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Well,i have a problem.
Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help!
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i know how boys are and they can be mean at times.. a lot of times, i know what your going through and i know i dont know you or your man but when he says- "God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" that sounds soo sweet, you guys sound so cute together and i really hope you still want to be with him...you should stay with him but just confront him and tell him that he needs to stop being a jerk to you..i hope all works out! :) xoxo
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Ehh, i think u should dump him.. and i dont think u can love someone when its your first boyfriend, you will find someone BETTER than him! and you will find someone who wont b with you every other 5 mins, i, personally think hes playing you... sooo just be single or find someone new and thats trust worthly, and that will stay with you for longer than 5 mins! hope i helped...sry if its harsh
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I think you should stay with him. If he said that I'm sure he ment it bcuz he could have found a different girl. But instead he wants you so he must really love u and care about you. If you really love him then you should stay with him. Guys a lot of times are always jerks and make big mistakes that they later regret and are really sorry for. Take a chance, everyone makes mistakes. Good luck, Plz rate. -Jenny xoxo
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i think u should stay wit him becuz if u love him as much as u say u do then stay wit him becuz theres no other boyfriend then like your first boyfriend so stay wit him and if he breaks up wit u again and then ask's u bak out say no becuz then he will keep dumpin u and then askin u bak out and u'll be heartbroken over and over again
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oh my..I think you should follow your heart. If you love this guy and you think he changed maybe you can give him another try. You have to get hurt in order to grow. If you decide that he is going back to his old ways then break it off before it gets in real deep because, then it is just going to hurt 10 times worse. Usually when a guy says he will kill himself... most likely hunny.. he won't. So just follow your heart and do what you feel is right because, if you rely on other peoples opinions you aren't going to do what you feel inside yourself. Which is going to make you more upset then before. Good luck!
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Hey!OKAY this happens so many times..for one if ur bf is a jerk and he doesn't have a really good reason (like a death in the family or uh boy pms lol or somethin like that) then you should just forget em!You can get someone that loves you and wouldn't hurt you..I think that if your willing to take the risk for this boy you "love" then go ahead and do it!As for me I would not.I don't really go for second chances...And when im hurt by a person (especially boys) I won't take em back.BUT THATS ME!If you REALLY REALLY love him and are willin to take the risk of gettin hurt AGAIN then go ahead and do it if you want to..but if you do break up w/ him..boys always say they'll kill themselves if you break up w/ them..they are just doin it so you don't!So do what ya feel sista and good luck!!lol..lemme kno how it all turns out!!
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then gurl boys are you can see are confusin but if a boy told you that and you believe him then go for it but if your mind is telln you you dont wanna b wit him, then dont but if ur heart is u shuld listn to your mind becuz ur heart will always get broken if not!
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