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Boy-friend?
OK, I was at school today and a fifth grader who I danced with at a dance ONCE asked me out through one of my friends. I'M AN EIGHTH GRADER!!!! I told my friend to tell him no thatnks and I think she DID carry on the correct message but I think he told everyone we were going out and now people are making fun of me because they think I'm going out with a fifth grade russian. I mean, I don't care that he's russian but isn't the girl supposed to know when she's going out with somebody and now I have a dance tonight and I'm afraid he's going to ask me to dance and I really don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to get any rumors started again. Please respond quickly because I have to leave at 7:15. I need to know what I should do and I don't trust myself to make the decision. Now it's 4:26
Unknowingly Dating
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Just tell him the truth...you can't lead this poor boy on...
Just say there's too much of an age difference but that he's are a great guy...and tell people the truth!! Tell them that you arent going out with them and they are immature if they dont believe something like that.
Don't be mean to this boy though...he doesn't deserve that. Or if you knwo any good fifth grade girls...hook him up. hehe.
I'm in eighth grade too and I know these things can be hard...but if you don't like this boy don't lead him on and tell him the truth.
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You can always say your feet hurt, or you have to go to the bathroom, or get a drink... this way hopefully he will notice you don't want anything with him. If that doesn't work, I'd suggest talking with him. of course he may be sad if you tell him you don't like him this way, but it's always good to know the truth.
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Don't go with him. Just tell him you are not his type and maybe even tell him you are going out with someone your own age. it might not be the truth, but it is better then going out with someone three years younger. Good Luck
Lizzy
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I got this message after 7:15, so your already gone. But, what I think you should have done was just twll him you don't like him. Why, should you care at the moment if you hurt his feelings? He must have a pretty big head to start this rumor in the 1st place.
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You shouldnt dance with him because you seem to have lost his trust. Tell him that also tell him that he is being quite imature.
-shay :-)
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SAy no, its that easy. No one is making you do this you are responsible for your own actions. And to tell you the truth you should have told him no to his face instead of through your friend who probably didn't even tell him.
Cspinoza1
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Talk to him in person and tell him you don't like him. After that, if he continues to spread rumours, ignore him. Sounds harsh, but otherwise you're giving him false hopes.
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You have two options here, First option is you could call him up and tell him that your friend told you that he wanted to ask you to the dance and that you would like to tell him yourself that you are not interested because... (make up some lame excuse or something)in that case you'll be sure he won't ask you to dance tonight. Second option is, if he ask you to dance tonight, just simply say "No thanks" and walk away. Don't worry about getting his feelings hurt because he shouldn't be spreading a rumor that you two were together when in fact you're not. Stay away from him as much as possible. Gossips like this dies on it's own...Keep your chin up and have tonight!
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