Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


how do i get him to ask me out?


Question Posted Thursday January 22 2004, 11:49 pm

okay, this guy likes me (im pretty sure) and i want him to ask me out, but hes too shy, obviously, so how do i get him to ask me out soon?

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


MichiruKaiou answered Friday January 23 2004, 10:21 pm:
You can't get HIM to ask you out without verbally telling him. Maybe.. you should ask HIM out instead.

[ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question
]




chiquitaban answered Friday January 23 2004, 9:23 pm:
ASK HIM OUT YOURSELF!!

c'mon woman you can take it!

I AM WOMAN!!! HEAR ME ROAR!!!

dont sit around waiting for him to make the first move. its 2004. women are socially accepted (*cough cough*)

[ chiquitaban's advice column | Ask chiquitaban A Question
]



dwarp answered Friday January 23 2004, 7:35 pm:
Ask him out yourself. Obviously, if he's really shy, you won't get him to ask you out soon. Perhaps you have to be the daring one in this situation and be the first to make a move. This shows that you like him too, and you are committed to the relationship. Why not ask him if he wants to go see a movie over the weekend? That way you won't make him feel awkward if he doesn't like you, because you could go as friends, but since you think he does like you, he'll definitly accept and then maybe he'll work up the nerve to ask you to be his girlfriend. (I'm not sure what "going out" means to you, but I think it's a little different than dating sometimes)

[ dwarp's advice column | Ask dwarp A Question
]



Elle answered Friday January 23 2004, 6:44 pm:
What I did was just show the signals really big so he is for sure that you like him. Also you could hang around him a lot. Just a suggestion.
Elle

[ Elle's advice column | Ask Elle A Question
]



AskColleen answered Friday January 23 2004, 4:26 pm:
You could just ask him out for yourself. You know girls can ask guys out just as easily as guys can ask girls out.

[ AskColleen's advice column | Ask AskColleen A Question
]



SBC answered Friday January 23 2004, 3:59 pm:
why don't you ask him out?

[ SBC's advice column | Ask SBC A Question
]



shay*shay answered Friday January 23 2004, 10:30 am:
You cant force anything to happen between you. He may not even really feal like going out with you, but who knows.
-shay :-)

[ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question
]



rabidweasel answered Friday January 23 2004, 8:16 am:
if hes too shy to ask you he may not ever ask you

go for it yourself
ask him if hed like to do something because alot of guys will get weirded out by a "date"
and remember if he says no dont get discuragede ask again later or just let it slide and go find a even more attractive guy -me

[ rabidweasel's advice column | Ask rabidweasel A Question
]



DruidX answered Friday January 23 2004, 6:36 am:
You don't. You take everything into your own hands and make the first move. If he is too shy or wireded out by a girl making the first move then he doesn't merit your attentions.

[ DruidX's advice column | Ask DruidX A Question
]



Cspinoza1 answered Friday January 23 2004, 12:24 am:
Start with small conversation, like randomly bump into him( Not physically, you know what I mean). Talk a little bit ask what he is doing this weekend, imply your free and if he doesn't ask you, ask him if you want to get together. Most people have a hard time saying Will you go on a date with me? SO ask do you want to do something this weekend? If he replies yes give him your number, and if you can write it on his hand because then he has no excuse not to call.

Cspinoza1

[ Cspinoza1's advice column | Ask Cspinoza1 A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: sorry
Next Question >>> Boy-friend?

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker