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i think its wrong


Question Posted Wednesday January 21 2004, 8:14 pm

i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is

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Katie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:06 pm:
well some people would say yes it is but if you want my advice - eveyone has a rite to believe what they want! there is no wrong or right way to look at it. and if people think there is they need help! hope i helped! good luck and God bless

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PS: im keeping my thoughts to myself on this one....sry :-D

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MelpomeneMuse answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:28 pm:
I personally think that is narrow-minded. Maybe you should find out some more about gay people: why they are the way they are, etc. That might help you be more accepting.

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Pink_Flamingo answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 7:33 pm:
You can think what you want. Just dont be rude to people with your opinion, that is not OK.

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xxgorgeouslyjealous answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:56 am:
Everyone has a right to express their opinions, however, the fact of the matter is is that it isn't totally gross or disgusting.

Although you do think this, it's not wrong at all to think so unless you say that to a person's face. This can be very emotionally hurtful.

Hope that helped.

xoxoxo,
Marisa. (xxgorgeouslyjealous)

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MysticalSwirls answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 4:42 pm:
I dont find anything gross or disgusting about being gay or lesbian. But this is one of those things that is your belief. There is no right or wrong answer.
xoxo,
Lara

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xmissybootsx answered Sunday July 11 2004, 8:00 pm:
Everybody is entitled to their opinion..

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KrAzI_KaT_74 answered Friday June 25 2004, 5:17 pm:
wut is sum 1 said it's gross and disgusting to be straight, how would that make u feel, Yes it is your opinon and your entitled to it, but i have naybers who r 2 lesbians, the only way that they're different from me is they like girls and i like guys, they still have wonderful personalities, it's just they'd rather be with sum1 like them! but hey it's not wrong to have n opinion!

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sailorptah answered Saturday June 12 2004, 6:14 pm:
Oh, please.

Yes, you are allowed to have your own opinion. (I mean, a friend of mine likes French fries with mayonnaise, and "totally gross and disgusting" is pretty much how I would describe it.)

But this kind of opinion is a bad one to hold. I mean, if you think a different sexual preference is "totally gross and disgusting," why not think that about a different race, or different ethnicity, or different religion? If I'm a Jew and I think Christianity is "totally gross and disgusting", is that wrong?

My advice: Rethink your opinion.

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sunkistsarah answered Wednesday June 9 2004, 2:42 am:
its ur opinion and ur totally intitled 2 that.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday June 5 2004, 5:34 pm:
Well im a girl and i think its gross for lesbians but not for gay people.. idk i guess.. idk its hard to explain but we all have our own opinions on things really but then i dont think its completely wrong.. because i have a bi friend she likes both and a gay guy friend xoxo trix

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sweetmusic answered Sunday May 2 2004, 11:08 pm:
Yes. It is.

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rabidweasel answered Friday January 23 2004, 8:44 am:
hmmm i think that your letting you reliegion get in your way of decision making
no its not wrong to feel how you do but i do belive it is wrong to say that soemone who is gay/lesbian is "gross or disgusting" -me

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EternalFolly answered Thursday January 22 2004, 7:23 pm:
Would it matter if I told you it was "wrong"? If that's how you feel I don't think anything can change that except your own decisions. I personally see nothing wrong with the way other people live their lives as far as sexual orientation. If they're not hitting on you then what's the big deal?

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OneMan answered Thursday January 22 2004, 6:48 pm:
It's never wrong to have your own opinion. However, I think it IS wrong to label someone else "gross and disgusting" because of a particular lifestyle that they lead. What if people thought you were grotesque and disgusting because of something YOU liked and they didn't? So, no, it's not wrong to have your own opinion, but it's wrong to think less of others because they don't fit into your mental mode.

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Isa answered Thursday January 22 2004, 6:34 pm:
We sure can't help the way we feel about some things. But we can help the way we *act* about them. You can believe in whatever you want, and you can think whatever you want, but that doesn't give you the right to do whatever you want. As long as you treat gays the same way as you treat everyone else, I think it's ok for you not to like it.
Remember, sexual preference is not everything about one person. Gays and lesbians can be as nice and as boring, as beautiful and as ugly as everyone else. So don't miss the chance of a gay's friendship just because of this, ok?

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Cspinoza1 answered Thursday January 22 2004, 5:56 pm:
No, its just your not open to the idea. But its nothing you can control so don't waist your time thinking about it.

Cspinoza1

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notnormal answered Thursday January 22 2004, 5:31 pm:
It isn't wrong to feel it is gross or disgusting, because that is just how you are. It is wrong to treat gay guys and lesbians badly, though. And it is wrong when they expect everyone to feel like they do, to be attracted to the same sex, because we aren't.

I wish it weren't such a big issue. I am ok with someone being gay or lesbian, but I don't want to constantly hear about it, or be confronted by the fact that they have same sex lovers. I don't like to think about the details too much.

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KibonoHikari answered Thursday January 22 2004, 11:40 am:
it's not gross to be gay or a lesian.. itfthats what someone is you cant hate them for it its just their way of seeing things

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Pandabalism answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 11:13 pm:
I have gay friends. They're cool. But, I don't support them being gay. I think it's wrong as well. But, the way I see it is, it's their life. They'll do what they want no matter what I or anyone else thinks. And, at first I was a little bit afraid to become friends with them, but I learned to look past their sexuality and saw them for them. And they're nice guys, who are cool to talk, to. But, I guess my point is, don't judge people by their sexuality. It's ok to think that being gay is gross, as long as you aren't hurting or making fun of other people.

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browneyes answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 10:15 pm:
although people think they dont have a say in what sex they like... they really do, it is wrong to be gay or lesbian.. that is what i believe and stand behind.

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MichiruKaiou answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 9:48 pm:
No it is not wrong to think that, a lot of people think that. But as long as you're not harming anyone or criticizing them for it. They're just like anyone else just with a different preference.

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aka_kittkatt answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 9:17 pm:
People don't really have a say in which sex they are in to. That's my opinion.

As long as you just don't make fun of them for what they believe in, I think it's fine. Everyone is entitled to an opinion.

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dwarp answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 8:57 pm:
It's your opinion. As long as you don't hurt others or force it on other people, you're entitled to it. I don't nessecarily agree with you, but I can't change how you think.

It really depends on how you act toward gay or lesbian people. If you treat them differently because they are homosexual, I just don't think that's right. You shouldn't judge a person by just one quality. However, if you just disagree with it because of religious beliefs and you don't do anything to harm the other person, physically or mentally, I think you're perfectlly entitled to think that. It really just depends on your actions.

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shay*shay answered Wednesday January 21 2004, 8:27 pm:
No its not wrong. Many people feal that way as well as I do too.
-shay :-)

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