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Hey umm... I asked a question before if I should tell a guy i liked him.... well I did and he thinks im a total freak well im ok but the problem is i think i still like him and am afraid to say i do. i have pain and want to forget him but i think i was REALLY in love with him. how do i forget him?
confused.
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Yep, been there, done that. I liked this guy, Brian, after he asked me out (then dumped me) for, like, 2 years. It took me forever to get over him, but I did it by getting a crush on someone else. I mean, it's possible to go without liking a guy. I did it for eighteen months! Do everything. Make a list of everything to dislike about him. Write poetry. The trick is to convince your subconscious that he's not worth liking. It's hard, but you'll eventually have to do it. I have a notebook filled with bad poetry asking "why does he torment me?" and crap like that. I can look at it now and laugh my @$$ off, but it helped me get over him. Oh, and don't worry about it being good poetry. ALL of mine sucks. ^_^
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I do hope you've learned your lesson here. Anyways, try not to have a direct contact with him. If you find yourself talking to him, make it very brief. If you find yourself thinking of him, focus your energy in other things. Make sure to keep yourself busy and go out and have fun with friends. Try not to be in the same place with him. The less you see him and the more you keep yourself occupied with other things the easier it will for you to forget him.
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The only way to get over him is not to think about him, and i mean not at all anything that could remind you of him stay away from it.
Cspinoza1
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I wouldn't say you were in love with him. Just had deep feelings of like towards him. If you want to forget about him, it might take time. Go out and have fun. Do things with your friends. Just have fun. Someone better suited for you will come along. And just ignore him. He's a loser if he's calling you names, he needs to grow up.
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You say he thinks you are a total freak? How does he treat you? If he isn't treating you very well, why do you still like him?
I would try to find someone else to like, hopefully someone who feels the same towards you, and treats you better.
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