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Im r3alli confus3d...
I started going out with this guy in Feburary 10th, broke up on April 5th the reason was I liked someone else which I didnt then I found out he went out with this other girl after a month he broke up with her because she kissed some other guy and he asked me out 2 days after he dumped her its been a month n 3 weeks. One day he had a girl over at his house "just friends" he said that she was their bc she was waiting for a ride, then my bfs friend got their we all hung out then he left n she went w him, when she was suppose to be waiting for her ride then another day we were in his room n hes like are you a virgan n I said "yes" then I asked him he said "no I just did it w one girl her name was christina" wat bf tells his gf the girl of the girl he fucked? Last my friend called me one day n we were talkin then she told me my bf and his 2 friends were their n my friends friend was also their n my bf was saying " i love you dont leave me I love you" to my friends friend then I called him to ask wat that was about n he said he was "fooling" around but I dont see why his friends werent doing that too n later he told me "shes was just my friend on the first day i got to school" which I dont think is true then he got upset because I was accusing him of who he loved n he said "I dont care if you belive me or not belive ur friend n not me" So am I like totally OVER-REACTING or WHAT SHOULD I DO? someone pelase help me I dont wanna be w the wrong person n not know it n the other thing is If I do break up with him I dont wanna REGRET it. Like the last time thank you...
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If I were you I would dump him..Only because if this has happened where he was with girls even "just friends" and he did or said things. then it seems kind of weird to me. And by him telling you who he fucked isn't very great either! I would just dump him and get it over with. And if he comes back tell him no! I know It will be hard but you can't hurt! and You need to be able to trust him and obviously you don't know what to believe!
x0x JamieLynn
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Well he hurt you and if you think you need to break up with him then do so.. but if you think you can handle this and he wont do this again then dont break up with him-trix
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Well.. hmm.. thats not good.. maybe you need to dump his sorry ass, hes not worth getting soo upset over... i mean if he is gonna say that crap to other girls.. then it probably means.. that hes done more than just use the talk.. if he tells you he screwed some girl... then apparently... you don't need that.. You diserve much much better than a creep like that!!
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You should dump him. He was acting fishy and you talked to him and he snapped. If you can't talk about things like that then it's not going to work out between you two, besides he shouldn't be "joking around" with girls saying loves them, especially if he's dating you! So I say dump him, hes not worth your time. Hope I helped and hope everything works out!
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I think you should have a talking with him and find out whats all going on. Just ask him anything you want to know. Like about the girl he had sex with.. which I think was wrong to just come right out and be like "Oh I had sex with Christina" but o well guys will be guys. And just ask him about her and anything you want to know. And about the girl who was just "waiting" for a ride. And about him "fooling" around but his friends weren't. Just ask him questions like that and how he feels about you and just be like "I want to know everything, about the girl you had sex with I mean how old were you? The girl that was just "waiting" for a ride, I mean I just don't know what to think anymore... and you need to tell me how you feel about me" Just say something like that. And if he doesn't have feelings for you or you just don't trust him anymore or something, then you need to break up. But don't break up with him if you don't talk to him because you don't want to regret it. So, talk to him first and then you'll know what to do. Hope this helps, just post a message in my inbox if you still need help! Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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