I would like to request your point of view regarding my current relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. He is a very sweet guy and we have fun, but he does not love me. when I confronted him about this, he said 'it takes me a while to fall in love.' I was in love with him after one month. How long does this guy need? Should I stick around? Or just stay and get hurt again?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Whatever answered Thursday February 26 2004, 1:13 pm: No...I wouldn't stick around if I was in your shoes...How do you expect him to be commited to you if he does not love you. It'll be so easy for him to dump you when the right girl comes along. What if he realize that he will never fall in love with you and wants to move on...Tell me, who's gonna end up feeling hurt here. Don't wait for that moment to arrive. The longer you stay the more it's gonna be painful and difficult to leave. Gather up your courage and dump this guy. Sure it will hurt but there are a lot of things you can do to minimize this. Love needs to be present in any relationship for it to work... [ Whatever's advice column | Ask Whatever A Question ]
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