|
ok almost all the time my parents get on my nerves i dono if its hormones or wat but like my mom will yell at me just for not like putting my clothes away and i think the reason is b/c her dad did the same thing to them like ya know verbal abuse but my mom isnt verbally abusing me its just a lil bit like that and im just kinda like u dont have to yell and shes like YES I DO! and then when i try to talk back to her my dad sticks up for my mom and so i cant say wat i want to.:( and then like the next day there all like so how was ur day today and im like leave me alone and then there like y hunnie y and im like b/c u said i was acting bitchy yesterday and shes like go to ur room! and im like ok...
i need sum advice please help me!
signed,
*sigh*
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Domesticity category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Parenting?
thats life im afraid it happens to all of us try making more of an effort around the house and do the things that your mom yells at you for not doing see how that goes :)
]
All right you have two things going on here. You are a teenager and that's stressful on the parents. Mom may or may not be going through menopause and is having emotional things of her own. At least she apologized. I wouldn't suggest talking back to your mom. Wait until things cool down and tell her how you feel.
Emotion is bouncing all over the place. As long as your mom isn't telling you that you are worthless and sorry and stuff, you aren't being abused. I wouldn't let the sun go down on your anger. Forgive her and move on.
]
Its just that you are probably at that age where you have your spurts of liking them and what not.. its normal dont worry we will all grow out of that stage.. it sounded to me like you were reading a mini story of my life so its happans dont worry-trix
]
well i think u should sit down with your parents and ask them if you can have 5 minutes to sppek without being interupted but remember there gunna want the same respect back so good luck
meg
]
well i think u should sit down with your parents and ask them if you can have 5 minutes to sppek without being interupted but remember there gunna want the same respect back so good luck
meg
]
well i go through the same thing all the time .. just try not to talk back and when she yells at you .. CRYY lol cuz i do that all the time and my mom sucks up to me after that .. and its all better =)
]
Everything is normal with you... your a teenager.. yea there are some teens who get along with there parents but lets face it .. most of us dont! Maybe instead of saying leave me alone and getting fustrated you could just simply say for example :"My day was fine.. so and so got hit with a pie at lunch" or sumthin like that. Just to make them feel involved.. All parents really want to do is connect with there kids. They don't mean to seem like there parents from hell they just want to be your friend. And im not saying you have to stay up till 1 talking to your mom about things.. but maybe if you could communicate with them a little more they would feel less likely to yell at you to do things and maybe just simply ask you to do things... hope i helped...
if you need anymore advice just drop one in my inbox or im me ;)
]
Its ok, Dont worry... I have the same problem. Usually when parents yell, that means that they are overlly streesed or just dont remember what its like being a teenager. What I personally do is just ignore them. Or just to make them stop yelling is to pick up the clothes on the floor. And when your dad came in and yelled to back up your mom, well you should really ask your dad calmly to talk to your mother alone without him there. Hopefully he'll understand.
]
More Questions: |