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what do i do?
In the beginning of the year one of my ex-boyfriends got put into jail and whenever he came back he asked me. Well I told him I would go out with him if he swore he wouldnt do drugs anymore and he wouldnt cheat on me. Last week he went to his friends house and got high and drunk and told a girl he would go out with her well he call me that same night and was crying and told me all about it and then I called his older brother and his brother told me that he had made out with another girl at the movies that sunday. Well i got really upset with him and we broke up. That friday he was at the skatin ring with the girl and he was cryin because he missed me and I was cryin because I missed him. He told me that he would try to stop doin drugs and that he really loved me and that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Should I give him another chance? I am a girl and im 15 years old.
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No he keeps hurting you and you deserve better just be good friends-trix
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I would dump him for now, because it sounds like he's NOT changing. If he shapes up, you always have the option of getting back together.
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he has a problem n i think u should tell him that n untill he can prove it to u that hez gunna quit, even though wait might b painful, untill he can prove it to u that ur not gunna go out with him.
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Well if he cheated on you once what makes you think he wont do it again.. trust me i had about 2 serious bf's that cheated on me and they said they wouldnt and i caught them myself!! i think its time for you guys to go your seprate waii'z.. hOpe i hELpEd.. xOx gOodLuCk!
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Even though he promises he will never hurt you intentianally, he is still going to continute to hurt you until he deals with his problems. Let him know that you do want to be with him, but not like this. And you can't be together until he gets things sorted out.
Give him some time (at least a month). Either he will see that he needs to really change to be with you, or he won't change, and you will have saved yourself from being hurt again.
Remember, you can't change him, and you know this is not the kind of relationship you want, or deserve.
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