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how do i just stop being friends with my best friend? i have this friend who is really popular and i am too, but just not as much as her.i dont want o be friends w/ her cause she has changed. i am afraid and intimidated by her. how do i put her down on a good note?
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Ehh.. thats not good!! I just answered a question similar to this, and if you guys are best friends, and you know that you would be there for eachother.. I would confront her, if she has REALLY changed.. It's hard when your best friend changes.. becuase believe it or not.. its happened to me many times, but it has all come out smoothly after you talk to her one on one about it. I would say talk to her about it one on one in person.. and if thats not best on the phone. If you do it online, it's SO much easier for the friend you are talking to to get mad at you and to send it around to everyone and make you feel humiliated. Don't give up on your friend yet! If your scared and intimidated by the way she has changed by a person.. I would say tell her that.. but MAKE SURE U SAY IT IN THE NICEST WAY POSSIBLE! Maybe even if you'r other friends think she is changing too.. ask them about it and maybe they can help you confront her, but don't get too many people *u may not want to even get anyone else* because if you get too many people.. she will feel cornered. I hope I helped, and if this didnt work, feel free to write again and keep me updated!! Thanks and hope everything turns out good! Don't give up on your best friend yet!! Just keep working on it and follow your heart!! :) -eree ]
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