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Help!NOT A BOY PROBLEM
My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go.
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You cant do anything about it unless you adopt her.. which is doubtful but get her address phone number SN yahoo ID and msn email address-trix
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Sadly, if she's a minor, there's not much either of you can do. Just try to put together a plan of communication ( realistic ) that will carry you both over until the time comes that you can see each other again. See if you can get both of your parents to agree on a plan that would allow one of you to visit the other at a preset time. Hopefully, that will do some good.
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there's not really anything you can do.
i would suggest writing or e-mailing each other regularly and maybe visiting in the summer.
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Hey, trust me this has happened to be 6 times in my life and it never gets any easier. The idea of not seeing them everyday makes everything seem so unbearable because they are your friend. But tell her and yourself this is the real test of friendship making your friendship work out. Im not saying its easy but look on the bright side you become stronger. There is nothing you can do im here to tell you the truth and thats the truth you accept it but you make the best of it, your not losing a friend its just become distant.
Cspinoza
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You have a couple of options here..First does her father still live in the same town as you do? Or another family member that she could stay with until at least the school term is over.
If that doesnt work, than you can always keep in touch via emails...
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I don't think there is anything you can do about her moving. It sounds like she is too young to move out with someone else, and her mother would not agree with that plan either. Just stay in close touch with her by phone, email, IM, snail mail, or whatever means you can. She may adjust to the move better than she expects, and if she doesn't you can help her just by being a friend.
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Get her new address?
All you can do is learn to deal with it, accept the change, and work hard at maintaining your friendship.
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You smile and hug her, give her a housewarming gift, and write her letters. It's very simple.
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Florida is great! (I live here).. lol.. well.. there's nothing much she CAN do unless she's 18. If her mom wants to move then there's nothing she can do except try to convince her mom not to. But until (or unless) she's 18 she can't do much since she cannot live on her own.
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u cant really do anything this is between her and her family just wish for the best **** Jesssmart1
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You really have no control over what your friends do. Just hope she has a good time and keep in touch with her.
-shay :-)
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florida isnt that bad...she can come see me ^_^
-me
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I am sorry to say but this is out of your hands. This are family issues that she has to deal with her mom herself. Maybe she can ask her if she can stay with a relative or a family friend but I doubt if her mom would allow her to do that. Just keep your friendship going strong even though you'll be far apart from each other.
Maybe she can come visit you over the summer or vice versa. Make sure to always keep in touch via phone or the internet no matter what.
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