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please help me i still like him!
ok i need help me n' my x broke up brutal and he likes my best friend but my best friend doesnt like him at all but the problem is i still like him the way we met is he liked another one of my best friend bout 2 months ago and my best friend didnt like him so me and him became alott closer and we went to go see white noise as instinct i grabbed his hand and things went from there...we liked eachother alot but things got rocky with my friends and his friends and he broke up with me once then we got back together and he broke up with me again everything i hear or see reminds me of him some of my friends say its my first love but i dont know i had to tell him i didnt like him anymore cuz i didnt want it to be akward between us he said he wasnt gonna give up on my best friend what should i do
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Well, your best friend it seems, has given up on him.. if she ever even considered him. I think you should move on. It sounds like he's trying to date your whole group of friends, or something.
It hasn't worked out obviously... and maybe it's not supposed to. Sometimes there's chemistry, but no destiny. I know that's what happened with me and my ex-boyfriend (who is now my best friend and we still do everything together)... And I liked him for a while after we broke up, but every time we got back together, it just didn't work out. It turned out that giving up on the relationship was the best thing we ever did.
But not everyone is like me and my ex. Maybe you guys are meant to be together... so if you want to be daring, tell him you like him, and ask where he sees this going... he said he likes your best friend, and even though you can't seem to get over him, it may not be for the best to like him... one way to get over him is to find another guy to like! Don't look for the future in the past! (sorry it was really long!!)
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Forget about him. It hasint been working out what will be different next time your going out. You need to move on, whether you love him or not. Its not going to be easy, but you'll find yourself over him in a month or two. Trust me I know. Just try to find new guys to like and build relationships with those guys..so you can forget about you ex. I hope I helped, sorry if I didnt. Update me if you can! :) Good luck!
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Ehh.. I know how you feel! I'm going through that right now by the way! I don't know why boys aren't gonna give up on your best friend wen first of all.. she doesnt like him.. and second of all.. he should kno that its Chicks b4 dicks.. and girls aint gonna go out with their best friends lover right?? I know it was hard for you to tell him that you didn't like him anymore, because you didn't want the whole love thing to mess up you guys's friendship! I know that straight out I jsut wanted to tell him "you know what? she doesnt like you and she wont!" but you can't sound rude so that makes things a whole lot tuffer! I told the guy that this was happening to me with.. and I just pretty much said that "I still like ya.. but don't feel like you have to like me back. Even though we are good buds and you like my best friend.. please I dont want this to change the good friendship that we have now." and just follow along to wat he has to say back! This is a tough question for me to answer for you, becuase I am going through the same thing you are right now to!! Hope i helped ya a bit.. I did the best I could!! I probably need the same advice from someone about this same subject to!! lol im always here for ya tho!! :) -eree
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well tne i think you should forget him you dont need him!!! and plus he will have to give up some how!!
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