ok, i am turning nineteen in about two weeks and i still can't believe the things that i've learned in this past year. not only about myself but also about the people i thought i knew. sometimes, life can be a bit overwhelming and when it seems like my world's gonna come tumbling down, its comforting to know that im not the only one who's unsure about some of life's paths...and that i'm not the only one with probs because heaven only knows what this world would be like without people who find themselves in some sort of dilema at the end of each day. I hope that i can share some of my thougts with you and give some insights as to how i would handle a certain situation. Sometimes, a second opinion is really helpful!
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what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me.. (link)
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my best guy friend of four years moved across the state to go to college. i know that that doesn't seem like far but IT IS. especially because of the fact that once he began living three hours away, i realized that i had feelings for him ( it took so long trying to figure out those feelings though, that i totally missed the train!) he has a girlfriend now and i am so mad at myself for not telling him how i really felt (regardless of the fact that i didn't really know how i felt)- all i could figure out was that i loved him ( really loved hime...whether or not i was IN love with him...eh...that's another story). my point is that you don't realize what you have with someone until it's gone. one day, he may im you with the news that he has a girlfriend. then what are you going to do? i cried! out of happiness for him perhaps because maybe he had found a girl that was worthy of him and i was happy that he was happy. or maybe it was because i knew that our relationship would never be the same because for once, we didn't have the "single" thing in common. tell the boy how you feel...worse comes to worse, he doesn't feel the same. then, you can just laugh it off and go on with your life and look back on that moment knowing that atleast you were true to yourself. don't spend the rest of your life or even a few sleepless nights asking yourself "what if?". GOOD LUCK!
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My friend hasn't been doing her homework and she has 6 zeros in the grade book. I'm afraid she is going to fail. What to do? (link)
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let your friend know that you are seriosly concerned about her. education is such big thing!-and it is such a shamed to let it go to waste. you may also want to talk to your teacher privately and tell her that you are worried about your friend...maybe you could try helping your friend out with the homework. sometimes people just need to know that someone cares or maybe even just a little inspiration. GOOD LUCK!
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ok i have a really hot and awsome bf...i get good grades...i have tons of friends...and i am lots of fun clubs..(gifted and talented siging)..my family is awsome...for some reason i feel like i am missing something..like there is a big whole in my body tht is missing..can anyone explain? (link)
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i know the feeling...and i can honestly say that God was missing from my life. it may not be the same thing for you but think about it this way. Maybe He is saying: "ok you got all you want...now don't you think its time that you lifted your head up and noticed that the only thing you're lacking is me?" if you are a christian..it could be that maybe you've been so involved in your "perfect" life that you've neglected to see that the reason you have everything you need is because you are blessed...really and truly blessed. Thank God for the many things that he has blessed you with and you'll be even more rewarded. If you are not a christian, maybe its a calling to come to God...either way, i hope you find what you are looking for. GOD BLESS :P
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okay here is the problem.
my friend entered in a beauty pageant and she is in the finals and she had them send ME info so i could enter. but my mother won't let me. my mom is 53 years old and im REALLY bummed out that she won't let me. i feel that im very pretty and that i could even beat my friend if i wanted to (not that i want to beat my friend) is my mom afraid that im not pretty enough to be miss teen of the nations? or does she think i will get a big head? im not going to get a bug head because thats not me. my mom use to do all this stuff when she was younger. is it that she WAY old or am i not good enough for her?
anyways im on this site to GIVE advice no ask but i really wanted some advice.
always
~kat~bare~ (link)
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i know this probably isn't what you want to hear but but, chances are, your mom only wants what is best for you. have you actually sat down and had a heart to heart with her? does she know that you are serious about it? tell her what you're feeling and let her know that it bothers you (the fact that she had the opportunity to do all of this stuff and now that you have the opportunity, you'd really love to find out what its all about) i have been in three pageants..one of which i tied with my best friend for 1st runner up. the other two were far more competitive and not nearly as much fun...and looking back i wonder why i even particpated in them because at the end, i realized that i shouldn't have to parade around with a fake smile for people who don't even know ME to judge me and to decide whether or not i was fit to have a particular title. im just telling you from experience...make absolute sure that this is something that you really want to do because at the end of the day, when the pageant is over and you're broke from spending money on things here and there (dresses and hair etc...), unless you win, what do you really have to show for it? i mean really? pride? cause all mine was gone when i didn't even place.
i'm just telling you..make sure its something that you REALLY want!
GOOD LUCK!
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how do u know youself if your a good or bad kisser?help please (link)
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i know that this is probably the last thing that you wanna hear...but you don't know! i just had my first kiss this past year and im 18! sounds crazy i know but i just don't count the kindergarten ones and the one that happened on the fairus(sp?) wheel in 8th grade (yuck!) since my first kiss...there have been quite a few more and no complaints yet! so all i can tell you is this: when you do kiss someone, live in that moment cause if it;s anywhere near like my first, it will be a moment that you'll always want to remeber (even if you don't want to necessarily remember the guy- like in my case..he's a jerk and a half!) But seriously, unless you get any complaints, or the person you are kissing pulls away in disgust, i wouldn't worry about a thing!
Now, GO FIND SOMEBODY TO KISS!
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I am getting a new bass/guitar. It is a washburn. I was wondering if it is hard to learn, or if my fingers will hurt the first few weeks or something. . . Im just curious, please tell me if its easy or hard or if it will hurt my fingers or etc. . .
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hiya! ok first of all...i got my guitar a year ago and i only know three chords! but that's because i'm so busy and also partly because i am really slack! the fingers hurting part....well.....if you practice like you ought to (which i was doing at one point in time) yea! at first they are going to be sooo sore but its a good kinda sore because you're all like "yea...i was practicing my guitar last night and my fingers are so sore!" but you know that you're accomplishing something when you can say that ya know? another thing..you will develope caluses (dunno how to spell it) on the tips of your fingers but they're not ugly or anything (trust me! im a girly girl so i would know)...it is slightly difficult..my prob is, getting the rythm down with the chord changes but i have every bit of faith in you..you'll do fine im sure! another bit of advice though: if you're not really musically gifted...you may need to get some one to teach you...because it's really hard to teach yourself! (i've been trying for a year and look how far i've gotten) it takes time and patience and ofcourse PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE!
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i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
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omg! i am going through the exact same thing...my advice, if i had to give any, is to spend time with him if at all possible and get to know him. find out more about him. it may be that you have a lot of things in common. if you and he have a mutual friend, see if they wouldn't mind checking him out for you...and if you don't, your best chance is to TALK TO THE BOY! you won't find out if he likes you or anything else about him if you don't. make sure that the two of you are on the same level- cause guys and girls are often thrown off by body language and you never can tell...ex: if he flirts with a bunch of girls...he is SOOO not worth your time b/c he's probably a tease!...hope this has helped you out some! oh and GOOD LUCK! :)
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