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My friend and i have been best friends for a really long time but now i think i am losing her to a girl she used to not like but now does for some reason my friend thinks she has to lie to me about what they r doing this new girl is really nice and i love her to death but i dont want to lose my best friend to her how shud i handle this shud i talk to her about it and let her know how i feel or shud i just let her have some space???
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walk up to her and bitch slap her. Just kidding.
tell your friend what you told me. She'll understand.
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I would just talk to her, let her know that you're okay with this new girl. Its possible that your best friend feels that you don't like this new girl. I would not ignore the situation, your friend might get the wrong idea and think you're angry with her or something. Aside from that just keep your cool, don't sound upset with her when you talk to her. Good luck, keep writing. I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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Aw well thats hard. You should let her have her space but still tell her how you feel. (Really telling somone how you feel helps) She will probably understand and I'm sure she doesnt want you to feel this way, and try and make you not feel like that. If shes your best friend your not gona losse her. Your friend is probably just making some new friends. Maybe you and them can hang out together. Good luck!! If you have ne more q's or more to add about this u can ask me again! - Jenny
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personally, i think confronting her right away might just make her push you away more because for whatever reason, you guys are already not seeing eye to eye and she might get weirded out and like "why are you making such a big deal out of this?" ~ it's not your fault tho!! sometimes ppl change and grow seperate ways and sometimes they just need a little space from people who they see everyday so that they won't get on each others nerves...make sure your friend knows that your there tho - talk to her online and casually suggest hanging out, even if it means with this other girl ~ this might sound odd, but i think that if the other girl and you started to get along, then your friend might feel possessive of you and start to hang out with you more again.....good luck, hope my advice made sense!! lol xoxo
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