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he says idk... as in i dont know (link)
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so maybe he has the same feelings for you that you have for him...and perhaps he is to shy to say anything...Why dont you suggest going to a movie or a school dance...Than at the movie just put your hand close to his and see if he tries to hold it....If you are at a school dance, when a slow song comes on tell him it is one of your favorites, and you really want to dance...than see what happens
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what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me.. (link)
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when you ask him who he likes...what does he say?
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There is this guy in one of my classes, and I'm not sure but I think hi MIGHT like me. he's on tha honor role but he's not a nerd. HE's actually kinda cute, but we've only really talked once. we were on a field trip and he just came over and started talking to me. Later I decide to eat lunch with him and he asked if I wanted his oreos. I know that sounds like a question a friend would ask but the way he said it was so sweet a kind (not like other people). So I'm confused. Does he like me or doesn't he. Kinda sounds like a question Shakspere would ask (to be or not to be? That is the question.)
Confused (link)
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I would probably be his friend right now, see if he seems to be interested, or if he is just making converstation, and friends
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Dildo sword fights are all right arn't they. I'm playing with my cousin ryan. Jon and Adrienne (link)
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just make sure not to poke someones eye out
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I am a 31-year-old divorcee with a 4-year-old son. I also am charged with caring for my developmentally disabled 33-year-old brother, who has the mental capacity of 8-year-old. My son's father is moving next week, and taking my child with him. I will not see my son again until Christmas, and then after that not until April. I am devastated that the family courts here in Seattle have allowed this to happen (no, there's nothing wrong with me...my ex just won), and I am now at a loss as to how to handle this. I can't stop crying, I can't take the time off my new job to go to therapy, and I have to be careful falling apart at home because it scared my brother.
HELP? (link)
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It is a great idea to find out if the company you work for has a counselling program. If they do not, than talk to your family doctor, they may know of some kind of support group or counselling program you can get in touch with. Find out if there is any kind of support group in your area that that may have other mothers that are going through or have gone through the same kind of emotional turmoil yuo are going through. Let me know if this is any kind of help for you
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What do boys REALLY like in a girl? All these magazines & stuff say that they love what's inside, not outside. Is this true or is it crap? (link)
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Right now it seems like crap..but it really is...school is tough, and trying to impress that certain someone is really tough....my best advise...dont hurt yourself trying to be someone you are not...people are going to like you for who you are...and right now that may seem like alot of crap...one day you will understand....
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My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go. (link)
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You have a couple of options here..First does her father still live in the same town as you do? Or another family member that she could stay with until at least the school term is over.
If that doesnt work, than you can always keep in touch via emails...
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I have been married to a man I consider my soul mate for eighteen years. We have a 5 year daughter. My father died about a year ago. My husband loved him more than his own father (who is a selfish, egotistical, non-caring male). The loss touched us all greatly. I turned to taking care of my mom (my father's dying wish) and my daughter. I didn't realize that my husband had turned to drugs. On Feb 17, 2003 he was arrested and sentenced to 15 years. His tenative release date is Oct 2013. On Valentine's day (3 days before his arrest) his present to me was a broken leg. I still love this man. He seems to have changed since he has been in jail from the letters that he sends. Ironically it will be Valentine's day before I can see him. He was never violent during the times previous to my father's death. But he built a persona of me in his mind that he seems to hang on to. 10 years is a long time to wait. I have been told by others that he will be a harder person when he gets out. I had returned to school and will get my degree in Spring of 2005. I am not sure if I should remain married to him or not. I am afraid that all the lovely words he is writing is because he is afraid of abandonment. There are a lot of other details too numerous to mention but pertinent to the situation. But because of what he has done I have lost my home, my transportation, and my life. Should I give him a second chance or not? (link)
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So right now by reading what you have wrote, there is some question towards him...He still has 9yrs left in jail, am i correct? And you said you will get your degree in spring 2005...Lets start with his release date, is there an option of early parole?
You seem to be getting your life in order, would taking him back be a positive step for you, or would you be trying to rekindle what you had in the past...You have lost alot because of him, and it seems like you are trying to rebuild your life. How would you feel about him coming in and possibly disrupting or even taking it away from you again...I dont know the whole story, but I do know that you deserve to make a great life for you, your daughter and your mother...
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Everytime I am on center stage, for playing an instrument, singing, acting, auditions, giving a speech in front of my class, whatever.... I get soooo nervous. My feet shake, my hands shake so hard it's hard to hold papers or instruments steady and they get really cold. Sometimes I get this nervous twitch above my lip. I don't know any way to get rid of it! And I can't just avoid the stage, because even though I get nervous, I really want to perform. Ugh.
Help! (link)
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do you usually have someone sitting in the crowd that you know. If there is someone there that you know, have them sit in either the second or third row, preferably right in the middle, than when you are on stage giving a speech or preforming if you can find them and center your attention on them...Than everybody else kinda melts into the darkness around them...See if that works and let me know
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OK IM 13 IN 8TH GRADE AND IM 5'6 AND WEIGH 130 LBS THATS LIKE SO FAT IM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT I WANT TO GET DOWN TO AT LEAST 115 IM JUST FAT IN MY STOMACH WELL KINDA OF AND IM MOSTLY MUSCLE CUZ I LIFT HEAVEY THINGS AND PLAY SOCCER SO MY LEGS ARE MOSTLY MUSCLE BUT I THINK IM TO FAT FOR MY AGE I MEAN IM ON A DIET THE FAT FREE ONE BWECAUSE I WANT TO LOOK GOOD IN MY BIKINI BY MAY OR APRIL SO DO U THINK IM TOO FAT AND COULD U TELL ME SOME GOOD WAYS TO GET SKINNY I WANT TO LOOK LIKE PARIS HILTON BECAUSE THE BOY I LIKE WHICH IS MY NEIGHBOR SAYS THAT SHES HOT AND UR PROABABLY GOING TO SAY NOT TO CHANGE MYSELF FOR HIM BUT I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR MY NEIGHBOR HE IS THE MAN OF MY DREAMS!!! HELP ME !!!! (link)
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First of all...At 13 even though all the magazines have perfect people on them...And so do tv shows, remember that alot of these people put their bodies through some pretty nasty things to look the way they do. Secondly if you talked to your parents or your doctor they would tell you that 5'6 130lbs is perfectly natural...Thirdly, you are still growing, so your body needs all the nurshiment it can get to grow and stive to be a healthy happy person...And lastly, muscle weighs more than fat, so it is not that your are fat, because you are not, but you have a high muscle volume which is highly healthy....
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Me & my BFF really wanna pierce our bellybuttons. She's got hers done already, but I can't get mine thru! Any tips?? (link)
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I would agree that getting it professionaly done is the way to go....I've had my done, and keep in mind, although they look cool, its a lot of work to keep them clean and uninfected when you first get them...Make sure you have your parents permission, because if you have to have it checked by a doctor at some point, and your parents dont know...They are going to be upset when they find out
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