ok im going out with this guy that i was TOTALLY in love with for a while i digged him so much and i was completly HEAD OVER HEELS for him but now i just dont like him anymore...we never talk and its not working out. its so hard though because hes been my BEST friend since 5th grade and now im in 9th im SO scared if i break up with him itll ruin our friendship thats so strong...what should i do?!?1 :(
Additional info, added Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:36 pm: ahh thanks you all have helped so much exscpecially makcenzie your great with words! thanks!!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xoLilBayb3ox96 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:38 am: tell him how you feel.. be like i dont want to ruin 4 years of friendship.. but i dont feel love for you nemore.. i love you like a brother not a boyfriend.. n i dont want to cause any of us more pain than whats already coming.. i hope we can still be friends n i know you need time to deal with this.. hopefully things will work out.. hope i helped
cutenhott859 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 11:10 pm: Ok, You want to break up but not loose your best friend? Well i would tell him you think it's better to just be friends because if you all get closer relationship wise and stay the same friend wise you could end up loosing a best friend and a boyfriend all at once. I say end it brfore things go any further or you do something you'll regret. [ cutenhott859's advice column | Ask cutenhott859 A Question ]
BabiiCakes514 answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:42 pm: Tell him how you feel after all u cant b in a relationship with a guy you don't like anymore... jus tell him the truth and I'm sure he'll understand and you'll come to realize that the both of you were just meant to be friends. [ BabiiCakes514's advice column | Ask BabiiCakes514 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:33 pm: You can't stay in a relationship for fear of losing the friendship behind it; it's nonsensical and unhealthy. If you really feel you two aren't working out anymore, you need to sit him down and tell him how you're feeling. Perhaps the two of you can patch things up, or maybe he's feeling the same way. I wish you the best! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
anonymous_lil_me answered Tuesday July 20 2004, 10:25 pm: dont stay with him just cause your scared you guys arent gonna be friends afterwards. sometimes you gotta put Y0UR feelings first. you dont like him anymore, dump him. you're wasting time with some1 you dont like cause your afraid if you dump him you wont be best friends anymore, when you could go for someone you REALLY do like. explain to him everything you feel & make sure he knows you wanna STAY best friends. if he's understanding, then there shouldnt be a problem or a big fight! hope i helped, mwa<3 [ anonymous_lil_me's advice column | Ask anonymous_lil_me A Question ]
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