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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help? (link)
If people arnt respecting you.. tell them I have a feelingthat you haven't said much of anything about it.. as for the crowed your hanging out with.. If they don't respect you then they arn't you friends maybe you should talk to them about respectiing you and just joking around if they keep doing it find better friends


I like a boy. Jackson. He is cute. He likes me, too. I want to make something for him. WHAT? A friendship braclet?????????????? HELP!!!!!!!!


~~~~~~Crazy over Him (link)
If you cant think of anythng to buy him turn to a silver necklace


Is it bad to have wet dreams? (link)
No it's not it's a natrual thing for everyone.


Here's some back ground information


~~~~~~~What Are “Wet Dreams” (Nocturnal Emissions)?

A wet dream is the uncontrolled ejaculation of semen from the penis during sleep. The fluid is creamy to clear in color.

What Causes Them?

Wet dreams are caused by sexual excitement from dreams, and or by physical stimulation like rubbing against blankets, the bed, or a full bladder. It is very normal!


Who Gets Them?

Guys get them! When boys enter puberty a lot of hormonal changes occur. These changes will result in many, but not all boys experiencing episodes of spontaneous erections during sleep, during the day and wet dreams. If these episodes do occur there is no need to worry or feel guilty because they are part of normal sexual development.

Most boys experience wet dreams between the ages of 12 to 18. Generally boys have less wet dreams once they start masturbating or once puberty is over. Also if teenagers become sexually active will experience fewer, or no longer have wet dreams.



What Do They Mean?

Wet dreams are a normal part of the many things that are changing in the body during puberty. Not all boys have wet dreams and that's okay too, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. If you do have a wet dream, it just means your body is maturing sexually, which is a step towards becoming a adult.~~~~~~~~



ok we get our yearbooks on the last few days of school i really want to know what a good thing to say to everyone in their yearbook i need good ideas like not the simple ones like have a great summer i want mine to stand out so can you people give me some good ideas please i reaslyl need them



please help thanks yearbook girl (link)
" I beat the baker i beat the cook i signed the back of the book!


I have this friend. She gets on my nerves a lot. She gets really jealous when me or anyone else isn't payin g her any attention. She is spoiled(no offense.) and always tries to make people feel bad. I don't want to be her friend, but she keeps on saying that she has problems and she's gonna kill herself because life is so bad. I have 2 questions. Is she my real friend? And is there any way I don't have to be friends with her? (link)
Ok. yeah stick to it for a little while longer. most people that want alot of attention have problems and are trying to get themselves happier.. i used to be the same way when i was in middle school. It's just a phase . they wil soon grow out of it , but be sure to talk to her if he is depressed try to make her happy then maybe she ioght not get on your nerves alot.


My Fiance's best friend just bought her a vibrator, I feel like i am not doing my job right, or maybe she just isn/t attracted to me. (link)
No. Of course she's attracted to you. i'm guessing that is a joke of some kind. You know one of those "before you get married thing" My best friend did the same thing to me and my boyfriend didnt take it seriously. We just laughed it off. people do this all the time to their friends if they get engaged.. well, not exactly the same thing , but similar things Don't think not attracted to you. If you two are engaged then she loves you.. that's all there is to it.


I need some help. There are some boys at my school that I like to hang out with. They are not the best looking but its whats on the inside that matters. Any good tips to tell if you are in love?
Sincerely,
Mea* (link)
dang.. well your always looking forward to talking to them and like funny feeling in your stomach also sweaty palms and dry mouth yeah


What do I do if a boy likes me who I don't like back? He wrote me notes in math class...had his friend give me one and he gave me one himself.

I keep complaining about this but its just annoying. I feel nothing...its feels like somethings missing whenever he looks at me...like somethings not right. I have NO feelings for him.

Everyone either tells me to stop complaining or
give him a chance but it's not that great when someone likes you and you DONT like then back. I don't really feel something when a boy likes me unless I like him the same way....so it's not that great. He still comes up to me and waves and says Hi *******! and I just wave and he like giggles or some weird thing. I mean...he's a really nice kid but nothings there...I feel like i want to cry...I have no clue why. Is this normal? I don't like him and I'm absoulutely sure about this...100%. I like someone else...and I don't know, whenever I see him my stomach twists and turns because I dont want him to give me another note or actually come up to me and ask me out...so I avoid him. I just don't want to deal with this...I don't want to turn him down...every girl turns him down and I feel so bad. But then again if I did go out with him nothing would be there anyway so there would be no point to that. I like another kid so much but i just have to get up the courage to at least smile at the boy.

errg! I'm so frustrated! I DON'T WANT ANY MORE NOTES! what do i do? And I'm NOT going to give him a chance because he has admitted to liking a whole bunch of girls just last week and even if I did like him it wouldn't be real if we went out...and last I heard he was going out with some girl named Ashley or something...ERGGG! what do I do...HE'S EXPECTING AN ANSWER SOON AND IT'S JUST ANNOYING! please help! (link)
Ok. first.. if you can't tell him you don't like him then do what he does.. write a note telling how you really feel.. ONLY friend.. nothing beyond that. last.. the guy you really like.. smile at him show some effort in to liking him you never know he might just like you too .


okay. one of my best guy firends...yeah...i think im falling for him. ive been thinking about this for the past 3 months. we're really close and i really love spending time with him. my school's semi formal is coming up and id really REALLY like to ask him.
but i have some issues.
a) i dont want to ruin a quality friendship by throwing "love" into the mix
b) I dont know how to "ask" guys out. im just not really "into" the whole guy thing...WHTA THE HELL DO I DO????
c) how do i even know if he likes me? what are some hints that he would drop? because my friends are pretty sure that he feels the same way about me as i do about him. but im just not sure!!

HELP! (link)
ONE THING!!! chill out.. it sounds to me that u and him have been friends for a while.. if so there is a chance that he feels that same way.. hints of him liking you... always wanting to be around you.. glossy eyes when he looks at your basic flirting... and sticking up for you if u need it ask him to the dance and see where it goes from there


ok now wht makes popular people so popular i mean what is it about them? i mean theres like a bunch of popular kids at my school and i dont see how they r so great i mean all they do is talk behind eachothjers backi mean im not in the popular group but in like the semi-popular i guess is what its called and we never do that top eachother i mean i cant stand these popular kids and i wann know how they become so popular and why? (link)
Popular Kids. Ha. The only reason they are popular is because of what they do.. they end up knowing everything somehow and its from talking about people behing their friends backs. they are snobby and they think they can get away with anything. If this is middle school.. they wont be so popular in high if high then forget them they are losers and the semi popular are better because they are true to their friends


i think is is totally gross and disgusting to be a gay guy or a lesbian is it wrong to think that i dont think it is (link)
it's not gross to be gay or a lesian.. itfthats what someone is you cant hate them for it its just their way of seeing things


if my neighbor came over andh e was on my trampoline and i was in the spa and he kept like talking and showing off and looking at me does that mean he likes me??? shouldi tell him i like him or ask him how he feels about girls or what??? (link)
Alot of guys show off and stare when they like somone. Some just do it for the fun but not likely. Try to talk to him and see what he says if he says n e thing that sounds like he likes you keep it going


some of my good friends go to a different school. recently, one of them met a friend that goes to my school. i'm scared that they'll be best friends and lock me out. What should I do? (link)
They arn't a true friend if they do that to you. If they get to that point then talk to them


Well I think the subject pretty much gives away what I'm going to ask you...what should we do?

We went to see a film (The Last Samurai btw) on Sunday.

I'm 16, he's 18. Clubbing (my friends suggestion) is not really an option).

Any ideas? (link)
For a second date. Hmmm.... in all honesty i don't think that clubbing is a good idea only that alot or drugs and alcohol come into the picture. Try something like going out to dinner and a walk on the beach i did that with my boyfriend and it worked out.


how can i tell a boy i like him (he is my neighbor)with out anyone finding out like his mom cuz she doesnt liek him having any girlfriends or stuff like that and she doesnt want me ot tel him that i like him cuz she says that we are"good friends right now" (link)
well , if you two are good friends go to the movies with him *as friends* and when your alone if you get to be alone tell him or go over when his mom isn't home and he is tell him then.




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