I know this guy lets call him CTW and i told me friend to call him she did and she told him i liked him... i do. and i don't know him that well but i'm in 7th grade and he rode my bus in 5th grade he's been at a couple partys and i think he's really nice. There is only one thing, i think he has some brain problems cause my friend said he is dangerous and he spazes out and hurts people while he spazes like on purpose but uncontolably he is going to sit at our lunch table when he is unsuspended for punching this kid but He would never purposly hurt someone. I know he will go out with me i just am not sure. can someone help me?
Shasta answered Saturday January 24 2004, 9:49 pm: I think that you should take a chance with him and see how it goes. If you and him have a good time, keep going out. If not, there are plenty other fish in the sea!
QBillion answered Saturday January 24 2004, 1:47 pm: Ok, listen. If he is dangerous, DON'T go out with him. Do you really want a relationship where you're getting abused?
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Lizzy answered Saturday January 24 2004, 1:22 pm: Everyone has problems, even the most popular guy in school. Get a psychyotrist to see him and i'm sure everything will be fine. If you don't know him that well, do you think maybe you should get to know him first?
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MichiruKaiou answered Saturday January 24 2004, 10:05 am: Unless you really like him A LOT, you shouldn't put yourself in potential danger. If he might hurt you, then I don't think it would be a good idea to go out with him, because think about what might happen if you two break up and he spazzes out about it? [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
EternalFolly answered Saturday January 24 2004, 12:35 am: Unless you're talking about a married couple you're better off not getting involved with someone who could potentially hurt you badly. Also since you don't know him all that well you won't have any emotional attachment. You may like him but in this case it just isn't worth the risk. [ EternalFolly's advice column | Ask EternalFolly A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Saturday January 24 2004, 12:23 am: TO tell you the truth I don't think its worth putting yourself in that situation. Come on he could hurt you, because you don't know someone that well because you talk to them and or like them. I say spend some time with him, with friends around because you don't want to get caught in a situation where he gets angry and your the one he takes it out on. SO its your choice, I say be careful and get to know him a lot better.
shay*shay answered Friday January 23 2004, 11:09 pm: He may have some problems, but Im really not to sure. I mean he could have done it on purpose. He may just have ander problems etc. But Im sure he wont be very open to you if you ask him about it though. Does your friend ever make things seem bigger than they really are? Maybe shes just overegzaggerating.
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