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ok i have a really hot and awsome bf...i get good grades...i have tons of friends...and i am lots of fun clubs..(gifted and talented siging)..my family is awsome...for some reason i feel like i am missing something..like there is a big whole in my body tht is missing..can anyone explain?
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It seems like you have no time for yourself anymore!.. You should just have a couple of days and focus on you for a change and find out some stuff about yourself! :) I hope I helped out little! ♥Andie
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you have no time for yourself!!! That's what's missing, you need to make time for yourself that's all. :)
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stop rubbing it in. and what ur probably missing is a real life. youre one of those freaks who thinks, no matter HOW great things are, there's always SOMETHING wrong, SOMETHING missing! have fun on the top, hun, cuz its gonna be a long way down. *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~
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Your missing a hole in your body? I wouldnt. Just kidding.
Even the very lucky can feel down and in the dumps. I really liked the idea from another columist of volunteer work, that might be something to fill your missing void. As well, you're helping the community and all those around you.
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i know the feeling...and i can honestly say that God was missing from my life. it may not be the same thing for you but think about it this way. Maybe He is saying: "ok you got all you want...now don't you think its time that you lifted your head up and noticed that the only thing you're lacking is me?" if you are a christian..it could be that maybe you've been so involved in your "perfect" life that you've neglected to see that the reason you have everything you need is because you are blessed...really and truly blessed. Thank God for the many things that he has blessed you with and you'll be even more rewarded. If you are not a christian, maybe its a calling to come to God...either way, i hope you find what you are looking for. GOD BLESS :P
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Maybe you're depressed for some odd reason or another. Or maybe you need closer friends (not necessarily more, just friends that you know better). Or maybe you need cheese. Behold the power of cheese.
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You didn't stand in front of a cannon or anything, did you? That could easily explain big holes...
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Have you thought about volunteering? There are plenty of places that could use talented and outgoing people like yourself. For example, you could hold a sing along at a local nursing home. These people are bored, lonely and could use attention. And it looks good on a college applications.
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Do a quick count of holes in your body and make sure there aren't any extras...
But seriously, I think it's perfectly normal not to feel perfect. Good, even. I think the empty feeling is a little like the refrigerator hum in an apartment. When stuff is happening, you don't hear the hum because it's drowned out by the radio, the friends over, the ambulance in the street, the rain on the windows... but when it's quiet, you hear the hum. We always are incomplete, adrift without a complete explanation, just usually we're too busy putting out fires to notice.
My fridge sounds louder all of a sudden.
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I know how you feel...sometimes it seems like when things are going the best in my life, I begin to feel the worst, the most empty. I can only tell you that the big void in your heart that you're feeling can only be filled by Jesus Christ. Trust me, I know! Everything else will leave me feeling empty, no matter how good it is. But Jesus gives me a peace of mind that I can't even understand. All you have to do is accept that Jesus died for your sins, ask him to forgive you for the wrong things you've done in your life, and commit to dedicate your life to him. He can fill the hole in your life completely. Try finding a church with a youth group to go to if you want to find out more about it. I admit that I may be wrong with some of my other advice, but I gurantee this one will work.
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Are you religious? It could be that the fulfillment you are missing is coming from God. Getting involved in a church is a great way to fill that hole in your life. (Yes, that sounded cheesy, but it is absolutely true.)
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Maybe you should talk to someone who can tell you if you are just going through normal mood changes or if you should worry. Family doctors and crisis hot lines are good people to talk to. You don't seem to be in any crisis, but you can always call and they will tell you who to talk to if they don't have the answer. Crisis hot lines are in the front of the phone book.
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Maybe you're comparing yourself to your family or other people. Or maybe you lost someone that you dearly loved. Maybe talk to a parent or adult to see whats left out.
-shay :-)
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