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He died!
Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do?
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I think you just need to accept that fact that he died. I know that it isn't easy and it's really hard but it'd help you out a lot of you accepted it. He's in heaven now looking over you. He's in a better place and he isn't suffering anymore. Your heart will ache but he'll always be with you--just not physically. He's in your heart and right now that's the best place for him.
It's always sad when a loved one dies. I know. It's really hard. But death is part of life that will happen to everyone. He lived his life the best he could. Now he has a better life up there with God. Just pray.
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!!!How Sad!!!
but dont go gothic and dont cut your self!!!
thats crazy.
i know its hard when you loose someone you love but you can be gloomy for ever your life will get better. try to do someof the stuff you use to do that made you happy.
belive me i dont think your boyfriend would want you to act this sad and cutting your self and stuff. i think he would want you to be haooy:-) even if it is hard.
hoped i helped
-Kittie-
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i dunno i would die to tell you the truth
thats sad
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losing someone you love is really hard. talk to your parents and tell them you need help. talk to your friends and family and remember all the good times that you've had. it will be sad for a long time but things will heal. talk to someone about how you feel. dont hurt yourself though. that wont get you anywhere and it definately wont make things better. please try talking it out and dont hurt yourself anymore. good luck and things will get better!
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that must be horrible.. if something like that happened to me i dont know what id do.. but you cant think about it.. hes in a happier place now.. and hes watching you right now.. there are people who have said horrible things to people who die the next day and now they regret it for the rest of their lives.. be happy that you were able to spend his last hours on earth with him. your going to be with him some day.. dont hurt yourself, it wont help and its not going to bring him back.. you cant be sad for the rest of your life.. im sure he wants you to be happy and he loves you and he always will. try to get better.. i hope i helped you
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hey
im so sorry,i know it is hard but mabey do some of the things you like to help get your mind off of it. just so you know god has a plan for you life and things will get better.
dont be cutting your self i know its hard not to but if you and your boyfriend were so close i know,in heaven, he doesnt want to see you in that kind of pain.
hold on life will get better and say prays gods always there to help..
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death is a hard thing to get over. Trust me, i'd know. But you just have to realize that he wouldn't want you crying over him and being miserable. He'd want you happy and to go on living your life. Don't forget him but don't make the rest of your life a sacrifice for him. Don't hurt yourself or anything just b/c he died. That won't bring him back. You'll get over it eventually. Just dont do anything drastic like cutting yourself. It won't solve anything. Hope i helped!
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how sad
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Don't go gothic on everyone, here, I know it's hard, like every death is. I know I may get myself into trouble saying these type things, but go to church and read a Bible.... Because Jesus loves you more than you loved your boyfriend and He'd be in more pain than you are if you died without knowing him. Just take it easy, don't cut yourself, and see how it works out that way. Maybe this is His way of showing you that you need Him.
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I have to say i don't know how you must feel. I know you're feeling terrible, but even the other people who have gome through it with you haven't been hurt as much, becasue they weren't his gf. But I can imagine. A guy at my school, Bryson, just died a week ago. He ran into a fence in a motocross race and was killed instantly. I know you feel terrible, and don't think that you can move on. You have to. Do you think this is what he would've wanted? I know, I know, it's what they always say, like in those cheesey tv shows, but it's true. If he was watching you right now, he wouldn't want you living like that. He wouldn't want you cutting yourself and skipping classes. I mean, your shouldn't act like his death never happened, but maybe it happened for a reason. Maybe it was to show you how, no matter what life throws at you, you have to get back up and fight. Live life the way you want to, do everything you've ever wanted to do in life, becasue you don't know how much time you have left. Talk to a therapist, or your friends, or some one who went throught the tradgedy too. It's good to remember him. Think of all the time you DID get to spend with him, and dont think about all the time you have to spend without him. Life is going to go on, whether or not you are ready for it. You have to get back in the game, as they say, and keep on living, becasue your bf would not have wanted you to turn into this. He of all people would know how short life can be, and would want to make sure that for however much time you have left, you make it good. I'm terribly sorry about your loss, words cannot express how tragic that is, but you can't bring him back. I'm sorry. If you need more help, im me (for aim) at inflamedllama.
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Death is hard to get over. And I am really deeply sorry about your loss. You have reason to be sad but let me let you in on something I have learned from experience, no matter how much crying you do it's not going to bring him back to you. That really doesn't sound like it will help but think about it this way, he IS watching down on you right now and always will be, no matter what happens in life. Do you really think that he wants to see you sad? But in time it will get better. Your hearts going to heal. It's going to be scarred like a really deep cut that healed over. Just think of the good memories. Crying helps you feel better a little bit but it's not going to bring him back. But he's in a better place now and that should make you feel a little better.
X♥X♥
Charmed-Cherry21
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hey that is horrible. I know you probably loved him alot but you cant keep yourself in the past. You have to move on. I dont mean totally forget about him...but try to cope with it instead of hurting yourself. If your boyfriend is watching over you he wouldnt want to see you cutting yourself and falling behind over his death. You can go to a phsiciatrist and talk to them about it. Or write how you feel out in a journal or something. I am so so sorry about your loss and i hope you feel better.
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