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ok i need help me n' my x broke up brutal and he likes my best friend but my best friend doesnt like him at all but the problem is i still like him the way we met is he liked another one of my best friend bout 2 months ago and my best friend didnt like him so me and him became alott closer and we went to go see white noise as instinct i grabbed his hand and things went from there...we liked eachother alot but things got rocky with my friends and his friends and he broke up with me once then we got back together and he broke up with me again everything i hear or see reminds me of him some of my friends say its my first love but i dont know i had to tell him i didnt like him anymore cuz i didnt want it to be akward between us he said he wasnt gonna give up on my best friend what should i do
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Ehh.. I know how you feel! I'm going through that right now by the way! I don't know why boys aren't gonna give up on your best friend wen first of all.. she doesnt like him.. and second of all.. he should kno that its Chicks b4 dicks.. and girls aint gonna go out with their best friends lover right?? I know it was hard for you to tell him that you didn't like him anymore, because you didn't want the whole love thing to mess up you guys's friendship! I know that straight out I jsut wanted to tell him "you know what? she doesnt like you and she wont!" but you can't sound rude so that makes things a whole lot tuffer! I told the guy that this was happening to me with.. and I just pretty much said that "I still like ya.. but don't feel like you have to like me back. Even though we are good buds and you like my best friend.. please I dont want this to change the good friendship that we have now." and just follow along to wat he has to say back! This is a tough question for me to answer for you, becuase I am going through the same thing you are right now to!! Hope i helped ya a bit.. I did the best I could!! I probably need the same advice from someone about this same subject to!! lol im always here for ya tho!! :) -eree
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Hey rainey!! I love ya soo much!! Your the one always making me laugh and have a good time!! Thanks for all the things that you do for me!! i love ya soo much!! bFFAE!
Okay well.. the best way to get over a guy..
Even though we are in 7th grade.. its hard to get over a breakup with a guy you REALLY liked! Trust me.. I went out with a guy for 9 months.. and I felt TERRIBLE after the breakup.. wow I cried and cried my eyes out.. but thinking about it now i laugh and we are pretty good buds now!
talk to your friends.. thats pretty much what I did.. I didn't get over this guy until about 4 months after the breakup, but I always went to my true friends and told them anything that I was feeling or thought, thats what friends are for right? My friends kept me busy so I couldnt even think about it!! Ask your friends if they could take you out, but you may not want to go out with your friends and their boyfriends for a while, becuse that could ruin your whole night out. It's hard to know that you just can't go up to the person that you loved and talk to them like you could before, and that that feeling may never come back, but day by day.. you'll realise.. he's so yesterday!! *lmao thats wat my mom told me about my ex BF.. lol that old annoying hilary duff song..!! lmao!!*
but feel free to talk to me about it anytime if this didn't help ya out.. because I know who you are talking about, and I know that I am trying to get over someone myself, and I'm sure you know who! Sometime you and me need to go boy hunting! haha love ya so much rainey.. and i hope that helped a little bit!! :)
When your alone, do something maybe to keep your mind off *him*! Listen to music.. talk online.. watch TV.. exersise*haha they say it relieves stress!!* Hope i helped a bit! talk to me netime!
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how do u ask a girl out and not look stupid (link)
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Aww!! :D I'll tell ya wat I think from a girls point of veiw!!
You probably don't want to ask the girl ur crushin on out straight out. If you're a stranger to her and you barely even know her.. She would probably feel akward being asked out by someone she doesn't know very well yet! I would definatly say get to know her more.. ask her to the movies or something.. give her a call.. talk to her online!! Anything to get to know her a little better.. but try not to get too good of friends with her, because then she might be uneasy about her answer because she doesnt want to ruin a strong friendship. It's all the matter of time.. don't rush yourself.. or honestly.. a girl might think your stupid! Well thats my advice from me, so you might want to either ask your other guy friends what they think!! I hope guys give their friends advice!! lol Hope that helped! :) ask me again if you need nemore advice!! :) -eree
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i have this friend who is really popular and i am too, but just not as much as her.i dont want o be friends w/ her cause she has changed. i am afraid and intimidated by her. how do i put her down on a good note? (link)
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Ehh.. thats not good!! I just answered a question similar to this, and if you guys are best friends, and you know that you would be there for eachother.. I would confront her, if she has REALLY changed.. It's hard when your best friend changes.. becuase believe it or not.. its happened to me many times, but it has all come out smoothly after you talk to her one on one about it. I would say talk to her about it one on one in person.. and if thats not best on the phone. If you do it online, it's SO much easier for the friend you are talking to to get mad at you and to send it around to everyone and make you feel humiliated. Don't give up on your friend yet! If your scared and intimidated by the way she has changed by a person.. I would say tell her that.. but MAKE SURE U SAY IT IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE! Maybe even if you'r other friends think she is changing too.. ask them about it and maybe they can help you confront her, but don't get too many people *u may not want to even get anyone else* because if you get too many people.. she will feel cornered. I hope I helped, and if this didnt work, feel free to write again and keep me updated!! Thanks and hope everything turns out good! Don't give up on your best friend yet!! Just keep working on it and follow your heart!! :) -eree
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hey....youknow me....apparently.now i have to ask you somethin.now see i have this friend,and she has kind of changed from a new friend of hers which is also one of my very close friends....well i dont know if i should tell her that she has changed....or if i should tell the person that has changed her...cause they are like two of my good friends...and i love them very much but i have no idea of what i should do and who i should tell....so i was hoping that you could give me a little hint of your smart capabilites,lol.cause i really need it!!thanks for everything erica!!! (link)
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I wonder who this is!! :O hehe
Well.. honestly.. I would confront the girl. I know that if I was changing.. I would appreciate my friend telling me, because no one wants to change for the worse right? I have told all my friends to confront me when I am acting weird or differnt.. so I think that you should confront her and start by saying "Hey ____, as your true friend, I have noticed that ______. Is there anything causing this? Have you noticed, or has anyone mentioned it to you?" Just do what your heart thinks, and what you think is best! I am sure that your friend would love to hear, because I'm sure that they took the time to think about you confronting them.. they would understand that you REALLY care!! Hope this helps.. and if ya need more help.. just ask again, and tell me how it's doing!! Hope it works!! :) -eree
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