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i have this friend... i have this friend lets call her jay. jay liked this boy ((lets call him P)) her and P used to go out but he broke up with her because she was to slow. (well cuz she never kissed him) but he still loved her and she still loved him so they were just talking for a while and they kissed a few times to. he finally decided he wanted her back. but thats wen she went to a dance and started dancing with some boy ((lets call him E)) well she sorta got a crush on E i guess because wen she came to school the next day she had i love E on her hand. well that was the day P was gonna ask her out. but she made me tell P she sed no so i did and i could tell he was hurt. now she is obsesed with E and he is 11 and she is 13. how do i tell her that she made a big mistake and that she is dumb by choicing a 11 year old? how do i tell her that w.o hurting her feelings?
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well just because E is 2 years older doesnt mean that she made the wrong choice. you can always express your feelings though, just make sure that you arent rude. just say something like "P really likes you and he was really upset about you choosing E over him" try to convince her to think your way if you can. ]
anonymous -
One thing I can tell you right now is that it was wrong of her to get you involved in all this drama. By telling her, you're only increasing the hostility and possibly jeoprodizing your friendship.
Trust me, she'll learn the hard way that choosing a 11 year old wasn't the right decision. ]
Well.. I suggest not get into it! let her figure out what to do!
It is one of life's many lessons!
Hope I helped!
Dani3ll3 ]
he's 11? well shell find out for herself after a lil while. tell P to just hang in there cuz it wont last very long... <3 ]
uh?? maybe she didn't make a mistake...but word to the other comment ]
This is just confusing.
I'm so glad I'm not in junior high anymore. ]
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