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i moved like a year ago, and everytime i try to get together with my old friends they come up with some lame excuse. i dont know what to think.
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Hey hun! I think that you should try talking to your friends, and asking them about it. Tell them that you feel their always making up excuses so they don't have to do anything with them. You shouldn't just assume that their making up excuses. They could really be busy when you ask them, so maybe they can't do anything. Or like you said, they could be making up excuses. I don't think your friends would just make up excuses though so they don't have to do anything with you. I'm sure they miss you! I know I would miss my friends if they moved, and I would definitely wanna do stuff with them. Before you get mad at them for anything, I would suggest that you talk to them about it. Find out why they can't do anything. Ask them if their making up excuses, or if they really can't go anywhere. I'm sure they have good reasons. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Good luck! I'm sure everything will turn out great for u! :) Let me know how it goes ok?
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its sad to say--but we all move on. maybe they have too. concentrate on making friends in your new neighborhood. its very normal...for friends to drift apart...even over the summer...i'm not surpised they are flaking out on you. dont be too upset, there are prolly lots of kids who'd make good friend material right in your own backyard...spend your energy persuing them instead...you can still keep in touch via email and the phone...that'd be good.
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louise
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they don't like you very much i don't like you either
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theyve moved on, so should you
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stop tryin for awhile, if they wanna chill w/ u..they'll call. if not...hang out w/ some new friends
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hey!
yea i moved from Kansas to Texas about 6 years ago! it was hard but my friends accepted it! i would just talk to them and tell them that you are going to make new friends but they will always be your friends too!
AMY
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maybe they are mad at you for moving? i dunno im not sure but i do know there is some tension between you guys. you should talk to them and try to find out whats bothering them.good luck
<3 carlitz
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wow...i had the same problem when i moved..no one wanted to talk to me or do anything with me..but just ignore them..yeah the y used to be your best friends..but you just have to forget about them..when i moved, my BEST friend didnt want talk to me or anything..but now when i see her around or anything she will say hey to me and i just try to ignore her..yeah we used to be best friends and i do miss her and all my other friends a LOT, but think of the new friends you are gonna make and how many good times your gonna have with them...
~*Sarah*~
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Oh man, been there. I had moved to another country for a year and a half, and when I came back, I got all these stupid excuses. "I have to see my grandma" "I have to go to the dentist.... on a sunday...."
Just forget about them. If they don't value your friendship, why should you?
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