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ok see I have a problem and I dont know what to do! I fell i lvoe with a boy and I have never I have never felt this way before and I dont know what to do.. You see where not doing to great. He dont like me anymore and I try to find out whats wrong and I he wont tell. I thought about it and I talked to some of my friends and one o them gave me the best thing one what they said. We all think about stuff that will be right but yet i think were all totally wrong cuz were not him we dont know whats going on in his head. So then i thought well since you hate me and theres no point of me trying to get you back as friend. So i told him that I didnt want to be his friend and that I never wanted ti se him again. Cuz what would be the point of being his friend or hanging out with him if he dont like me. That would be just a waste of time. I'v been trying for along time for this to work out but im sick of waiting. Im going on with my lie. So when he wants to be my friend then he knows whre i'll be at, But the thing is I dont think I did that right thing. BU then on the other hand I do. Im just so confused and I dont know what to do. My friend had said well i think that he likes you as a friend he just dosent know how to tell you...and every time he sees you its like he starts to like you again...and he cant handle that. I think in a way shes right but like I said we just think its right cuz it sounds good. But I dont know anymore. I dont know what to do. cuz I want to move on but everytime I want to I just find myself falling back in love with him. PLease help me!!!!!!!
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Well lemme see... Its hard since you fell in love with him.. to let him go.. i understand fully how you feel about this kid.. and its hard to let someone you love let go.. and maybe what you are doing is ok.. but what i say you should do is give him time to think about what he has done to make him relise that wut he did to you was very wrong.. and in a way wut you did was wrong.. becuz your pushin him away even more... If you want to be friends with him.. telling him you want nothing more to do with him will just push him away even more! and you won't have a friendship with him.. and then you won't have nothing more..Maybe sometimes you shouldn't listen to your friends.. you should do what your heart tells you to do.. it doesn't hurt to ask advice sometimes.. but what they say might not always be what you should do.... Just follow your heart.. trust me.. he'll come around eventually! maybe you should try someone else see what happens when you do that... If it doesn't work out then maybe your ment to be with that boy..and if it does work out.. then maybe he was all wrong for you.. but holdin on to him will not let you experience other boys... it will keep you farther away.. maybe you heart is telling you to move on... and your head is makin you think you still want to be with him!! Just remember.. What ever goes wrong.. You have your best friend... Good Luck and Stay Strong
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