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E-mail: littlchika420@yahoo.com
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HAY IM 17 I LIVE IN ORLANDO FLORIDA I MET THIS KID IN CANADA THAT I TRULY LIKE...WE TALK A LOT ONLINE WE EMAIL N SOMETIMES TALK TO EACH OTHER ON THE PHONE..WELL MY FEELINGS ARE GETTING STRONGR EVERYTIME WE TALK N WE BOTH TOLD EACH OTHER HOW WE FEEL..WE JUST KNOW WE CAN'T WORKOUT CAUSE HE LIVES SO FAR AWAY DAMN...SOMETIMES WE VISIT ONE ANOTHER BUT MOSTLY WE TALK ONLINE N USE WEBCAM..I MEAN THE ONLY WAY I CAN B WITH HIM IS IF I MOVE UP THERE BUT THEN I WOULD HAVE TO LEAVE MY FAMILY IS IT WORTH IT?..WHAT SHOULD I DO?..PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE? (link)
okaii.. sorry mii comp broke so i havent answerd in a lOng while! okaii.. i say your famly will be there for the rest of your life but this guy wont! he isnt gunna wait for you so if you think its worth giving it a try then you should because you could aways go back to your family because they will never deny you or tell you that you cant come back.. i think you should go to him and try it out and see if it works if not you could always go back to your family in Orlando.. hope it works! gOodLuCk!


I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!? (link)
theres nothing rong with takeing alot of pix but there has to be a limit i mean if you have 400 RECENT pix's then i think you should stop takeing alot of pictures just cut down yu dont have to stop just because people tell you too! hope i helped.. gOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


hey i rely lik dis girl i told her that i liked her and asked her out but she said shell think about it but how long shud i wait b fore lookin for sum one else and im 14 (link)
okaii id wait a week or two but thoes words really arnt that great.. so just wait if not look for someone new... hope i helped... gOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do

16/f (link)
if yur body tells you diffrent then wait... you dont need to rush into aniithing you dont wanna rush into! hope i helped! gOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


Hey, My name is Anna and I'm 14! This is my situation, .last Christmas I met this guy named Colin. I was at my friends house and we were just playing basketball and he came and introduced hisself blah blah blah. The thing is that he lives in New Hampshire and I live in Florida. My first impression of him was that he was ugly and I would probably never talk to him again in my life. But that didn't happen, I stayed another day at my friends hosue and we hung out most of the day. He told my friend Kati that he liked me. We kept in touch over the computer and over the phone. We ended up going out and having a long distance relationship. But then we broke up. Anyhoo, he just visited a couple weeks ago and I spent two days with him at his house alone with his friend Jon. While I was there I hung out in his room and we watched movies and went swimming and stuff. We cuddled and just had a great time. While I was close to him I was asking him if he thought he was in love. He said he thinks he is (with me) but the location thing came up again. Well I don't need to tell you about the whole day but after he left I couldn't stop thinking about him, I've had dreams about him. I seriously thought I was in love until I heard from his friends what he's really like. One of his friends told me what he said about this girl Sarah. He was swimming and the water was cold right so he made a comment that in the cold water his dick gets hard then when he went into the warm water it wasn't anymore. Then when Sarah came out in her bikini it was hard again. When I found this out I was sooo mad..Other than the fact that he likes this girl. (Supossedly) Well..I'm really confused because we got into a little fight over the interent and I told him how upset and hurt I was..he just said he was pissed and that IT WAS A JOKE! Well I appoligized to him and I kinda got a reality check that maybe I'm not in love..Well..why am I having dreams that I want to marry this guy? And I'm scared to call him too. I just don't know how to sort out my feelings. He was the first guy I made out with. And he tells me I'm gogerous and everything but he tells every girl that I heard. And I still don't think he feels the same way so I don't know if I should jsut give up, move on, or tell him about my true feelings. Also whenever I talk to him on the internet he never really says anything other than what's up or what did you do today stuff like that. He never tells me to call him either and he never calls me so I don't know how to read him. And if I wore to tell him about how I feel I wouldn't know how to do it. It's so different while he's in New Hampshire and I'm here. We both have different lives and we loose touch and it's like we're just friends not even close friends. But I just can't get my mind off of him and when he is down I get so excited and I don't want to get my heart broken but I might have already. Plus my mom is superly overpretective so I'm not around guys that much at all and well she let me go over to his hosue with out supervision and I don't know if this is crazy or not but I'm thinking it might be fate. That we were meant to be together. It all makes sense kinda? but I just can't put the pieces together. Maybe you can help me with that. Well, Thank you sooo soo much for helping me out. I'm soo soo sorry that it was so long. Hope you have a great day or night whichever it is when you read this lol. (link)
i have the same problem talk to me on aim..
gRandE x culO 69
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


r gurls suposed to shave their pussy? cuz i knoe that sume guys like it and others don't care but idk if i should or shouldn't please help me soon!
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if you shave down there there are more chances of infection.. i donno do what you like.. hope i helped...
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?
signed-
-what to do? (link)
that isnt rong at all you can do whatever you want i mean you dont have to settle down when you dont want to.. you might be haveing to much time playing the feild!! do whatever makes you confortable... hope i helped! xOx gurliie..
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


my best friend has a crush on this guy but the problem is he has a girlfriend! he is only telling my best friend that he loves her and shit because she will do "stuff" with him that his gf wont do! i dont want my best friend to be a slut and especially with a guy that already gave his heart away! (link)
if i where you i would tell your friend be4 she gets her heart broken!! and you dont want her to learn the hard waii now do you?
hope i helped.. ((*gOodLuCk!*))
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


my mom wants me to live with her my dad wants me to live with him.My mom lives in Michigan , my dad lives in Arizona i dont no what to do i have to pick witch one i want to live with befor school starts i have not seen my dad in 2 years no that im with him im having the time of my life (link)
if you are haveing the time of your life with your dad then staii with him and visit your mom on school breaks... hope i helped..gOodLuCk!
lOvE aLwaii'Z..
xAmiiEx


yet another poem-

There is a little place, here, inside my head, where everything hides, everything I dread.

There is another place where all funny things hide, all the laughs that I've had stay quietly inside.

There is one last place where my love stays apart from the rest, this little place is my heart and I think I like it best. (link)
qreat poem!!
lovE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx


I have feelings for my best friend. He has liked me a really long time, but I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend, the one that just got out of jail,. My best friend is always there for me and I know he wont hurt me, but I will hurt him just because of the fact that I have feelings for other people. I dont know if I should just wait and find out what happens, but whenever me and my ex-boyfriend started goin out my best friend told me that he couldnt be my friend anymore and it made me really depressed. What should I do about this whole situation? (link)
okaii... your best friend should be there no matter what! maby you should just be friends with both of them because if not then your gunna end up hurting both of them and you will lose both... if not i would chose one.. ((now i cant help you with that)) and it is a hard choce just think of this....

im sTucK bEtWeEn tWo wiTcH sHOuLd i ChOoSe..
tHe OnE i LoVe..
OR
tHe OnE tHaT lOvEs MeE..

hOpE i HeLpEd..
lOvE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx


there is this guy and he likes me he is really weird but his parents are friends with my parents so he always comes over!! he bugs me so much but i dont want to be mean so how should i deal with him? (link)
tell him that you need your space your a girl i think he will understand.. ;) gOodLuCK!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx


Me and my boyfriend are so close. He comes over almost everyday but the problem is we cant make out because it seems like my mom is always right there. what should i do before he dumps me for someone else? (link)
talk to your mom tell her she doesnt need to be there ALL THE TIME! if he really like you he wouldn't dump you if aniithing he would understand! ;)
lOvE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx


me n my bf were layin on eachother w/ no pants or underwear on but we didnt have sex bc i wasnt on the pill n we didnt have a condom but he was like rubbing his dick on me and after we were done i was like wet from his cum and someone on the hellz angelz board told me theres a big chance i could be pregnant is it true? bc i dont understand how i could be pregnat if im still a virgin? plz help im rilly nervous now im only 14:-/ (link)
i dont think you could get preg. by not having sex.. its like saiing that you could get preg by getting fingered... lOl witch would NEVER happen.. dont worry about it but if i where yu in a week go to the store and buy a pregnancy test... and do it just to make shure... gOodLuCk!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
xAmiiEx


I like this ok and I asked her out she said yes and her mom said I was to old for her what should I do? (link)
just ask her what is gunna be going on between you two if you guys cant go out without her mom getting into it.. gOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


I really like this kid. I asked him if he liked me online one time, and he said yeah. So the next day in person my sister says "Ohh you love her!" and he goes I only like her as a friend. I don't understand though, cuz he said he liked me. He acts like he doesn't like me most of the time, but sometimes he kind of acts like he's flirting. My friend thinks he likes me, but does and doesn't want to show it at times. Do you think she's right? Please help me! I'll rate ya :)
signed,
boy trouble! (link)
sOmetimes guys will mess with your head.. you need to talk to him and ask him be like what is going on between me and you and he WILL tell you... just try it out.. gOodLuCk..
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


In the beginning of the year one of my ex-boyfriends got put into jail and whenever he came back he asked me. Well I told him I would go out with him if he swore he wouldnt do drugs anymore and he wouldnt cheat on me. Last week he went to his friends house and got high and drunk and told a girl he would go out with her well he call me that same night and was crying and told me all about it and then I called his older brother and his brother told me that he had made out with another girl at the movies that sunday. Well i got really upset with him and we broke up. That friday he was at the skatin ring with the girl and he was cryin because he missed me and I was cryin because I missed him. He told me that he would try to stop doin drugs and that he really loved me and that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Should I give him another chance? I am a girl and im 15 years old.
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Well if he cheated on you once what makes you think he wont do it again.. trust me i had about 2 serious bf's that cheated on me and they said they wouldnt and i caught them myself!! i think its time for you guys to go your seprate waii'z.. hOpe i hELpEd.. xOx gOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her? (link)
tell her that you dont think its a good ideal tell her she could get pregnatant.. tell her everything bad about it cuz everytime someone thinks of haveing sex they think of all the good things but they never notice all the bad that could happen! hOpe i helPed! gOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period? (link)
noo.. yOu wOnt get yOur periOd fOa nine mOnths.. gOodLuCk w. the babiie..
lOvE,
xAmiiEx


what are the side affects of birth control? and can i get it w/o telling my mom? if so how...and what is the day after pill and all that? and how can i get it? (link)
yOu shOuld gO tO the dOctOr and tell them tO keep it cOnfidntial... i dOnnO hOpe it helped.. qOodLuCk!
lOvE,
xAmiiEx




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