MelpomeneMuse answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:28 pm: I personally think that is narrow-minded. Maybe you should find out some more about gay people: why they are the way they are, etc. That might help you be more accepting. [ MelpomeneMuse's advice column | Ask MelpomeneMuse A Question ]
xxgorgeouslyjealous answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:56 am: Everyone has a right to express their opinions, however, the fact of the matter is is that it isn't totally gross or disgusting.
Although you do think this, it's not wrong at all to think so unless you say that to a person's face. This can be very emotionally hurtful.
KrAzI_KaT_74 answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:17 pm: wut is sum 1 said it's gross and disgusting to be straight, how would that make u feel, Yes it is your opinon and your entitled to it, but i have naybers who r 2 lesbians, the only way that they're different from me is they like girls and i like guys, they still have wonderful personalities, it's just they'd rather be with sum1 like them! but hey it's not wrong to have n opinion! [ KrAzI_KaT_74's advice column | Ask KrAzI_KaT_74 A Question ]
sailorptah answered Saturday June 12 2004, 6:14 pm: Oh, please.
Yes, you are allowed to have your own opinion. (I mean, a friend of mine likes French fries with mayonnaise, and "totally gross and disgusting" is pretty much how I would describe it.)
But this kind of opinion is a bad one to hold. I mean, if you think a different sexual preference is "totally gross and disgusting," why not think that about a different race, or different ethnicity, or different religion? If I'm a Jew and I think Christianity is "totally gross and disgusting", is that wrong?
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday June 5 2004, 5:34 pm: Well im a girl and i think its gross for lesbians but not for gay people.. idk i guess.. idk its hard to explain but we all have our own opinions on things really but then i dont think its completely wrong.. because i have a bi friend she likes both and a gay guy friend xoxo trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
rabidweasel answered Friday January 23 2004, 8:44 am: hmmm i think that your letting you reliegion get in your way of decision making
no its not wrong to feel how you do but i do belive it is wrong to say that soemone who is gay/lesbian is "gross or disgusting" -me [ rabidweasel's advice column | Ask rabidweasel A Question ]
EternalFolly answered Thursday January 22 2004, 7:23 pm: Would it matter if I told you it was "wrong"? If that's how you feel I don't think anything can change that except your own decisions. I personally see nothing wrong with the way other people live their lives as far as sexual orientation. If they're not hitting on you then what's the big deal? [ EternalFolly's advice column | Ask EternalFolly A Question ]
OneMan answered Thursday January 22 2004, 6:48 pm: It's never wrong to have your own opinion. However, I think it IS wrong to label someone else "gross and disgusting" because of a particular lifestyle that they lead. What if people thought you were grotesque and disgusting because of something YOU liked and they didn't? So, no, it's not wrong to have your own opinion, but it's wrong to think less of others because they don't fit into your mental mode. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
Isa answered Thursday January 22 2004, 6:34 pm: We sure can't help the way we feel about some things. But we can help the way we *act* about them. You can believe in whatever you want, and you can think whatever you want, but that doesn't give you the right to do whatever you want. As long as you treat gays the same way as you treat everyone else, I think it's ok for you not to like it.
Remember, sexual preference is not everything about one person. Gays and lesbians can be as nice and as boring, as beautiful and as ugly as everyone else. So don't miss the chance of a gay's friendship just because of this, ok? [ Isa's advice column | Ask Isa A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Thursday January 22 2004, 5:56 pm: No, its just your not open to the idea. But its nothing you can control so don't waist your time thinking about it.
notnormal answered Thursday January 22 2004, 5:31 pm: It isn't wrong to feel it is gross or disgusting, because that is just how you are. It is wrong to treat gay guys and lesbians badly, though. And it is wrong when they expect everyone to feel like they do, to be attracted to the same sex, because we aren't.
I wish it weren't such a big issue. I am ok with someone being gay or lesbian, but I don't want to constantly hear about it, or be confronted by the fact that they have same sex lovers. I don't like to think about the details too much. [ notnormal's advice column | Ask notnormal A Question ]
Pandabalism answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 11:13 pm: I have gay friends. They're cool. But, I don't support them being gay. I think it's wrong as well. But, the way I see it is, it's their life. They'll do what they want no matter what I or anyone else thinks. And, at first I was a little bit afraid to become friends with them, but I learned to look past their sexuality and saw them for them. And they're nice guys, who are cool to talk, to. But, I guess my point is, don't judge people by their sexuality. It's ok to think that being gay is gross, as long as you aren't hurting or making fun of other people. [ Pandabalism's advice column | Ask Pandabalism A Question ]
browneyes answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 10:15 pm: although people think they dont have a say in what sex they like... they really do, it is wrong to be gay or lesbian.. that is what i believe and stand behind. [ browneyes's advice column | Ask browneyes A Question ]
MichiruKaiou answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 9:48 pm: No it is not wrong to think that, a lot of people think that. But as long as you're not harming anyone or criticizing them for it. They're just like anyone else just with a different preference. [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
aka_kittkatt answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 9:17 pm: People don't really have a say in which sex they are in to. That's my opinion.
dwarp answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 8:57 pm: It's your opinion. As long as you don't hurt others or force it on other people, you're entitled to it. I don't nessecarily agree with you, but I can't change how you think.
It really depends on how you act toward gay or lesbian people. If you treat them differently because they are homosexual, I just don't think that's right. You shouldn't judge a person by just one quality. However, if you just disagree with it because of religious beliefs and you don't do anything to harm the other person, physically or mentally, I think you're perfectlly entitled to think that. It really just depends on your actions. [ dwarp's advice column | Ask dwarp A Question ]
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