ok heres the deal, if u know who i am then u know what this is about if u dont know me then dont worry bout it.... ok so we all know it was my idea to break up with her, i didnt want to do it but i figured it would be better if we had time to get over eachother and then we would be cool and be friends when i leave for college, good idea no? so yeah its been about a month since that and i find out that she has a new man, i mean sure i flirt with other girls, but i dont call them and i surtantly DONT go to THEIR HOUSES! so i dont know what the fuck to think, is this a good thing that she over me, are we gona be cool now.,.. wait, hers the kicker... i cant believe i forgot.... we talk and she tells me that she still wants to get back together cuz she still has feelings for me and everything and then i have to find out from a person who i dont even like, and she doesnt like me ither butshe felt i should know this, and i appreciat her telling me but FUCK what the hell is the deall..... im asking a wanna be goth punk for help with my life what have i come to? damnit chirs what do i need to do?
well i hate to say it but i think her dating someone else may have been my fault i told her to move on and that if she still liked you to give it awhile
and yes it is a good thing that she was trying to move on but it shows that she hasnt really and i think thats shes only using this "other guy" to make you jealous.
i personally think that you should say fuck it
do you want to get back together
then do it now if not then isnt it a good thing that shes with someone else then you wont feel bad about going and finding another girl that you like and asking her out
you can always be friends after a break up
im friends with half of the girls thats ive broken up with and the ther half i talk to everyonce in a while i try not to loss contact with anyone the world is too small for someone to pass up a friend
just know that it will probably never be the same between you and her and if you know that she likes you dont get into a position that she may try something on you like if you go to the movies take some people with you or better et take another date to show her that her staying with your choice
if you need to talk about it man you know my number and you see me sometimes come talk ill listen and give you my two cents
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