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idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do
16/f
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you just aren't ready. listen to your body. just wait until you know that it's time. so just
wait. good luck *~~~shana~~~*
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your at such a young age your gunna wanna try alot of new things and you probaly will but my best advice for you is wait untill you find a guy you truly love and wanna be with and trust. dont lose it to some random guy. talk to your parents about it i no you dont want that! i didnt either but i talked to my parents friends family n doctors n i felt so much better.
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DOnt do n e thing ur gonna regret! i think that having sex is something really special and u shouldnt do it until ur ready.. ur body mite be telling u different things but do wat ur heart is telling u to do! wait for the rite guy to come along and sweep u off ur feet! its something really special and u dont want to do it wit someone who doesnt feel the same!
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angie
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i think u should think of the consequences b4 u do anything, of coarse just make sure ur making the right decision. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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16 is a ripe young age and you shouldnt do anything that could ruin you forever. I mean if you got STD's or pregnant it could totally blow out of porportion. Lots of people don't like to think about it, but having sex should definetly be a married thing. Too many people die or wind up with unwanted pregnancies despite protection and whatever they've come up with today. A person who keeps their virginity holds a really high respect for themselves and they dare to be different. Please, if you have anymore questions, ask me.
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i know u want to try it out of curiousity but really its not worth regretting if your body doesnt want too. pay attention to what its telling you so u dont end up making a huge mistake.
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if youre not ready for it you really shouldnt cuz u'll regret it, some of my frends had sex and after that the first time they regreted it cuz they werent ready for it yet, but if u think ure ready nd ure safe u should just do wut u feel would be right
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If you're asking then you aren't ready. If your body is telling you no then listen to your body and say no.
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More and more everyday, people are taking and treating sex as just a "casual" thing. That is everything it's NOT. Sex is a big deal. There are so many things to consider when discussing the topic of sex. The fact that there is ANY doubt whatsoever in your mind and/or body on whether or not you should go ahead and have sex tells you right then that you aren't as ready as you think you may be. Sure there are a lot of people your age and even younger that have sex all the time. Everybody is different. No one can make the decision for you to have sex except YOU! You are in total control. You control ALL of your actions and choices. You may think about having sex a lot because you're a young maturing girl! You have hormones. We are all guilty of that! It's okay to feel like you want to do sexual things..but you need to listen to your HEART and BODY! Think about these things: Are you ready to possibly have a baby? Are you ready to deal with how your friends and school mates will react if they found out (because whether or not you think so, all guys talk) Are you ready to possible contract an STD or even AIDS? Are you ready to explain to your parents why you had sex(if they find out)? Are you ready to have to make it a common routine in your life (if the guy pushes for it)? Are you ready to experience something that God veiws as sacred shared between a man and WIFE?
You need to think about all of these things. They should help you in deciding if you are ready. But like I said only you know if you are ready or not. Having sex doesn't make you any cooler,better, or worse than anyone. Sex isn't what defines you. YOU define YOU. Also, don't let someone pressure you into having sex and don't try and CONVINCE yourself. If there is any doubt, you can prolly go WITHOUT (sex). I hope I helped..remember, YOU need to decide..NOONE else! :)
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hey sex can be wonderful thing but the wroung time can mess it up for a long time trust me life is a dick like that but you know when your ready
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only do it if ur ready. if ur not ready dont. and if ur body is ready to but idk. dont rush anything..good luck..i hope i helped...~rate me~
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if yur body tells you diffrent then wait... you dont need to rush into aniithing you dont wanna rush into! hope i helped! gOodLuCk!
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