monday August 16 2004, 11:11 pm:
There is no right age to start having sex. Tha best time to start having sex is when you feel you're ready n it's with tha right person. Ask me anything, dont be scared :) xOx

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thelonestoic answered Monday August 16 2004, 10:25 pm:
Well the prope thing to say is when u r married but being we live in modern times it when u and ur partner are ready for a very commited relatonship i would wait atleast a year after the first date and make sure u r packing potection.

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AskMeL123 answered Monday August 16 2004, 9:57 pm:
The best time to have sex is when you are ready. No age range, no time limit, nothing of that sort. Don't rush either. Do it with someone you honestly care about. Take my advice, it should be with someone you WANT to remember persay. HeHe! *Melissa*

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Magic answered Monday August 16 2004, 9:31 pm:
if u want to have sex the only time really would be when ur ready no age tells u when it when that one moment comes up and u say i love this person and you know u want to have sex with them

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babygirl17 answered Monday August 16 2004, 9:04 pm:
I was always told to wait until i was married.. but that never happened.. but you should wait until you feel your comfortable enough with yourself and your body.... to have sex... but when you do.... PROTECTION! there are too many diseases out there.. and young moms... so be careful

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Floridagirl1821 answered Monday August 16 2004, 8:07 pm:
When you are mature and can handle the consenquences. You can handle a baby if you get pregant. The best age I think is when you have a steady boyfriend who respects you and you are both almost out of high school/ going into colleage. Also, you both must be mature and ready for the possible negative outcomes!!! Remember:Unwanted things can happen if you do it before you get married!! (Please rate and thanks!)

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x3CaRmEnx3 answered Monday August 16 2004, 6:45 pm:
there is actually no rite age to start as long as u feel ready then u will kno ur tyme is rite ok sweetie.<333 carmen

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Lena answered Monday August 16 2004, 6:44 pm:
when ever you are ready.. but i wouldnt til 16, thats when i did

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bRiT0974 answered Monday August 16 2004, 6:13 pm:
i think the best age is about 16 or 17..you'll feel fully ready bcuz ur hormones will b exploding lol..

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SeXyLaCi_XoX answered Monday August 16 2004, 5:57 pm:
I had sex when I was 15 but that doesn;t mean everyone should. You should do it when you feel liek you are ready to and you are comfortable with your partner

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xOSweEtKittEnxO answered Monday August 16 2004, 5:44 pm:
uh all those other people saying " whenever ur ready" NO!! have sex when youre MARRIED!!! cuz if u get pregnant i GUARANTEE that boy aint gonna stay around! TRUST ME! Do it when U R MARRIED!

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xoxmich3ll3 answered Monday August 16 2004, 5:00 pm:
its not age, wait till you love someone and your ready to give them you're heart

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vlucky40 answered Monday August 16 2004, 4:01 pm:
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xbrunettecutiex answered Monday August 16 2004, 3:21 pm:
whenever you feel ready and know for a fact that no matter what wil happen in the future you will not regret having sex with that person. there is no certain age

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lovelyrita answered Monday August 16 2004, 3:13 pm:
People often start having sex before they're emotionally mature, which can cause a lot of problems. I can't tell you when you'll be ready, but what I CAN tell you is to get your ass to Planned Parenthood if you're even thinking about having sex. You can get free birth control if you're under 18 (or you can get it through your health care provider, if your parents are cool with you going on the pill).

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princesskisses1 answered Monday August 16 2004, 2:57 pm:
the gurl under me jeanine DAMN GURL U'S A HOE, 14 AND ALREADY HAD SEX, DDDAAAMMMMNNNN UR GONNA B PREGNANT BY THE AGE OF 16! anyways gurl theres not an age on when 2 have sex. its when u find the right person and basically what everybody else has been saying just wait till ur ready and feel comfortable. dont let any1 peer pressure u into doing anything u dont want 2 do. PRINCESSKISSES1

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jeanine278972 answered Monday August 16 2004, 2:26 pm:
Whenever u r ready. if u feel comfortable having sex, then ur old enuff to have sex. im only 14 and i have had sex before. if u dont feel comfortable with urself, then ur not old enuff or w/e.

Hope I helped!! Drop one in the inbox if u need anything else!!

**Jeanine**

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spoiledx3shortii answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:59 pm:
Theres no BeSt AgE.. whenever you feel like you are ready to commit to haviing a baby if u do get pregnant.. dont have sex unless you are willing to have to practically give up your life for a baby...
HOPE I HELPED!!! =D
Rate me Plzz!
<33 xox court xox

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:57 pm:
you should start having sex whenever you think you're ready. if you dont think you are then you should wait. not everyone is ready to have sex at the same age and some people want to wait until they are married. hope i helped.

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crystal200022us answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:37 pm:
Well, I don't think it's about age. I think you should wait until you're married. I had sex when I was 17 and regret it even though I married that person. It wasn't as special on our wedding night so I recommend waiting until you're married. I hope this helps!
Crystal

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liddylflirtx3 answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:24 pm:
Personally, I'm waiting for marriage, but I think 15 is too young to have sex. Maybe if you really love a guy when you're a couple years older it's OK. I don't know an exact age to start having sex =/

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confusedd... answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:23 pm:
no dont hes not worth it

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bAbYCHeeR792 answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:22 pm:
Your a little young, but make sure you can handel the responsablities if the condome breaks...

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Karen answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:19 pm:
There is really no best age to start having sex. When you feel ready, then you can start having sex. But I think around your age is when you should start having sex. That's my opinion. Just remember, use protection lol. Hope I helped :)

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Untouched1 answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:06 pm:
there is no best age its just when you really feel ready to go for it but its all up to the person there is no best age
-Cass-

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VBabi13 answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:56 pm:
Hey! Well therre's no Best age in havin sex! but usually ppl say "Save sex for marriage!" cuz then that person is committed to u, N they wouldn't use u! Cuz havin sex is suttin special, so u would want to do it to someone u love, N share ur life wit! u kno? Cuz Every Action HAS A CONSEQUENCE!!!! If u still doubt urself or insecure bout suttin, it means ur not ready yet! But stayin Abstinence isn't bad! Losing ur virginity isn't like da things these dae! cuz look, if u love this guy, N he loves u! u guys get married, N @ ur honeymoon he says "i saved this((his virginity)) for da person i loved N dat i'll share the rest of muh life wit", N for u, u can't give him dat sacred or special back besides ur love!herre put it this way! let's say u guys had presents for eachotha, N da present represents ur viginity! Well he gave u da present! it's a brand new shoe, never worn or anything! still clean N nice! well then u gave him da present he opened it, it's worn out, N a bit dirty! would u want to give someone dat kind of present? NO! Well i hope this makes sense*lol* Hope i helped,if u need anything else stopp by muh inbox! Take CAre!
-Phuong

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BeezKneez answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:54 pm:
Well, the best time is probably after marriage, however u may not choose 2 wait that long. Make sure that ur ready 4 sex, and that u have no doubts about it. U don't wanna do sumthin and then regret it later. ALso, if u decide 2 have sex, make sure u are safe and use protection.

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jokerzgrl answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:51 pm:
Don't have sex if you feel pressured. Make sure its time that you are ready. I'm also 15, and yeah, I've thought about it, but I'm not comfortable with a guy being obscenely close to me. Its something that I feel you have to be mature enough to handle, even if it isn't your first time, you always have to be comfortable, and maintain respect for yourself...But I honestly think you should wait, but its your decision that you have to live with.
Much Love,
Victoria

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BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:49 pm:
theres really no age yooh should start .. wen yooh find that person that yooh decide is the right person to have sex with then yooh jus do it .. yooh dont kno wen that is though .. so if your ready then go for it jus have protection ..well i hope i helped [ . megan . ]

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Dom answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:49 pm:
Well my idea is that if anyone starts wondering when the best age is to start having sex should be that year cause if they are wondering then then that is the best time to know that your ready but you have to love someone and have to be 100% sure that you love him/her and also that they are ready too and also consider what will happen if you do have sex if your friendship will break if it will go on to a higher level that kind of thing hoped my advice helped
~Dom

p.s. there is no actual age to consider of having sex like everyone says you just know and you got to be ready for it

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:49 pm:
This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but it REALLY IS the best, and only, answeR to youR question : WHEN YOU'RE READY!! Only YOU know when you can staRt having sex! HoweveR, I Recommend waiting until you find someone special to shaRe it with!! Sex is a BIG step and a HUGE Responsibility!!! Be smaRt about it! WhateveR you do.. make shoRe you use condoms AND biRth contRol!! Also, it is EXTREMELY impoRtant to KNOW the Risks involved!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D

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tinkerbell answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:45 pm:
There is no best age. THe best age is when you are mature enough to handle the outcome if anything should happen. Think about the possible situations and if you would be able to handle them. Also the best age is when you feel secure in your decision to have sex. If you have any doubts than you aren't ready! **Kacie**

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Monday August 16 2004, 12:41 pm:
you can be any age as long as u are comfortable doing it and not bein presured into it. I mean im 13 and i wanna have sex wid my bf of alomost 10 months but i think im waitin till im 100% sure im ready 2 meaning like when im 15 or 16 but iz your choice so do wat u wanna juss be safe!! hope i helped if u have n emore questions drop 1 in the inbox k hun!


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