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well ok ive never had sex before....and every guy i have ever dated always wants to have sex...ive gottin fingered before 3 times but like im scared to have sex...does it hurt really bad yer first time? like i dont know im kinda scared and i want to do it i just dont know what should i do?
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the first time you'll definitely be scared. Me and my boyfriend were so scared the first time things didnt turn out the way we planned lol. and yes it does hurt. It will be very uncomfortable the first like 4-5 times.
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Hun, if your worried about it, your not ready. Every guy is always going to want to have sex because it`s just in they`re blood. Dont let them get to you. Wait until your physically and mentally ready. But on the other side, no it doesn`t hurt as bad as you think. Before you have sex talk to your partner about safe sex and std`s. Good luck and WEAR A CONDOM!!
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Yes i am sure it does but dont do it if your not ready to cuz you'll regret it i am sure-trix
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it depends on the size of the guy and well, the size of you. Just go with the flow......and use protection
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I say DO IT!!! Like Nike says. Me and Nike are alike.. if it only it was a guy. I would be in love <3!
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Don't give into the pressure, really! ONLY do it if YOU feel YOU'RE ready! Don't ever let someone else have such control over you! You're your own person with your own mind and morals, and that's AS GOOD as it gets! Stay bold, and don't EVER be afraid to say no!!
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Being fingered is alot different than having actual sex. Most likely it will hurt your first time, but usually only during "insertation" (I'm thinking thats NOT a word, but I mean when they stick the penis inside you) If you arent sure what to do and if you are ready for the consequences and pain, then you are NOT ready. Dont rush into anything! Good luck sweetie!
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Okay to start of easily...the guys who are pushing to have the sex with you are usually the guys who have very little confidence about themselves, so there's a good chance that these guys have small members...so if you do end up choosing to have sex...it probably wouldn't hurt that much. Plus, jumping from getting fingered to having sex is a big step. Many people would just believe it's just one base away...but there's a lot of other thing that you might be more comfortable with exploring that you can possibly suggest to your boyfriend. If you're comfortable you can try oral sex which is a lot different then getting fingered, and the good thing with oral sex is that it can be done to both your boyfriend and you. If you do choose to do this then he should be happy there. If he pushes you still about having sex even when u have done oral sex then seriously just tell the guy to push off for good or that yoyr relationship is over.
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Just because the guy your with wants to have sex DOES NOT mean you should... You have to be physically and mentally ready before you commit like that... Thats a big step in your life and you should definitely share it with someone special.. to most of these guys its there 10th time and it takes away it specailness so make sure your with sumone you love.. And you shouldn't be scared or nervous if its with someone you love. I heard it doesn't hurt if you've used tampons but others have told me it hurts. Just make sure your ready and this is what YOU want to do .. and not only what HE wants to do.. I hope helped.. goodluck and if you ever need me... you know where to find me ;)
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