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Im tired of not bieng noticed
My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out
Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude
It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.
So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty??
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I fyour really uncomfortable with your looks, you can experiment with different kinds of makeup to see what flatters your features the most, but remember-no guy likes a girl who looks like a clown, so don't cake on the makeup. Mostly, though, you have to learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. Guys admire a girl with confidence. Good Luck!
*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*
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do not change yourself!!! im sure you are very pretty. i mean my friends are gorgeous and i dont think im pretty and i havent had a boyfriend in like 4 years, so dont worry about it. im sure someone likes you!!
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Dude!! I feel the same exact way with my two cousins.
Rachael -- shes outgoing, crazy, funny, nice eyes and all that stuff
Erica -- one of those completely popular girls who wears makeup and all the guys call her hot.
Me -- Feel invisible in school around my friends and around them most times..
I've been thinking too. Should I start wearing makeup now? Should I change how I dress or how I act to be noticed? The truth is I dont like who I am now and I feel completely invisible because they're really pretty. I mean I think I'm pretty kinda I just don't wear makeup and I really don't want to, because if you think about it it's just hiding what's really you. ya know?
You shouldn't change yourself unless you want to for YOU. Don't wear makeup, change your personality or style unless it's your choice..because in the end it wont help any.
I havent found my place yet but hopefully it's coming soon...your place will come. I know you feel invisible but I'm sure you're very pretty. Don't sell yourself short..
`jeSsie
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I think your best answer is right under your nose.Ask Paige and Alex to help you.Try some make up. I really doubt that you are ugly!
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In my opinion you should never change yourself for someone else. If they don't accept you for who you are then that's their problem. Not yours. If you have an amazing personality then stick with that. You probably are pretty, but you might be hard on yourself. I think the best bet is to be yourself and have fun being yourself. =)
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ok this is sooo tuff are you skinny thats good if your not get in shape i soo know how you feel im not the prettest bae in school but that personality can so come in handy cause what are you going to say on your first date this is what i did get in shape wear a push up bra wear super cute skirts that match you (they should be at least above the knee) and wear tight shirts bu look nice you dont want to look like a slut but not a grandma have you thought of a new hairstyle also
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Okay, in my opinion, I don't think you should change yourself JUST to get noticed. Also, I'm sure that you are pretty to someone out there. If people don't accept you for who you are, then don't bother with them or tell them how you feel or something. If you want to try something to make yourself look a little more put together or something, use make-up (eyeliner,eyeshadow,mascara,concealer/foundation,ect. if you don't already). Just don't try too hard, because then people might think of you worse (no offense!) Also, everybody has their own opinion about literally TONS of things, so I'm sure not everyone thinks you're not pretty, trust me. hope i helped, if you need more advice my sn is xobubblegum25xo
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I do think that it is important to feel confident about yourself. If getting a haircut, or wearing some make-up, or finding some form flattering clothes makes you feel better about yourself, then go for it.
However, always remember that you are not pretty, you are _beautiful_. Just because you may not match society's twisted standards of "pretty" doesn't mean that God didn't create you to be equally beautiful to everyone else.
And remember, in real life, and in the end, it doesn't really matter whether you're beautiful on the outside or not. Being beautiful on the inside is what matters, and when you get older you'll discover that inner beauty will touch more people, more deeply, than your appearance ever will.
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Hey!! No need to change your personality!! If you start wearing make upv or go to a M.A.C. store and get a make over.. they can surely help you there!! But beyond the most don't change your personality! then once you et a make over, you wil have the personality and the looks!!!!!!! you will blow your friends out of the water!!!
hope I helped!
Dani3ll3
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some day, theres going to be a guy that loves you 4 YOU not your looks...and thats the best guy out there.
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dont change the way you look, your always harder on urself than other people are
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Aww, don't change yourself because of your friends. If you rly want to change yourself, then do simple stuff. Like, get your hair colored, go to a make-up professional and get her to give you a new look. Good-luck!
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You shouldn't have to change yourself in any way unless YOU really want to. If you truly feel you aren't pretty and want to change, you could go get a makeover if you want. Bring your friends to suggest ideas and give you support. If anything I think you should be happy with how you are now because, like you said, people don't care about your looks...they like your personality. This is your decision, so think it over and do what you feel is going to make you happiest. =)
♥ lAuRa
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ya sure..ur right..personalitty should come first, but personally im with you, i would change my look..lol im sure you can full it off..anyone can..well almost..hope i helped..goodluck
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you cant change yourself!!! your unique and beautiful on the inside
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I think you need a boost of self esteem. Don;t change yourslef for people. Its not right, your fine how you are, IM sure your not ugly at all, So don;t put urself down because IM sure someone thinks your pretty, maybe there just afraid to tell you. I hope you feel Bettre About yourlsef, and don;t change to please people. If you need n e thing IM me Itsallkaitlyn <33Kaitlyn IHIH*
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dont say your not pretty you are!! not every guy likes a girl that is dropdead georgous!! ok some guys want a girl that has a since of hummer and they dont care what they look like!!
so what ever you want but please remeber god gave you a body and made it the way it is for a reason!!
kris
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u could change something to give you more confidence and make you more comfortable. everyone feels like theyre not pretty enough at one time or another. dont let it get you down! <3
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deal with it your friends like you the way you are and they dont want you to ever ever change believe me it sucks when guys like you but your friends dont if you decide to change yourself dont change your personality...
Hope i helped,
Brett lover<3 =)
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Any girl can be pretty! You don't have to change yourself to be pretty either! The sexiest thing a girl can have is confidence. So if you have confidence and a good personality, you're good to go! Just take care of your face by washing it twice a day and use a moisturizor (sp!) after each time you wash it. Put a little bit of makeup on. Powder can do wonders to your face! Along with some eyeshadow, long, beautiful eyelashes, eyeliner, and a little bit of blush. Experiment with different looks! If you need any makreup help/advise, you can always ask me! (( x0PINKISSEXY ))
♥ Always,
Maria
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heyy well i say that you not deal with it but think of it as a good thing and i dont know you but im sure you are pretty(im not lesbianlol)and alot of people put themselves down like that so i think you should try and forget about it and not put urselve down
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