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Member Since: March 25, 2005
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Last Update: March 26, 2005
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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks (link)
hey,
you can nibble on her ear,girls love that!


Ok, I've been thinking about dumping my boyfriend for one of my guy friends. I know they both really really like me, and I still want to be friends with my boyfriend that I have now. Anyone have any advice on a easy break up? (link)
ok,tell your boy friend you need to be honest with him and that you like his friend tell him you still all want to be friends and if he likes you enough and respects you enough he will respect your decision and you guys will be good friends.


I know about cutting and what cutters do..but i watched tv the other day and it showed a girl who snapped a rubber band on her wrist and needed phyciatric help for it...what does a rubber band do and whats the purpos? (link)
hey
a rubber band hurts and it can lead to cutting because people do
it for the pain and the pain iscaused by stress an if they dont know how to handle stress then that is why they would have to get phyciatric help.


Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do? (link)
hey
im so sorry,i know it is hard but mabey do some of the things you like to help get your mind off of it. just so you know god has a plan for you life and things will get better.

dont be cutting your self i know its hard not to but if you and your boyfriend were so close i know,in heaven, he doesnt want to see you in that kind of pain.

hold on life will get better and say prays gods always there to help..


Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!! (link)
hey,
well if i were you i would get to know him, but be careful he might just want sex, so when you are with him try to be in public places,and always have yourfriends there.


Okey, my friend told me to ask this question. She has been shaving her mustach for about a year now..and it looks really bad!! what can she do? she cant wax because she gets rashes and for some reason it doesnt even work..and she cant tweez because there's too much hair. And she cant colour cuz it still shows..any suggestions? (link)
well,
your friend could always use nair or some kind of lotion were you wipe it off in a few minutes.


This is a really dumb question, but idk if it's true.


Is it true you can lose your virginity froma tampon???? (link)
hi
there no such thing as a stupid question.but no you cant lose your virginty from a tampon.


ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing??? (link)
hey
i think your ex boyfriend is being wat yo call "imature".you did do the right thing by telling him its not a good thing to keep secrets in relationships.he probably just has really strong feelings for you and doesnt know how to show it.but now you have to decide whether the guy you were talking to or your ex boyfriend is more important to you.


here's my problem..i've had this HUGE crush (i dont even like calling it a crush, i think i love him..but no one thinks it's possible so whatever..)anyway, ive had this huge crush on a guy fro about 8 years (i've known him all my life) but we're not really tight friends. (thats not my problem) The thing is, i've never tried to hit on the guy or anything cuz i wanted to respect his GF and all..They've been together 7 years (since 4th grade)and during all this time i've liked him..and i know he really loves her, but they just broke up 3 weeks ago, im gonna let him get over her cuz i know he needs time (c'mon it wa 7 years!!) but then after that? will i ever be able to replave his first love, his gf of 7 years? its gonna be terrible he's gonna be comparing me with her..and i cant compete with her and what they had. What am i going to do? When he first gottogether with her i decided to get over him..and i've been trying ever since..but it didnt work =( seven years later, here i am, still in love with him..so please dont tell me to get ver him! it wont work..please help me, please!! (link)
hey
i know you dont want me to tell you to get over him.but did you ever think that mabey you could of had alot of fun and guys in those eight years.you sound like a very nice person and if he cant see that then mabey you werent meant to be. but if tou do want to try a relationship with him dont try to change your self to act like his ex girlfriend because your right he will try to compare you guys.if you are going to have a relationship with him first be there for him through this rough time and spend alot of time with him if you can tell he likes you, you should ask him out.


Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean. (link)
hi
i totally understand how you feel i went anorexic for a while because of kids saying that kind of stuff to me. but going anorexic is the wrong thing to do im recovered and know i try not to take things so seriously if people make fun of me because of my weight i either blow it off or laugh at my self because looks are taken way to seriously in these days.if god wanted us to look any differeent then we do he would have done it himself.now try not to take things so seriously, i know it might be hard but just be out going and fun and dont let them bother you so much.




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