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Long Distance Relationship Problem
Hey, My name is Anna and I'm 14! This is my situation, .last Christmas I met this guy named Colin. I was at my friends house and we were just playing basketball and he came and introduced hisself blah blah blah. The thing is that he lives in New Hampshire and I live in Florida. My first impression of him was that he was ugly and I would probably never talk to him again in my life. But that didn't happen, I stayed another day at my friends hosue and we hung out most of the day. He told my friend Kati that he liked me. We kept in touch over the computer and over the phone. We ended up going out and having a long distance relationship. But then we broke up. Anyhoo, he just visited a couple weeks ago and I spent two days with him at his house alone with his friend Jon. While I was there I hung out in his room and we watched movies and went swimming and stuff. We cuddled and just had a great time. While I was close to him I was asking him if he thought he was in love. He said he thinks he is (with me) but the location thing came up again. Well I don't need to tell you about the whole day but after he left I couldn't stop thinking about him, I've had dreams about him. I seriously thought I was in love until I heard from his friends what he's really like. One of his friends told me what he said about this girl Sarah. He was swimming and the water was cold right so he made a comment that in the cold water his dick gets hard then when he went into the warm water it wasn't anymore. Then when Sarah came out in her bikini it was hard again. When I found this out I was sooo mad..Other than the fact that he likes this girl. (Supossedly) Well..I'm really confused because we got into a little fight over the interent and I told him how upset and hurt I was..he just said he was pissed and that IT WAS A JOKE! Well I appoligized to him and I kinda got a reality check that maybe I'm not in love..Well..why am I having dreams that I want to marry this guy? And I'm scared to call him too. I just don't know how to sort out my feelings. He was the first guy I made out with. And he tells me I'm gogerous and everything but he tells every girl that I heard. And I still don't think he feels the same way so I don't know if I should jsut give up, move on, or tell him about my true feelings. Also whenever I talk to him on the internet he never really says anything other than what's up or what did you do today stuff like that. He never tells me to call him either and he never calls me so I don't know how to read him. And if I wore to tell him about how I feel I wouldn't know how to do it. It's so different while he's in New Hampshire and I'm here. We both have different lives and we loose touch and it's like we're just friends not even close friends. But I just can't get my mind off of him and when he is down I get so excited and I don't want to get my heart broken but I might have already. Plus my mom is superly overpretective so I'm not around guys that much at all and well she let me go over to his hosue with out supervision and I don't know if this is crazy or not but I'm thinking it might be fate. That we were meant to be together. It all makes sense kinda? but I just can't put the pieces together. Maybe you can help me with that. Well, Thank you sooo soo much for helping me out. I'm soo soo sorry that it was so long. Hope you have a great day or night whichever it is when you read this lol. <3 Always, Anna 143
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Hi Anna, i have the exact same problem, i like a guy that lives in Texas but i live in Louisiana, n we're about 13 hours away from each other he came here once for a thingy n we met n he said he liked me n i told him i liked him n blah blah but i too dont kno if REALLY he feels the same way, so were kinda n tha same boat. and we talk on the internet and phone alot so it kinda makes things better.... but hes the same way when i c him and when were apart so i dont really understand about the whole 2 personalities or nething but all i can say is keep n touch with him, n dont be afraid to tell him how u feel. if u dont then u will never know what yall could have been... and about ur dreams of marrying him, i belive that dreams are the keys to our realities but some may call it just a dream. id say go with ur gut feeling, if u want to tell him how ur feeling than go ahead, i would b/c i wouldnt want to go living life not knowing what we could have been... so good luck and i hope everything works out!
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ok well tell him how u feel and then ask him how he feels. u to seem like a good couple but in a relationship there is alwyas something that u may bother u about the other person. talk to him about it. and if ur not sure ask his friends more about wut he is about. i hoped i helped.~rate me~
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WowwY! You're in a really tough situation. I think what you really need to do...is call him. I know you're not going to know what to say or how to put it..but just tell him how you feel. You have to, that's the only way to settle things sweetheart. It's going to be so hard to word it, but once you get going...you'll just ramble on. My fiance and I live 8 hours apart! We have fights, and I know how the distance is. It's very very hard. But I think you need to stand up and be strong...pour out your feelings with him like you did with me. Maybe he'll tell you things that he's feeling. Maybe he dreams about you. And about this Sarah girl..you have to forget about her. You do have to understand that boys are going to be boys and make dumb jokes about that kinda stuff.
I don't really know what else to tell you sweetie, I read it twice. I just think it'd all be best if you talked to him. I hope I helped, stay strong and keep me posted. <3 Yas...Have a good night
*I do like long ones btw*
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anna just tell him that u realized that the relationship isn't goin to work and that u rather be just freinds
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i think you should go for him and for the record i like reading the long ones lol if you have ne mor questions let me kno :-)
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