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well id like to help everyone in the world but ill have to start with you and work my way up
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My father-in-law passed away this week and he had awoodworking shop full of tools. My mother-in-law wants everyone to put their name on what tools they want,but everyone is to afraid to step on someone else's toes. There are 3 sons and 2 son-in-laws.What would be a fair way to distribute the tools? (link)
well... i dont know how much help im gonna be on this one but ill give it my best

i say throw all the tools names in a hat and let everyone draw them and whoever get the name of a certain tool they get that tool

a simple method but very effeciant

-me


What does asl stand for? (link)
Age Sex Location its a common abbrevation

if youd like to know more of them go to the aim webpage and youll find a accronym page giving common accronyms -me


i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
hmmm i think that your letting you reliegion get in your way of decision making
no its not wrong to feel how you do but i do belive it is wrong to say that soemone who is gay/lesbian is "gross or disgusting" -me


My friend asked me if I was goth, I didnt know what to tell her. . I mean goths dont usually go right out and yell IM GOTH! But she asked and I always tell the truth, I said ya. She said ew ur weird. . . She asked me this online, she hasnt seen me for weeks. . and I have maracuously changed, not because this lifestyle has become popular, but because I found it deep down in my heart. She got mad at me and everything .. she gave me a necklas and now she wants it back, she said she'd call the cops if i did anything to it, which i didnt and anyways its mine she gave it to me, is being gothic worth it, i rlly ant to be and i like being this. . but should I give up our friendsship and go gothic, or forget gothic and be ehr frined, I think I should forget her, but please tell me if Im right! (link)
after reading this ive realized that
a true (for the lack of a better word) "gothic" person does not believe in labels so therefore i do not believe that you really belive in what you say but are doing it because it seems to be the new fad

i myself when asked if i am gothic will respond
"why dont you tell me what gothic is and ill give you my answer"

basically this takes care of that persons miscinceptions

i was once asked and responded that i was only to find out later that the person thought a gothic person was nothing more than a satan worshiper (lucifirist not a satanist) and when i told her i wasnt she didnt belive me

basically if shes your friend then she wont care what you look like how you dress or anything like that. shes not your true friends if she feels that way

im sorry to say that i belive you will have to make a deescision of either keeping a friend and lossing who you are or no conforming to what people want you to be and stick it out what comes will come and if someone realizes they want nothing to do with someone like you forget them you dont need them

hope this helps if you need to talk abot it anymore email me at yoyofire.cr@verizon.net
or my aim sn is poeticinjsts i love to talk and meet new people with the same interests as i ^^

-me



when can a girls really notice that a boy likes her?????? (link)
ummm ask him??

me being of the male gender youd think i would know the answer to this question but i dont think there is a answer that will work for everone so look for the little things if he goes out of his way for you thats a sign if he shows up in one of your classes even thought hes not supposed to be there thats a sign (ive tryed it and it seems to work for me) ^^

well i hope this answers your question and if it doesnt please forgive me ive had no sleep in the past 36 hours -me


okay, this guy likes me (im pretty sure) and i want him to ask me out, but hes too shy, obviously, so how do i get him to ask me out soon? (link)
if hes too shy to ask you he may not ever ask you

go for it yourself
ask him if hed like to do something because alot of guys will get weirded out by a "date"
and remember if he says no dont get discuragede ask again later or just let it slide and go find a even more attractive guy -me


Here's a question for you, oh brilliant chris. I've liked this guy forever and i just found out he liked me too. But this guys anger is the worst thing i've ever seen. He gets mad and hits me. And i don't want to talk to him ever again. But I can't hate him because I feel bad everytime I hate him. So we end up not talking and then he comes back and I feel like I have to forgive him. you know what chris. I need to kill him..

too bad that's not legal.

chris you make me laugh. haha. - Nikole the Banana. (link)
you know what nikole...you need to forget this guy

theres plenty of other guys out there....
guys that will love you for who you are

you dont need a guy that your scared of and if he hits you again i told you id kill him for you ^^ no one hits my friends
but most importantly dont feel like you have to give him something to forgive him dont even feel like you have to forgive him
hate him? no you dont have to hate him
you have friends that will hate him for you just dont worry about him dont think about him stay away from him and that should work... but above all nikole remember this

i love you nikole and always will you will always be part of me and i wont forget you i hate it when i see you have a problem

remember those calls at 2 in the morning?
i miss them start doing that again ill listen i may not be too comprehensive but i will listen and give you my imput

much love -me


ok heres the deal, if u know who i am then u know what this is about if u dont know me then dont worry bout it.... ok so we all know it was my idea to break up with her, i didnt want to do it but i figured it would be better if we had time to get over eachother and then we would be cool and be friends when i leave for college, good idea no? so yeah its been about a month since that and i find out that she has a new man, i mean sure i flirt with other girls, but i dont call them and i surtantly DONT go to THEIR HOUSES! so i dont know what the fuck to think, is this a good thing that she over me, are we gona be cool now.,.. wait, hers the kicker... i cant believe i forgot.... we talk and she tells me that she still wants to get back together cuz she still has feelings for me and everything and then i have to find out from a person who i dont even like, and she doesnt like me ither butshe felt i should know this, and i appreciat her telling me but FUCK what the hell is the deall..... im asking a wanna be goth punk for help with my life what have i come to? damnit chirs what do i need to do? (link)
lol love the wanna be goth part

well i hate to say it but i think her dating someone else may have been my fault i told her to move on and that if she still liked you to give it awhile

and yes it is a good thing that she was trying to move on but it shows that she hasnt really and i think thats shes only using this "other guy" to make you jealous.

i personally think that you should say fuck it

do you want to get back together
then do it now if not then isnt it a good thing that shes with someone else then you wont feel bad about going and finding another girl that you like and asking her out

you can always be friends after a break up
im friends with half of the girls thats ive broken up with and the ther half i talk to everyonce in a while i try not to loss contact with anyone the world is too small for someone to pass up a friend

just know that it will probably never be the same between you and her and if you know that she likes you dont get into a position that she may try something on you like if you go to the movies take some people with you or better et take another date to show her that her staying with your choice

if you need to talk about it man you know my number and you see me sometimes come talk ill listen and give you my two cents

-me


I have a big nasty zit on my nose. I want it gone, NOW! What do I do? I'm so mad... it's really noticable, and I'm 26 years old! I shouldn't be getting pimples! (link)
hmm i hate pimples to but im only 16

i use a over the counter system called

nature's cure

it works for me
basically its a cream that you put on up to the times daily and some tablets one for am and one for pm

its the only thing that works for me so i say give it a try

oh and about the "and I'm 26 years old!" part deal with it your going to get them for a while longer my dad just turned 50 and still gets them everyonce in awhile i believe you can get them until your about 55 im not to sure on that though so hey good luck -me


Well I think the subject pretty much gives away what I'm going to ask you...what should we do?

We went to see a film (The Last Samurai btw) on Sunday.

I'm 16, he's 18. Clubbing (my friends suggestion) is not really an option).

Any ideas? (link)
ok so the first date you guys saw a movie

not much time for talking while your trying to watch a movie

how about out somewhere to talk
get to know one another
try a coffee shop not a resturant because its so loud and theres alot more people

dont like coffee?
try a park go for a walk on the beach try a peir
any place where you and him can converse
its normally better that way

now maybe my ideas arent for you....im a hopeless romantic -me


OK, Here's the deal. I kind of dated a guy a while back and when we stopped talking, I turned to his ex-girlfriend and found out a lot of stuff about him. It took so long to get over him and I can finally say that I AM OVER HIM for sure. Anway, his ex and I became confidants and we talked trash about him to each other all the time (ya know like girls do) and in a way, I really think that she's to be credited for me getting over him. Well, we were talking one night and I knew that the two of them had slept together when they were dating (they went out for like 2yrs.) and I told her that I was glad that I hadn't slept with him. He was her first and the only guy that she has slept with. She found out not too long ago that she has cervical cancer...she told me this and continued to inform me that her doctor had told her it was from HPV (the std). Ofcourse, she and I are both convinced that this guy is responsible for giving it to her (after all, he is the only guy that she has ever slept with). That's not my only problem: he has no idea that she has cancer and she is sooo scared to tell him. He and I share a mutual friend and that friend just happens to be my best friend (the two of them on the other hand hardly ever talk). So here's where the advice comes in, "our" friend knows about the cancer thing with the girl (he knows her too) and he has been on MY back about it ever since he found out (an accident by the way)...he wants me to tell the guy that he is carrying HPV and that his ex has cancer. I KNOW that he needs to know but why should I have to tell him??? I haven't even seen the guy in six months, he's dating someone now and chances are they're sleeping together. I would hate for someone else to get a venerial disease just because this guy is the selfish slug of a man that he is but i don't know what to do....PLEASE HELP! (link)
im going to agree with him -me


Dildo sword fights are all right arn't they. I'm playing with my cousin ryan. Jon and Adrienne (link)
i belive someone has been trying to get people to say once again this saying

"it takes all kinds"

-me


My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go. (link)
florida isnt that bad...she can come see me ^_^

-me


i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
tell him or you will never know -me


Why do people who don't know shit about music insist on "answering" some of these questions, when they have absolutely nothing to offer?

I mean, if I were to ask the best way to resolve a chord progression, there would be at least 4 people who would answer by saying that they have no clue. Why? Why do these people feel compelled to answer on subjects they don't know jack-shit about?

p.s. - if you don't play guitar, don't answer guitar questions. If you don't play music, don't answer questions about how to play something or about music theory.

Thank you, that is all. (link)
very nice point but i really do hope that this is not the person who came looking for help for if you are i must call you a ungratful brat... remember this and remember it well "beggers can't be choosers" -me


does anyone have any good advice on how to have the perfect hairdo or style so u can make boys heads turn when u walk by? (link)
well in the event that your are looking for a nice guy and not just one who will talk to you because your hair looks hot then dont worry about it... some of us try to look underneath all of the looks -me


whats an orgie? (link)
an "orgy" is
1. A revel involving unrestrained indulgence, especially sexual activity.
2. Uncontrolled or immoderate indulgence in an activity
3. A secret rite in the cults of ancient Greek or Roman deities, typically involving frenzied singing, dancing, drinking, and sexual activity.

hope that answered your question try a dictionary for all your defination needs they work on the occassion but you do have to turn the pages yourself -me


ok i have had to decide between to guys and i have picked my neighbor not only is he the man of my dreams but is every thing to me i mean im just the girl next door and have the look to but i ran into a problem i cant stop thinking about the other boy can anyone help me find a way to put him in the past as a boyfreind but also be my friend too? (link)
ok you know either you keep asking the same question over and over and over again or you have the same problen as alot of people...either read what other people have asked or get it the hell over with and ask him out -me




...I want world peace. Anyone with me? (link)
well world peace is good and all but as long as its not because the world was taken over by a dictator...other than that there is always the problem with world hunger and a loss of jobs for millions....but if we can find a way to have world peace then im sure we could find a way to keep them in jobs -me


ok, this is kinda embarassing, but i heard that the first time you have sex, it hurts (for a girl)

true...false? (link)
yes its true -me




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