okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks
GheadMak3myDay answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 10:34 am: angiesue67 hit it on the head:
listen to her. But more specifically, pay attention to what she is saying or doing. For example, if she lets out a 'mmmmmmm' while you're kissing her neck you know you're doing something right and you keep on doing it. Also, ask her questions BUT ask her the proper way. Don't ask, 'Am I rubbing this correctly?' since you sound like a doctor and not her boyfriend. Instead, do something that you think would turn her on and ask (in a sexy whisper), 'Does this turn you on?' If she says yes or nods her head and keep on doing it. If she frowns or shows signs of disgust, then it's time to try something else. Some key spots on the female body (besides the obvious breasts, butt, face):
- back of the neck (specifically the point where the body and neck meet)
- small of the back (about an inch or so above the butt crack)
- inner thigh
- the line that is made at the point where leg and body meet
- slightly below the knees and above the calf muscle
- along the edge of the head starting from the chin leading to the ear
- area around where the breast meets the body
These areas should be kissed, licked, rubbed, and/or gently bitten. Remember, unlike guys whose most stimulating spot is their penis, a girl's whole body is a stimulation spot. Just touching her skin will have an erotic effect. [ GheadMak3myDay's advice column | Ask GheadMak3myDay A Question ]
angiesue67 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:27 pm: looks like you have all the advice you need, but remember this..
LISTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY!! dont sit there thinkng.."o i just wanna get into your pants, and makeout with you..ect."...look her in the eyes when shes talking 2 u, and show her you care for what she has to say!
sPicYx0hoTt answered Sunday March 27 2005, 8:58 am: ok you should definitly kiss her neck. Also a lot of girls think its so cute to go up from behind them, give them a hug, put ur hands on their waist things like that. [ sPicYx0hoTt's advice column | Ask sPicYx0hoTt A Question ]
xOtWiXi answered Saturday March 26 2005, 4:23 pm: If her parents are there, keep all actions low lol, like just hold her hand or put your arm around her neck. Be super polite.
If they aren't, just try kissing her, I mean after all she is your gf ♥
Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong answered Saturday March 26 2005, 3:07 pm: I am assuming her parents are going to be there, so it is important that you don't embarrass her around her family or make her feel uncomfortable by being too touchy-feely. When you are around the rest of her family, just be sweet and attentive, and do little things like holding her hand, brushing her hair out of her face with your hand, or little kisses on her forehead or something. This way, you don't seem really over-bearing in front of her parents, and being really sweet will make them like you even more. Compliment her on how she looks, and maybe during dinner you could do something like look in her eyes, smile, and then give her hand a little squeeze under the table. She will love all the little things that show that you are paying attention to her. If you two get a chance to be alone later, give her a long hug, and while you are still holding her, tell her how much you love her, then maybe kiss her forehead. If she seems like she wouldn't mind going further, (don't push her to do anything she doesn't want to...you will be able to tell by if she keeps leaning into you, or smiles at you, or leans in for another kiss...) then you can kiss her neck real gentle-like. See what that leads to, but don't move too fast. When a guy seems like he wants to rush into things, it is a real turn off. Take it slow, and just be sweet and gentle. That's the sure way to win a girls heart. Good luck, and have a happy Easter! I hope this helped you a little. [ Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong's advice column | Ask Little_Miss_Cant_Be_Wrong A Question ]
x3babiigurlx3 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 2:59 pm: differnet things turn different girls on....
what u think would turn her on .....
RambunctiousRel answered Saturday March 26 2005, 2:00 pm: let me put it this way.....her parents will be there. Don't do anything the parents would dislike or make them kick u out of their house. And she probably doesn't want you to try and get it on while her parents are in the room next door. Try bringing her flowers and a little kiss when you get to the door. Later you could make-out but i wouldn't do much more. It turns a girl off when all a guy wants to do is get into her pants. Nibble on her ear but don't take it much further since u r at the same house as her parents [ RambunctiousRel's advice column | Ask RambunctiousRel A Question ]
Lovedoctor answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:15 pm: Just to let you know, if her parents are there... don't do anything they wouldn't like. Girls hate it when ALL a guy is trying to do, is try to get into her pants. Bring her some flowers and a card when you meet her at the door, maybe a kiss. Then, move on from there, don't try to get into her pants. Maybe just make-out with her. It turns a girl on when you tell her she looks pretty today, as usual. It turns her off when you try to say stuff like,"your mmmm good like Cambell soup," or something gay like that. Good-luck! [ Lovedoctor's advice column | Ask Lovedoctor A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:14 pm: Nothing turns a girl on like you being yourself and giving her your attention.
Talk, be nice and polite, treat her with respect.
Neck kissing doesn't hurt! Neither does simply holding her hand.
squirrell answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:26 pm: First of all nothing will turn her on if she isn't interested so until you know if she is don't bother. If she is start out slow unless she gives you a sign she wants to get in fast. Just start off by putting your arm around her. Note: If she pushes it off don't keep doing it or she might slap you outside the head. Please rate. [ squirrell's advice column | Ask squirrell A Question ]
iluvkel10 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:23 pm: Well im not sure if at her house with all her family there is the best time espically on a holiday. But thats your choice. Be really sweet to her, cuddle, and hold her hand. Most girls like that. Don't go to far or be to pushy because thats a really big turn off, just do whast shes comfortable with. Hope it helps! [ iluvkel10's advice column | Ask iluvkel10 A Question ]
XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:13 pm: Well... I honestly dont think that easter is the right time to do that kinds of stuff and why is it that guys always try to get into a girls pants when ever they are near her? but anyways.. if u really want to know.. yes kissing on her neck is the best way to start.. make her want you.. if thats what you are going for. play hard to get for a little while and kiss her lightly in a way that she is going to want you to kiss her even more and after a littel while give in and take over... then you both can have fun! hope I helped! please Rate!
**Ashley [ XxLiiLSiiNgErXX's advice column | Ask XxLiiLSiiNgErXX A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:12 pm: Just be sensative, kissing, touching her hand dont go to far because she might think your been a bit obsesive.
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