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Typical boy problems!!
I have a huge crush on this guy in my school. He's a wonderful person! I like to call him a "Man's Man"! Lets just say that he has enough girls who like him to have a fan club!!! Anyway, I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to be "me" around him. I tend to act different...almost as if I'm not good enough for him and maybe if I act differently he'll like me. I realize this is a typical boy problem that happens all the time, but all the same, I still need help!!!
Thank you very much for any suggestions, advice, etc. Some helpful info: I'm 13 & in the 8th grade.
Thanks again!!!
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If you don't mind me saying, your question is sadly pathetic. Most boys, as stupid as they are, can tell when you are acting like a loon or putting on a big girly/sexual/phony/FAKE act. The best thing to do is to act yourself. If you really care about the guy, accept it even if he doesn't fall in love with the realy you...at least he didn't fall in love with the fake you. It's only fair to him that you be yourself.
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Hmmmmm, how to be yourself around him.... this is very difficult to even think about. It kind of makes my head hurt. I wouldn't look at him any differently as you do any other guy. That's the best advice, just don't think of him differently. The reason you act differently is because you're obviously intimidated by him, that you're afraid you won't be good enough for him. Once you realize that he is the same as every other guy, you should be able to relax and be yourself. Good luck, I hope he chooses you over the other girls in his "fan club".
-The Knight Owl
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Well I would just say.. try to just be who u really are and don't try and act different and if u see that you are try and like be yurself! its typical for gurls to act different cuz they're nervous! Trust me i've been there before also! and i got over it eventually after i started to talk to him more.. and get to know him and he will deffinatly see how you really are! and maybe he will like you..and he might just lyke you now! you never know! just talk to him and be yurself!
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