well theres this boy that i really really like and i have for a long time....alomst a year now and we dated for about a week and i dont exactly remember why we broke up...but anyways i think im in love with him he is like my best friend we hang out alot and hes kinda like a friend with benifits cuz we kiss and everything...well now he has a girlfriend and shes one of my good friends and i know they will go out for a long tim but i rally love him and i cant tell him and i dont know what to do :( help plez
Additional info, added Tuesday July 20 2004, 8:51 pm: but now we barely talk and everything and he always is with his gurl and it makes me mad im jealous i know but i cant help it plez try to help me!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BaByAyA answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 9:46 am: aww` i have the exect same problem exept my best friend is going out wif the guy i loved for abt 2 years now . and everywun is tellin me to move on buh u know its hard to .. but .. like if shes one of ur good friends u shuld talk to her . and u shuld tell him how u felt from the very start and tell him that u reely loved him and u dont know why u broke up first of all and tell him u love him and kiss him infront of her .. and see wut he does . maybe if he kisses u bak .. den that means he likes u . im not sayin its gunna work buh it worked for me the 5th time they went out .. i kissed him and she broke it off wif him .. and they went out 20-sumfin times total and i only went out 6x ! :( hehe .. well anywayz do the rite thing and follow ur heart <33 and dont forget to share ur feelingZ !!
ballerina04 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:55 pm: i'm afraid you just have to get over him. i would normally suggest talking to him, but he's going out with your best friends and you don't want to jeopardize your relationship over a guy.
it will be hard to get over him. write all your thoughts in a journal. have a sleepover with your friends and just vent.
if he ever does break up with her, don't jump right on him. they both probably need time to get over it. when the time is right, ask your friend if she still has feelings for him and if it's Ok to go out with him. don't hesitate to send me a message or IM me if you need more help
amie answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:32 pm: one day while they are walking just walk up to him and give him a kiss on the cheek and a hug in front of her it might make u feel better cuz if he kisse or hugs u back u know he likes u and if he doesnt then he aint worth ur time [ amie's advice column | Ask amie A Question ]
well youll just hab to talk to him about it..i mean he wont noe and he prolly wont change his mind about his girlfrend buh at least he noes and IF he dusnt like the grl hes going out with like THAH much then hell noe thah your there waiting...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
SpoiledBrat answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 9:09 pm: I have a friend kinda like that, he was my best friend for almost 2 yrs and I liked him since the day we met. We never dated we were just friends with benefits and when he got a girlfriend I was jealous and I limited myself to talking to him so I wouldn't have to hear about her all the time, but I finally got the nerve to tell him exactly how I felt and it turned out great because he felt the same way n we dated for almost a year. I think you should just flat out tell him how you feel and if he says he doesn't like you like that then it'll be hard but you'll have to accept it and just tell him that you'd rather not hear about his gurl anymore. if he says he feels the same way than great! hope it works out for you!
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