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Stuck...
What do I do if a boy likes me who I don't like back? He wrote me notes in math class...had his friend give me one and he gave me one himself.
I keep complaining about this but its just annoying. I feel nothing...its feels like somethings missing whenever he looks at me...like somethings not right. I have NO feelings for him.
Everyone either tells me to stop complaining or
give him a chance but it's not that great when someone likes you and you DONT like then back. I don't really feel something when a boy likes me unless I like him the same way....so it's not that great. He still comes up to me and waves and says Hi *******! and I just wave and he like giggles or some weird thing. I mean...he's a really nice kid but nothings there...I feel like i want to cry...I have no clue why. Is this normal? I don't like him and I'm absoulutely sure about this...100%. I like someone else...and I don't know, whenever I see him my stomach twists and turns because I dont want him to give me another note or actually come up to me and ask me out...so I avoid him. I just don't want to deal with this...I don't want to turn him down...every girl turns him down and I feel so bad. But then again if I did go out with him nothing would be there anyway so there would be no point to that. I like another kid so much but i just have to get up the courage to at least smile at the boy.
errg! I'm so frustrated! I DON'T WANT ANY MORE NOTES! what do i do? And I'm NOT going to give him a chance because he has admitted to liking a whole bunch of girls just last week and even if I did like him it wouldn't be real if we went out...and last I heard he was going out with some girl named Ashley or something...ERGGG! what do I do...HE'S EXPECTING AN ANSWER SOON AND IT'S JUST ANNOYING! please help!
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People do that alot. Maybe you should just write him a note telling him you don't feel the same way about him.
Hey, at least he'll be excited that he FINALLY got a note from you.
Be gentle, but blunt.
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The best way to get out of this situation is telling him the truth, or asking a friend to do that. Tell him that you like him as a friend, but you are in love with someone else, and your heart belongs to this other guy. Don't feel guilty for turning him down; you can't pretend you like him just to make him happier.
Be careful to let the doors open, in the future. Don't say you'll never go out or despise him. Maybe you'll find yourself in love with him someday and then the situation will be reversed :)
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Just tell him that you don't share the same feelings, It may be harsh but its best to tell him the truth rather than letting his crush on you go for a long time.
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Just tell him. There's no harm in that. Explain how you're not interested, if you don't then he'll just keep writing you more notes. It's as simple as that, just do it in a calm manner. Like say "look, I know you like me, but I'm afraid that I just don't like you the same way..".. something like that!
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You dont have to listen to people when they say to stop complaining because they also just feel bad for the guy. You have the right to make your own decisions! :) I believe in you. Tell him that you want to focuss more in class and not on notes.
Your truly,
-shay :-)
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JUST TELL HIM!
dont be mean about it however.
kindly, tell him that although you like him very much and feel that hes a nice kid, there isnt any spark.
however, if you do feel he is a friendly guy, dont put past becoming friends with him.
guys are always better as firends than boyfriends
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If you don't like him, you are not obligated to go out with him, or even "give him a chance." Just tell him he is ok as a friend, but you don't feel the same way for him that he does for you, and that's it. Tell him to stop sending you notes. It is better to be honest, and not make yourself do something you don't want to do, just because his feelings might be hurt.
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Well you can't avoid him forever that's for sure. If you don't want to "reject" him try to do it in a nice way. Tell him he's a nice guy but you don't feel that way towards him. If he persists you may need some intervention starting with his parents and yours, as well as school administrators. If he still bothers you after this it can become a serious problem possibly calling for police intervention.
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Ok. first.. if you can't tell him you don't like him then do what he does.. write a note telling how you really feel.. ONLY friend.. nothing beyond that. last.. the guy you really like.. smile at him show some effort in to liking him you never know he might just like you too .
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