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hey i'm meghan i play softball, tennis, volleyball, and a little bit of basketball. i love to surf and swim!!!!overall i am a well liked gurl and if you have any questions feel free to ask.
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I am thinking about trying out for fastpitch (softball). I'm really good at fielding. I was on the slowpitch team. But, I absolutely cannot hit fastpitch!! Can anyone give me tips on how to help hitting? By the way, I play basketball that's why I have to try-out so late. By the way, if you could, try not to suggest go to a batting cage. Because I live in Mississippi, the part affected by Katrina, and I'm not sure of many batting cages that are open. (link)
well batting cages dont always help trust me. I am on my schools fastpitch team also and i am a third year starter this year. Hitting isnt always my best strategy but what i try to do is:
1. take my time until i am comfortly standing in the batters box. ( keep your hand up otherwise the pitcher can pitch the ball.)
2. keep your back elbow up.
3. point your front-tow to the ground with your weight on your back foot.
4. keep your chin tucked to outside shoulder( if i keep pulling my head i just put my shirt collar in my mouth- learned that from army softball camp)
5. keep your eye on the ball!
6. just follow through!
when you here that ting run. dont look for the ball your coach will tell u where the ball is.

Good luck write me back and tell me how you did!


Okay, this is pretty much a friendship question. My best friend likes this guy. Who really really likes ME, but I have a boyfriend. I told him plenty of times that I`m taken and not looking for another boyfriend, but he told me he can't get me out of his head. My friend doesn't know, though. I think I should tell her, but wait. This happened before. And she got so mad at me. She started saying "Why does everyone like you, You're not perfect! Why can't anyone like me." But it was just a fact that people do like her, she just doesn't like them. I don't know what to do. (link)
i think you should tell her. if she was truly your friend would she get so angry. im going to guess no. anyway no ones perfect dont feel bad because people like you. You must have some quality that makes you so popular to like. Dont sweat it and dont change.

meg//*


what are some really good ways to change my look for school so the guys will notice me? (link)
you don't need to change guys look for people who act like themselves not like other people. Trust me

meg//*


my 2 friends like this guy that i just started to like. should i tell them that i like him too? (link)
y not join the crowd it happens all the time :-)
meg


k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it? (link)
no first talk to him


Hey, My name is Anna and I'm 14! This is my situation, .last Christmas I met this guy named Colin. I was at my friends house and we were just playing basketball and he came and introduced hisself blah blah blah. The thing is that he lives in New Hampshire and I live in Florida. My first impression of him was that he was ugly and I would probably never talk to him again in my life. But that didn't happen, I stayed another day at my friends hosue and we hung out most of the day. He told my friend Kati that he liked me. We kept in touch over the computer and over the phone. We ended up going out and having a long distance relationship. But then we broke up. Anyhoo, he just visited a couple weeks ago and I spent two days with him at his house alone with his friend Jon. While I was there I hung out in his room and we watched movies and went swimming and stuff. We cuddled and just had a great time. While I was close to him I was asking him if he thought he was in love. He said he thinks he is (with me) but the location thing came up again. Well I don't need to tell you about the whole day but after he left I couldn't stop thinking about him, I've had dreams about him. I seriously thought I was in love until I heard from his friends what he's really like. One of his friends told me what he said about this girl Sarah. He was swimming and the water was cold right so he made a comment that in the cold water his dick gets hard then when he went into the warm water it wasn't anymore. Then when Sarah came out in her bikini it was hard again. When I found this out I was sooo mad..Other than the fact that he likes this girl. (Supossedly) Well..I'm really confused because we got into a little fight over the interent and I told him how upset and hurt I was..he just said he was pissed and that IT WAS A JOKE! Well I appoligized to him and I kinda got a reality check that maybe I'm not in love..Well..why am I having dreams that I want to marry this guy? And I'm scared to call him too. I just don't know how to sort out my feelings. He was the first guy I made out with. And he tells me I'm gogerous and everything but he tells every girl that I heard. And I still don't think he feels the same way so I don't know if I should jsut give up, move on, or tell him about my true feelings. Also whenever I talk to him on the internet he never really says anything other than what's up or what did you do today stuff like that. He never tells me to call him either and he never calls me so I don't know how to read him. And if I wore to tell him about how I feel I wouldn't know how to do it. It's so different while he's in New Hampshire and I'm here. We both have different lives and we loose touch and it's like we're just friends not even close friends. But I just can't get my mind off of him and when he is down I get so excited and I don't want to get my heart broken but I might have already. Plus my mom is superly overpretective so I'm not around guys that much at all and well she let me go over to his hosue with out supervision and I don't know if this is crazy or not but I'm thinking it might be fate. That we were meant to be together. It all makes sense kinda? but I just can't put the pieces together. Maybe you can help me with that. Well, Thank you sooo soo much for helping me out. I'm soo soo sorry that it was so long. Hope you have a great day or night whichever it is when you read this lol. (link)
i think you should go for him and for the record i like reading the long ones lol if you have ne mor questions let me kno :-)
meg


hey i am confused with sex does it hurt (link)
idk but that is not for on here ask a nurse or your parents and think of the responsabilities


noooo..the point is im shy and i need to find out..how do guys usually express them selves when they like a girl? (link)
well i think they flirt alot and touch yu like your hand but look for eye contact


ok almost all the time my parents get on my nerves i dono if its hormones or wat but like my mom will yell at me just for not like putting my clothes away and i think the reason is b/c her dad did the same thing to them like ya know verbal abuse but my mom isnt verbally abusing me its just a lil bit like that and im just kinda like u dont have to yell and shes like YES I DO! and then when i try to talk back to her my dad sticks up for my mom and so i cant say wat i want to.:( and then like the next day there all like so how was ur day today and im like leave me alone and then there like y hunnie y and im like b/c u said i was acting bitchy yesterday and shes like go to ur room! and im like ok...


i need sum advice please help me!

signed,
*sigh* (link)
well i think u should sit down with your parents and ask them if you can have 5 minutes to sppek without being interupted but remember there gunna want the same respect back so good luck
meg


ok almost all the time my parents get on my nerves i dono if its hormones or wat but like my mom will yell at me just for not like putting my clothes away and i think the reason is b/c her dad did the same thing to them like ya know verbal abuse but my mom isnt verbally abusing me its just a lil bit like that and im just kinda like u dont have to yell and shes like YES I DO! and then when i try to talk back to her my dad sticks up for my mom and so i cant say wat i want to.:( and then like the next day there all like so how was ur day today and im like leave me alone and then there like y hunnie y and im like b/c u said i was acting bitchy yesterday and shes like go to ur room! and im like ok...


i need sum advice please help me!

signed,
*sigh* (link)
well i think u should sit down with your parents and ask them if you can have 5 minutes to sppek without being interupted but remember there gunna want the same respect back so good luck
meg


i think i might like this boy and we always talk about like sexual stuff together kidding around and i think im starting to like him but how do i tell if he really likes me..please help
signed
- blind dove (link)
just talk to him he will understand if he is truly your friend


ok, im gay and i love my best friend, i wanna do things with her...what should i do? i think she's the love of my life! i wanna have sex with her cause shes so hott and OMG i gotta tell her!

DIKEY (link)
i don't know pleaze don't do it.


Okay, I just turned 16 a month ago and I have found myself to be interested in this girl who lives down my street. The problem is she is 14 (two grades below me), she goes to a different school, and her older brother is in the grade above me. On top of that her older brother used to be my best friend, and I know the family from back when I was his best friend. We are both afraid to do anything above being friends because of this situation we are in. Any suggestions? (link)
ok my advice to you is to talk to your friend and if you guys feel like you want to take your relationship to the next level then talk to both of the families i know it will be tuff but if it means that much to you then go for it.... good luck

meg




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