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I hate myself and want to die. There is no way out. There is no definite answer to anything so how can you ever be right? Why do my friends always want to know what i am thinking when they dont care, they dont listen so why ask. Counsellors get PAID to listen to you. no one will remember me a year from my death. Anti depressants leave you numb and emotionless. Doctors dont issue sleeping pills coz I am a depressant but I cant SLEEP all i do is stare into senseless nothing seeing nothing but black shadows. The only releif is a razor blade and salt. Nothing will ever get better i will have this hopeless feeling of nothingness and desperation for somekind of peace of mind which i wont get. Things will always be the same and then ill die anyway. Im a selfish ugly fat bitch and the only way out is death. nothing can help me. im searching for a solution to get past my pathetic problems asides from counsellors, therapy, rehab, cutting, not cutting, anti depressants the only thing i can think of to a solution is death. no will will ever be able to stop this drowning feeling (link)
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no, thats definetly not the answer, if your not in counceling, get into cause that was scary to read. i have felt that way before, but not as deeply, you should really go to a councelor, or enen find a group of friends who WILL listen to you, then work something out with youyr family so that your life at home is relaxing, but DEFINETLY see someone, brcause you can't help yourself on your own because of ho2w far along you are with your thoughts and actions (cutting). if it was minor cuts, and no thinking of death then you could work it out on your own , but since its not, you need someone who will listen to you/
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im not talking about the movie "the notebook" im talking about the actually BOOK "the notebook"... where do i buy it? is it at any bookstore or do i have to order it? thanks. (link)
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its at like any book store
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Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react? (link)
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i really didnt want to tell her, but i knew i need tampons and pads so i just called her when she was at the grocery store and told her that i needed them. she actually didnt react in an embarrasing or rude way she was relly nice about, but she did call my relatives and i got alot of phone calls from my female relatives that day
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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway? (link)
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that is sad! first of all dont dis religions just because you dont like them. our parents dont make us believe! we have a choice. and its called the rapture. and no one says that the rapture will happen during our lifetime! most people start to believe when something happens that no one could have done but god. heres a book you'll probably like, if you take the chance to read it, its called the christian BIBLE! i promise ull like it
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i always seem to noitice that i don't tell anyone too much. i keep secrets to myself and i don't usu8ally like telling my nparents what goes on in my life. i always feel like i can't trust someone , no matter how close in am to them. and when i do tell someone something, i always seem to hesitat. Is this bad? What should i do? (link)
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same w/ me, i dont think its bad
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i want to lose a little weight, i am going on some sort of diet but i was thinking about throwing up like 1 time or even 2 times. Its nothing big, and i am going to eat, but IF i do this whats going to happen?? Because if you give me enough reasons why not to then i might change my mind
im a big athlete and i dont want to ruin that!
i rate high (link)
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thats not anorexia , smart one, its bulemia. GOSH STUPID!
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is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year? (link)
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no its not
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ok my sister's 16 birthday is coming up! i want to get her something special beacuse ...u know its her 16! but i dont no wut to get her!
any suggestions!
i rate high!
thanks! (link)
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get her a steering wheel cover for her car, if she has a car
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i moved like a year ago, and everytime i try to get together with my old friends they come up with some lame excuse. i dont know what to think. (link)
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theyve moved on, so should you
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My breasts have been hurting a lot lately. I havent done anything major, I didnt fall or injure them at all.. no new medications, and my period isnt coming untill the middle of next month. What's wrong with me and what should I do? (link)
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maybe they are growing
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1. I was wondering if it was normal for a 15 year old(3 months away form being 16) not to have her period?
2. Is it possible for someone not to get their period at all in a a lifetime?
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its normal, and everyone gets it no matter what
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When I tried putting the tampon in for the first time, I slid it in, and I tried to do what the instructions said to do, but the whole plastic part came out.
All that was left inside me was the cotton part and the string. Is that what's supposed to happen? Or did I do it totally wrong? Cus it made me nervous...
how do I do this?
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uh, ya htats right, you dont keep the plastic part in!! its okay though, its tough to understand at first, for some poeple
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OMG I soo totally Love hard rock!..my favorite band in the whole world is Dirturbed and I love every one of their songs and i know the words to all of them and i listen to them 24/7...but i am a christian i like other music too but hard rocks my favorite....is listening to it a sin?? and do they worship the devil??? thnx for any help (link)
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no its fine, im a christian and i listen to it,they dont worship the devil, i mean who knows maybe some of them do, but hard rock is not known for devil worshiping
hope i helped
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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out
Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude
It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.
So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty?? (link)
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dont change the way you look, your always harder on urself than other people are
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anyone know the usual cost for professional highlights?? (link)
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around 100
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Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do? (link)
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how sad
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Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!! (link)
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gross
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There's no way in explaining what happened without using a lot of words, so I apologize. I'm 16 and female by the way. I just don't want the people that read this and give me advice to get the wrong idea about things. I've been with this guy for almost 6 months, and recently he told me he doesn't feel the love anymore and that he wants to break up. Me, being stupid, begged him to stay with me. He said that he wanted to take a break to see if he missed me and such. Throughout our whole relationship he was so loving to me and we've both cried over eachother a lot. He's being completely contradictive right now like after he said he wasn't in love with me anymore, a day later he said he still loves me just not as much as he used to. The other day he said in the really pleading voice..."lay with me before you leave baby..please?"..and he cried when he told me he didn't wanna be with me so what the hell is he thinking? I have no idea whether he's just lying to me or if he really wants to work it out in the future. I talked to one of our mutual friends and she said he's afraid to break up with me cause he doesn't wanna hurt me but a few people say that we've just spent too much time together and he needs a break to really feel the love again. We were with eachother almost every day for the past 6 months...I don't know. Someone help me. I know he's good at heart..he really is and I didn't want anyone thinking he was an asshole for what he said. (link)
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men suck
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I am finding i am getting more and more friends, but i have some very close friends in two different groups, and once group hates the other and the other dosent like some of the people in the other, but not all. one of the groups is "popular" and the other has a pretty low status, but that dosent really matter to me.Both of the groups only wants me to hang out with them, and refuse to get along... i feel like i fit in with the "popular" group more, but i still love everyone in the other group! one of my friends has had this happen to her and she likes the "popular" group better,(her name is haley) and wants me to join her... i wont leave my best friends tho (twins) and the group only mite accept one of them, according to haley...
PLEASE HELP!
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ur friends are uppsetting??? how sad
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Okey, my friend told me to ask this question. She has been shaving her mustach for about a year now..and it looks really bad!! what can she do? she cant wax because she gets rashes and for some reason it doesnt even work..and she cant tweez because there's too much hair. And she cant colour cuz it still shows..any suggestions? (link)
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stop acting like its ur friend, we all know its you!!! dont worry, im sure ur hair growth will stop eventually, till then wax, put lotion on the rash!
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