Okay,me and my bf had been going out for like a month now..I love him somuch and i think he feels the same..well he definetely said he did.And like today i was just like "do you think maybe we should just be friends since school is starting in like 2 weeks?" cuz he lives like 25-30 min. away so i only see him like twice a week :( and he was like "i don't know :( what do you think?" and i was just like "idk either cuz i think ur gonna like other girls at ur school" and like i just wanted to see if he would wanna do that and I dont know...we did break up and now i feel horrible..everyone that talks to him about it says that he is really heartbroken and he loves me a lot...but i dont know!We live far away and I think just maybe hes hiding his feelings :/ but I just dont know..help plz.. I MISS HIM!
Lena answered Saturday August 7 2004, 3:13 am: Just ask him out again!! and tell him what you just told me!! Do w/e that would make you happy, you BOTH happy!! i hope it works and hey.. if you love each other 2-3 days should be enough! besides there is ALWAYS the weekends! and then there is spring break... and thanksgiving and winter.. and yeah! all that neat stuff!! I HOPE IT WORKS FOR YOU BOTH!! [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
trackstarshortie07 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:17 am: ok if you love him like you say you do then get back together with him and distance shouldnt matter and 30 min isnt that loong away and since you see him twice a week than its not that bad if hes telling everyne hes heartbroken than he probably is lett me know what happened hope i helped [ trackstarshortie07's advice column | Ask trackstarshortie07 A Question ]
blake08 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:16 am: ex..
TheKnightOwl answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:10 am: Your answer is simple, and yet complicated. You too love each other, we've gathered that much. So be with him. Who cares about distance, the thought that you belong to him and he belongs to you should be enough, you have the phone, you have the internet. Its not like he's being launched into space with no means of contact. Love conquers all. PLEASE! Don't make the same mistake I did. I screwed up my one true chance at happiness with my ex, and I've never forgiven myself. She was still in high school, and I was getting ready to start college. We lived right down the street, and yet we had no time for each other. But we were happy when we were able to get together. But I was an idiot, I told her that we weren't spending enough time together, and that it was going to be even harder when she graduated. I miss her more than anything. And I screwed it up, I've never forgiven myself for that. So please don't make that mistake, love will find a way. As John Lennon put it, "All you need is love.... love is all you need." Smart man, so take a lesson from the book of Beatles Rock and Roll, and a lesson from the History Book of The Knight Owl. Be patient. I hope my advice helped. Good luck.
girdy_goo15 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:25 am: girl pick up the phone and dial digits. just be honest and tell him how you feel. if you really love him then it won't matter how far away you two are. [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
x1gangstababy1x answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:48 am: look grl u should of neva broke up wit him in the first place get him bak he loves u keep him u love him bak stay wit him if he really loves u he wont like other gurls and if he do he wont cheat on u then he doesnt really love u unless it was really trully an accident then u could forgive cant forget but can forgive [ x1gangstababy1x's advice column | Ask x1gangstababy1x A Question ]
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