ok jessica my friend to me nick liked me and ect. then she asked if he asked for my number should she give it to him. i said no, but then the next day jessica and her boyfriend andrew called me (3-wayed) the andrew to jessica to leave the phone for a minute and he started askin if i would have a 3- some wit him and jessica since jessica isn't good in bed(me and jessica play like we go out but we are 2 gurls and we arent that way) then he asked if i would have sex with him, then he asked if i would ahve sex with him and nick, and then askd if i would have sex with nick. for like teh whole time he was askin where he stands with him and nick ect. well after a while andrew and jessica wanted to chat on the phone together. like 20minutes passed and nick calls sayin he got the number from jessica but says she mixed the last four numbers. at school the next day i was messin with andrew cause i promised i would (the day before he said he got jealous cause nick had his arm around me). nick tried to mess wit me to after andrew tried to undo my bra with his hand again and nick tried to do it and i wouldnt let him adn he got mad i think cause he left. andrew grab my hand and walked me near nick and like pushed me on him and nick like gave andrew a dirty look. well this is really confusin but like wuts goin i dont like either and andrew has a gurl but always ask me if i want a 3-some with him and his gurl andi yelled at jessica the other day cause of it and now i dont know wut to do i left he a message sayin sry but i dunno if she will forgive me. and grrrr... it just suxs so thanks for readin and hope you have an answer i can use (ALL NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED)
notnormal answered Saturday January 24 2004, 10:39 pm: It sounds like you really don't want to have them messing with you. I would tell them not to, you have had enough. If they still try, either avoid them, or tell someone. They sound like they are taking advantage of you. [ notnormal's advice column | Ask notnormal A Question ]
EternalFolly answered Saturday January 24 2004, 7:44 pm: Wow. You need to breathe. First, make it clear you don't want anything to do with either of the guys. If they keep bothering you about this it's called sexual harrasment. Report it and that'll be that. As far as your friend goes make sure she knows you're upset about what she did. If you still want her as a friend tell her she can't do anything like that anymore. If you don't want her as a friend anymore tell her, don't just ignore her. It makes things worse. You might also want to flirt a little less. Dont let guys hang on you all the time and promising to "mess" with them. It'll only get you in trouble. [ EternalFolly's advice column | Ask EternalFolly A Question ]
shay*shay answered Saturday January 24 2004, 10:30 am: Okay well I dont think that you should do anything with Andrew anymore because he already has a girlfriend who happens to be one of your friends. I dont think that she would be okay with all of that. Maybe get to know someone before you get in bed with them? {not to be mean} Maybe you should wait a wile for Andrew and Nick settle down from all of this and then talk to them.
Yours Truly,
Shay Shay [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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