[name] Marisa [/name]
[handle] xxgorgeouslyjealous [/handle]
[age] 13 [/age]
[music] ska/punk (old-skool ND) [/music]
[obsessions] Degrassi, Roleplay, Oekaki, Neopets, Nerdish Crap, Tom DeLonge, Ryan Cooley [/obsessions]
[quotie] Narf. [/quotie]
E-mail: xxgorgeouslyjealous@hotmail.com
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Occupation: Student, duh.
Age: 13
AIM: ToTaL HaTe 95 xx
Member Since: July 19, 2004
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My husband is a sweet guy but sometimes I think he has his priorities mixed up. He was going to bring his friend flowers for her B-day, which I was fine with, but he found out she is having a few stressful problems and now wants to give her a spa package, which is like $60-$80. We are not poor, but money is a little tight, we already went to an expensive dinner with her, isn't that enough?
I would never spend that much even on my family. What makes me mad is that he is so determined to do something nice for her, but he wouldn't go out and get his mother a card for Mothers Day. Or for Valentines Day I got flowers a week before just because, but on the actual day, I was home sick with the flu and I got nothing, and we never did anything later. I know his heart is in the right place, but I wish he would put the people that really love him up higher on his priority list. Am I being selfish, or jealous, or am I right to be upset? (link)
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You certainly have a right to be upset. Certainly, certainly, certainly.
Talk to him about his jumbled priorities, and explain how it makes you feel. Make sure you don't put the woman he is being so generous to down in the process, for it isn't her fault that she is being treated so well by your husband.
Good luck.
xoxo,
Marisa. (xxgorgeouslyjealous)
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I recently got married and ny husband has been emotionally and financially abusive. For example...I was recently diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome and he has not been helping me out. He says he doesn't care how I feel and to suck it up. He does not pay the bills and we have shut off notices for the electric, phone, and cable. Yet he won't allow me to take over the finances. He goes out and spend the money on himself and playing poker. He took a trip ti Atlantic City without me and spent all of our money. We aren't able to buy groceries even. He yells at me to get a job. But with my medical conditions I am not able to work plus with having three kids under 5 years old...I wouldn't even make enough to cover daycare. He constantly calls me names and criticizes me, underminds my parenting in front of the kids, gets in my face and acts like he is going to hit me just to make me flinch. He calls me fat and ugly and worthless and thats just the nicer words he uses. Why did he marry me if he thought those things about me? I can't live like this any more! I am severly depressed and I am gonna end up in the hospital soon if he doesn't start to help out more with the kids. Just recently he took my wedding ring and engagment ring and throw them out the car window and told me he wants a divorce. We've only been married for a month and a half! What do I do!? (link)
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One word.
Leave.
You don't deserve that abuse. Due to the fact that you're in a serious health condition, take a break from dating, etc. and make your whole life your children and getting well again.
Good luck to you, and pray for your ex so that he get some help...he seems pretty much like he's not worth much at all.
xoxo,
Marisa. (xxgorgeouslyjealous)
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wat does this mean: (link)
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This... -cough- doesn't belong in the 'Babysitting' area of Advicenators, however...since you asked...
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I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!! (link)
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- Basically any No Doubt song from the years 1992-1997.
- Sometimes, Blink-182
- Santeria, Sublime
- Reckless Abandon, Blink-182
- Sell-Out, Reel Big Fish
- She's Gonna Break Soon, Less Than Jake
- Red Hot Moon, Rancid
- Time Bomb, Rancid
- Dip it Low, Christina Milian (Don't ask.)
- Ocean Avenue, Yellowcard
- Capital H, Motion City Soundtrack
- Three Evils, Coheed and Cambria
Good luck. Download these tracks and you shall be happy for the rest of your days. XD
xoxo,
Marisa. (xxgorgeouslyjealous)
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i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
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Everyone has a right to express their opinions, however, the fact of the matter is is that it isn't totally gross or disgusting.
Although you do think this, it's not wrong at all to think so unless you say that to a person's face. This can be very emotionally hurtful.
Hope that helped.
xoxoxo,
Marisa. (xxgorgeouslyjealous)
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