Well hello kiddies...If you're in need of an honest advice then you've come to the right person... because I'll say WHATEVER I think is right whether you like it or not...
Member Since: December 3, 2003
Answers: 88
Last Update: May 17, 2004
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how do i talk to a boy if i don't know his name? (link)
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Start a casual conversation with him about any topic then introduce yourself and asks for his name....That wasn't so hard was it?....
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I would like to start a new business. Where can i get a free advice consultation how to start business and how it works. There should be a free business advice centres. (link)
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I suggest looking for one in the internet. Do a search on free business advise and start from there.
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I would like to request your point of view regarding my current relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. He is a very sweet guy and we have fun, but he does not love me. when I confronted him about this, he said 'it takes me a while to fall in love.' I was in love with him after one month. How long does this guy need? Should I stick around? Or just stay and get hurt again? (link)
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No...I wouldn't stick around if I was in your shoes...How do you expect him to be commited to you if he does not love you. It'll be so easy for him to dump you when the right girl comes along. What if he realize that he will never fall in love with you and wants to move on...Tell me, who's gonna end up feeling hurt here. Don't wait for that moment to arrive. The longer you stay the more it's gonna be painful and difficult to leave. Gather up your courage and dump this guy. Sure it will hurt but there are a lot of things you can do to minimize this. Love needs to be present in any relationship for it to work...
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my husband has said hes thought of having an affair for the emotional interest he has asked me to become more understanding and easy going i would really like to achive this and save my marrige have you any ideas or advice on how i can achive this many thanks (link)
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Why would you want to do this? Don't you have any respect for yourself? If you agree on doing this, there will ALWAYS be this feeling of betrayal inside of you and who knows how long can you handle that before you actually explode...If you can afford to go to a marriage counseling please do...having an affair just to satisfy your own "emotional interest" is not a valid reason why your husband wants to do it...there is probably more to it than that and he either consciously or unconsciously knows it...which is why I'm suggesting you go to counseling they can figure out what is wrong in your marriage...If marriage counseling is not an option for you, you could try sitting down with him and have an honest discussion about your relationship with each other. Find out what's missing and try to fill in the blank together.
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i have friends but the second i turn my back they talk about me make fun of me and they are so two faced and a backstabber because they always go crawling back to my arch arrival enemy antonia what should i do? (link)
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Reality check - THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. Friends support each other through thick or thin. They don't back stab and make fun of each other. I suggest that you find a new set of friends to hang out with...Fast!... before they cause you any further pain and trouble.
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I need help. There is this guy that I have liked for the pass eleven months. We used to be friends and today I talked to him for the first time in a month and he told me to never call him again. he sounded like he was on drugs but one of my friends told me that he is not. If something doesn't happen soon, my best friend will kick his ass. He used to be really nice, but he is being a bitch to me. Ask me a question if you would like
Lizzy (link)
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He made it very clear not to call him again - which means HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU AT ALL....Why would you waste your energy and time to someone who is not and will never be interested in you? If I were you, I'd look for some other guy to crush on who is much nicer and worth your while.
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A PERSON IS ONE OF GURANTER TO HIS FRIEND WHO HAS TAKEN LOAN FROM BANK. THAT FRIEND IS HAVING ENOUGH PROPERTY WHICH HE CAN SELL AND PAY OFF THE LOAN. BUT THAT FRIEND IS DENYING TO DO SO. HE IS GOING TO SELL HIS PROPERTY AND DECIDED TO MAKE PARTIAL PAYMENT OF LOAN TO THE BANK. IN THIS CASE IS THE GURANTEER WILL SUFFER? FURTHER THE ANOTHER GURNATER IS THAT FRIEND'S COUSIN BROTHER. BUT BANK IS NOT SENDING ANY NOTICE ABOUT IT TO THAT COUSIN BROTHER WHO IS ALSO GURANTER.
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The only time the cosigners will get in trouble is when the person who did the loan doesn't make his payment to the bank. If he paid his loan partially, I'm sure there was an agreement between him and the bank that he pays a certain amount monthly or something....as long as he is sending in his payment on time as agreed then the cosigners to this loan has nothing to worry about....but if he is late on his payments or doesn't pay at all then the bank will go after the cosigners....hopefully your friend is a responsible person and won't allow this to happen.
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gonna make this as brief as possible i have a step daughter she is nothing like my two kids she is bossy demanding and tries to run the whole household and gets away with way too much her dad does nothing she gets out her window at nite when we sleep she is very wild she grew up without a mother most of her life i have only been on the scene about 2 yrs she basically hates me so i have to go thru her father with anything i have to say about her and he says i am always being negative towards her but im not she is just unbearable at times all he does is play on his computer all day all nite ignores me and her what should i do .....desperate sorry about the punctuation and the grammer i am terrible at that (link)
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It is hard being a step mom...but you and your husband have to work on this together - not just you. If he is not willing to do his share, I'm sorry to say but things will never work out. The three of you should sit together and lay down the rules on her. If she disobeys any of this given rules then she will get punished. As for the punishment, this is something that you and your husband have to figure out. Make sure that you follow through on this because if you don't then she will think that she can always get away with anything she does. Also, make sure that she feels loved and doesn't feel like an outsider inside her home. Most of the times, teenager act rebelliously because there is something that is bothering them big time. Goodluck!
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HELLO! MY QUESTION IS I'AM STRUGGLING WITH MY WEIGHT.I WEIGHT IN AT 222POUNDS.DO YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION YOU CAN GIVE ME ON THIS MATTER. (link)
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You should consult a physician regarding this. I'm pretty sure you already know that the key to loosing weight is eating a well balanced meal and daily exercise. Ask your doctor if you qualify for that gastric operation. A lot of celebrity are doing this and they really lost a ton of weight.
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I have been dating a guy now for about 2 and a half years. We are both shy and moral people so we haven't done anything but kiss and cuddle together. I think that I love him because when we are close together and when he kisses me I get a feeling like no other (like electricity is running throughout my whole body constantly), but when we are not together and when he is not being loving toward me I feel like I want to end the relationship. We have a lot of differences in our personalities and our likes that constantly get in the way of the relationship, and I am always the one who gives into what he wants. He is a spoiled only child with parents who are close to being rich and I am a mature only child who was taught at a very early age the value of a dollar and my parents are divorced so we don't hve as much money (and my mom is kinda cheap). I am getting really tired of him trying to control me and always getting his way, but everytime I think about breaking up I can't do it because we have been together so long and I think I am ultimately afraid of being single the rest of my life if I don't stay with him. (I don't have any other guys that are even flirting with me at work or college) Do you think I should end it with my boyfriend or continue the relationship? (link)
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Before you do anything drastic, have you ever tried telling your guy how you feel...if not then it's about time you have a serious talk with him and see if he is willing to change his ways...If you've done this to no avail then I would think twice on pursuing this relationship. You shouldn't stay with him just because you are afraid that you won't be able to find yourself another guy - that is just shallow. If he is controlling to you know, it will just get worse as time goes by and far from worse when you get married.
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My crush found out that I liked him. I told my friend to tell him and she did (that's how she found out). Well I walked up as she was telling him, so he walked off. I didn't notice, but I pretend tripped him and smiled at him, you know, just to be funny. But he didn't respond at all-just with really icy body language. When I smiled at him, and he just looked down and walked off as if nothing happened--he didn't even make eye contact like he usually would. I know he felt my leg try to trip him, too.
He's found out before, and he always acted this way (distant), except for once, when he was cool with it (normal). But I don't want him to repeat patterns! He's also got a girlfriend who he's on/off with, but I HOOKED THEM UP IN THE FIRST PLACE! (Doh.)
I was about to cry in class when my friend told me that he said, quote, "I'm scared now...". My other friend who asked said she didn't hear him say that, but she said he just grinned.
Well usually while we're on our way to lunch, he says a few words to me then parts ways. Sometimes he purposely does something. Yesterday he faked going the other way, and bumped me and walked like in front of me so we touched. "Oops...uh, I mean this way."
He always goes the same way.
Well...I was wondering...what has happened? Is he intimidated? Does he think all the fun is taken out of the game when I 'surrender' by telling him the truth? Is he just not interested? Is he thinking it over? Is he scared?
I don't know, that's why I'm asking you. Thanks so much! (link)
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He probably doesn't feel the same way that you do and feels uncomfortable knowing that you have a crush on him which is why he's acting distant and cold towards you...Don't push yourself too much on him or the more you'll scare him away.
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I love this guy, Jace, but he is going out with my so called best friend..... I really want to tell him how i feel.... but i'm really shy about these things....what do i do? (link)
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I suggest keeping your feelings to yourself. Why? First because he is going out with your BEST FRIEND and second is you're going to make a complete fool out of yourself if you do this because he doesn't feel the same way you do...because if he did, he will be dating you rather than your friend. Go out and date other guys. I'm sure you'll find one that is NOT TAKEN and a much better guy than Jace.
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hi im the same person that wrote u guys about how i hate my mother ok she is always complaining on how she gives up everything for me and she does stuff for me which is bull shit she she always is teling me im so ungratful and i hate it when she calls me a little bitch and she is always telling em, to shape up my shitty attitude which is not shitty help me (link)
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You're only making things worse whenever you argue with your mom. You should realize by now there really is nothing you can do here but to abide by her rules since you are still a minor. I suggest keeping a low profile whenever your mom is at home. The more you argue with her the more she is going to be at your case so try to endure her little house rules or whatever and be a good girl! (or atleast pretend to be a good girl)until you reach 18 - by then you have the option of moving out.
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A week or so ago the guy I like asked me out and I said yes. All well and good. But, a few days later he said that he was still hung up on his ex and only girlfriend. I wasn't that thrilled but I coped and we're still good friends.
This puts me in the situation of spending a lot of time with the guy I like and knowing that he likes me but not being able to do anything about it.
I was thinking of asking him to the 6th form ball but I'm not sure whether I should. (link)
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You two could go out as friends, can't you? Unless you're positive he'll say yes then why not. Don't push yourself too much on him or you'll scare him away. Give him time to get over his exgirlfriend.
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hey i need to lose like 10 pounds by the 21 of feb. any ideas?
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Even if you eat healthy foods and exercise daily, I don't think you can lose that much in a short period of time...Unless you don't eat anything at all for that whole two weeks!
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here's the story. im a lesbian, but my family has yet to find out. they have no idea and i want to tell them, but i cant. i know theyll still love me, but i know how much of a disappointment that will be for them(my parents). ive made them happy so many ways, and they said theyre proud to have me as their daughter. and they keep talking about when im going to be a mother some day, and how excited they are because they know theyll be grandparents one day, but thats where i know im going to disappoint them. because theyre not going to get to see their grandchildren.. because.. there wont be any. i REALLY dont want to disappoint them, but i know i will once they find out that the family line ends with me (since i dont have brothers or sisters). so i dont know what to do, i dont want to force myself to be straight, but i dont want to let them down also. i really dont know what to do, ive cried over this situation so much because i can picture their disappointment once they find out. (link)
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You shouldn't force yourself to be somebody you're not. It's obvious that you're not ready to tell your parents who you really are. What's the rush? Take things slow and maybe throw in a little hint once in a while to show them who you really are. There are other great things in life other than having kids of your own so please don't feel bad that you'll never ever gonna give your parents grand children - there are other things you could offer them. In the meantime, what they don't know won't hurt...I'm sure as time pass by you'll someday find the courage to come out in the open to you parents.
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I am 14 turning 15 soon and I am an actress, and I went to a world tour audition called The Lion King On Broadway. Well, at the audition my mom and I were in line, and in front of us was this one mother and her son. And the mother showed my mom and I pictures of her son because he did modeling. I remember he kept on starring at me and flirted with me and I thought he was cute as well. But this was 2 years ago. Well this year 2004 I saw the movie Peter Pan. And after the movie my mom and I said to each other, that boy (Jeremy Sumpter, the boy who played Peter Pan) looks vagely familiar...so later I looked him up and it turns out that he was a model. Do you think I really did meet him??? My other question is...well later in the week I kept on dreaming about him and thinking about him, so, I have four of the Sixth Sences so I can communicate to the angels and I made a bet with myself..."if the light goes on then that means I will someday date Jeremy Sumpter if not..." then the light turned on before I finished my sentence which was (if not the light will not turn on). What do you think that ment? Do you think I did met him, and will someday date him??
Sincerely,
Peter Pan Fan of the Man (link)
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Okay...let's say you did met him. Good for you...But have you ever thought what your chances are of running to him again? and Do you really think that he will still recognize you if ever you ran into him again? Especially now that he is a big star...and you're not. Time to wake up and smell the coffee. It's perfectly fine to idolize someone but please don't keep your hopes up that you and him will be together someday...
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Okay, today at lunch a guy that's friends with my friend "Tim" asked me out for Tim. Nice, huh? Well, problem is, I don't feel the same way about Tim... I don't wanna say no to him, cuz I'd feel soooo horrible, but I don't wanna date someone when I like this other guy A LOT. One of my best friends said that I should date Tim for a week, and dump him if I don't like him. I think that'd be evil! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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It is going to be more horrible if you go out with him and letting him think that you like him too. Whatever happens do not follow your friends advise...that is just wrong. You should tell him right away that you're not interested in going out or a simple "No Thanks" will do. You shouldn't keep him hanging on because if you do, the more you are going to hurt his feelings.
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This guy I like knows I like him but he tends to leed me on sometimes. I don't know if he really likes me or hes just messing around.what do I do.
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confused (link)
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Nothing. I never advise girls to tell guys they like them especially if they're unsure if that guys feels the same thing for them...If you have respect for yourself you'll do nothing. Just enjoy his company when he is around. Wait till he opens up his real feelings for you.
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Hey umm... I asked a question before if I should tell a guy i liked him.... well I did and he thinks im a total freak well im ok but the problem is i think i still like him and am afraid to say i do. i have pain and want to forget him but i think i was REALLY in love with him. how do i forget him?
confused. (link)
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I do hope you've learned your lesson here. Anyways, try not to have a direct contact with him. If you find yourself talking to him, make it very brief. If you find yourself thinking of him, focus your energy in other things. Make sure to keep yourself busy and go out and have fun with friends. Try not to be in the same place with him. The less you see him and the more you keep yourself occupied with other things the easier it will for you to forget him.
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