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Heyy my names Becca and I'm a sophmore at Niagara wheatfield. I'm on varsity swim and cheerleading, and i play lacrosse too. I love meeting people and stuff like that even though sometimes it might not seem that way. I'm always on the computer...but yeah i suppose thats it for now.
E-mail: iluvkel10@aol.com
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Location: New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: March 21, 2005
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in the summer i get freckles all over my face. its really annoying my face is more pale then tan. i look bad without coverup.. i dont like coverup because its cakey sometimes and thick and expensive..and also melts off your face. are there any alternatives to get rid of or cover up freckles? (link)
The reason why your face gets so many freckels in the summer is the sun because it brings the pigment in your skin out you might wanna try sun block on your face...or if your outside tanning put a towel over your face. hope it helps


can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100. (link)
curve ambercrombie and hollister's colone's....trust me


ok wel im trying to lose 40 pounds and most of it over the summer. i do 500 crunches in the morning and at night and i eat good and i swim alot. what should i do.?
ill rate high if its good. (link)
Eating healthy is a major part of it, so don't just eat good before you go to bed. And how are you swimming with a broken hand? O well but try going jogging in the morning when its not to hot outside. Try some workout videos, and when your cast comes off go swimming....but actually do laps and such because trust me swimming is hard work, fun and an amazing work-out. Hope it helps.


Ok, me and what is now my ex both wanted out the relationship cause he liked someone else and I didn't really like him as more than a friend. But I still wants to be friends and he like won't even talk to me. He has another girlfriend now and he's like trying to make me jelous when I'm around (even though I'm not). At this festival thing he was walking past and sorta like pussed her into me? What can I do to like try to become friends again!! I rate! (link)
If you really want to be freinds with him try just spelling it out for him...guys can be slow tell him you still want to be good friends and your not liking that hes ignoring you. Also that oyur not jealous and you can care less that he has a girlfirend and your glad hes happy, cuz guys when they try to make a girl jealous hate that so it would make him back off. Hope it helps.


iv been going bak and forth between these 2 guys((dating them)) and i luv them both equally and im jst as happy w/ 1 as i am w/ the other..and going bak nd forth like this...its hurting us all..i jst cant do that anymore..im w/ 1 of them now..but i still rele like the other..i dont kno wat 2 do w/ out hurting them..nd myself..wat should i do? (link)
You have to choose one or neither...just think who you could see yourself with for a long period of time. And who makes you happier, or how bout who your parents like or your friends get along with because alota of times when your friends don't like your boyfriend then their usually right and things end bad. Hope it helps.


you see.. i like this guy.. and he told me he liked me too..but he has gone thru like 4 girlfriends in the past month and he wont ask me out. Now he has another girlfriend and just before he got her, he said he would ask me out to my friend. But he also said he had to ask this other girl first about if she liked him. but he said he would definately pick me evn if tht other girl did like him. Now he asked her out and theve been going out 4 a while and i cant get him out of my mind.What would u do? (link)
Talk to him whenever jhis girlfriends not around flirt. ASk him what happen and tell him you thought he was going to ask you out. He can't just forget about you that easily, but if he can go through 4 girlfriends in a month he might not even be worth it. Maybe you should just move on. Hope it helps.


Becca I'm really upset that you thought my love life was a joke...It was disappointing you couldn't help me with my tittie problem. You think i am joking when i say i want you because i do forget your boyfriend and come down here to new air swamps you'll fit right in with your big boobs. got to go mamas callin gotta go pick up what the rat puked up.
love ya
Billie Willie (aka Big Willy) (link)
If you live down south, how do you know what i look like? Exactly who is this?? Its getting old.


hey becca. im in 9th grade 15 years old and im a male. im trying rly hard to impress this girl cause i like her a lot. im sure she knows already. i think people told her but neways i talk to her online alot and i see her at swim stuff and i tell her nice things like shes beautiful and all she says is thats dumb or thats stupid. i dont get it im tryin so hard and shes not cooperating lol. wat shuld i do. i rly rly like her. love swimfan :) (link)
Well it sounds like your comming on to strong, maybe you shouldn't tell her shes beautiful so much cuz that scares alot of girls off. Just talk to her like shes anyone of your friends and try to make plans for a group outing like movies or bowling or somthing get to know her as a person better. Hope it helps.


Me and my best friend never talk anymore and it makes me sad. We were really close last year and this year we barely see eachother. We havent hung out in a really long time we always say were gonna but then never do. I've known this person for about 3 or 4 years now and i'd do just about anything for them but it seems like they don't care if we're friends or not and that really hurts. Lately its like all she has time for is her boyfriend..what do u think i should do? (link)
Try calling her more often, when you say you want to make plans actually go forht with them and don't just suggest things. Talk to her about her boyfriend and how you feel...I mean boyfriends come and go but you'll always have your friends right?? Chances are shes noticed you don't talk much either too, maybe thinks you've moved on. Truset me just talk to her I mean bfftde right? (best friends forever till da end)Hope i helped


OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT! (link)
I've had that problem before, tell him how you feel because its obvious he likes you alot too. When this happened to me i found out like a month later that the kid had really liked me too but was to shy to say anything and if i would of said somthing then we probally would of hooked up. Good Luck hope it helps.


i miss you. we never talk anymore and we used to be close friends but now its like your some stranger. your the best friend ive ever had and i dont wanna lose that, but it doesnt seem like we can't even put forth an effort to eachother. you saved me so many times and now im doin less drugs because you. since you found out i was invloved with it you acted like you wanted to forget who i was and that made me try to quit so i could get you back and i'm almost there. but now it seems like an unreachable task. if you dont ever want to speak to me again. i understand, you know i'm the most understanding person in the world. but please come back to me until i can quit doin drugs. i need you, because your the only reason i bother to come to school. i thrive off of what i kno i miss, and thats you, so you keep me motivated. and you need me, i miss the times when you would call up crying after a bad break up because it made me feel like im important and that there's someone who needs me. so please write back and answer my prayer. (link)
...yeah we were totally best friends but i told you already, i try so hard not to surrond myself with that my boyfriend knows that if he ever thinks of it ill break up with him...bestfriends know it too. You i guess just had to test me, but now I know you're trying and yeah I apperacite this but you can't use me as your like...i don't know i cant help with this you got to do it on your own because i need to know that you really stoped.


Becca I live in New Air Swamps Alabama. I found your screen name one day when I was bored online and I need some advice. I had a women and we were at a party and I met another girl and she sucked my dick there and my girlfriend walked in and saw us. it was ok because i was going to dump her because she had small tits...by any chance do you have big titties? I would love to see a picture of you i need your help in deciding what i should do about my tittie fetish because its getting me nowhere, down here in Alabama the only real love we get is our family. So help me choose between Ms. Flat chest, or Ms. Dick Sucker(38DD) thanks for your help keep in touch (link)
This is a joke right?? Who is this?


I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day... (link)
Well if you can't change your attitude then your not really going to get anywhere. In my school we have a math lab room open every period with a teacher helping...try and get help and get your stuff turned in. School and studying dosen't have to be gay get in a group with a bunch of friend order pizza study and then just hang out. Hope it helps


hey im 13 and lately ive been feeling left out. i have a whole group of friends who iused to hang out with but i cant hang out on the weekends anymore because i need to study for school and i also have something going on. even though i cant hang out really ive been feeling left out, my friends wont talk to me, and the only chance i can hang out with them they always have plans. ive been also trying to hook up with my friends ex so do you think its that they dont wanna be friends with me or what (link)
Well most likely your friends know that your trying to hook up with your friends ex and thats not cool. Just talk to the and apolgize if you hurt them in anyway, if they don't accept that you made a mistake then they can't be that great of friends to begin with. Just talk to them about it, hope it helps


Does becca purpose;y try and make me feel bad or do things jus come off like that???
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Are you talking about pringle? or me? Is this don? Well if its don talking about pringle i dont think she purposly tries to make you feel bad. But i'll check into it.


I need help so bad (link)
You need help so bad? Well what do you need help with?


My last clue to u is I treat u like my lil sister (link)
Don!


So do u think u know who this is yet? And your advice was very good but i've already tried it for a while (link)
Bry?...if not thats my only guess. Sorry my advice didnt work out. Who is this?


Do you think true love ever dies and if it doesnt how long would you wait for the girl you rly liked or in your case the guy and would you continue to like them if they made it clear they were interested in other guys?please help me out (link)
True love or a persons first love deffinatly never dies. Chances are if you think you and this girl are truely right for each other, you just might be. If I was truley in love with someone that I thoght was perfect for me i would wait a really long time, but if you rarely talk or if things dont look good then maybe right now your relationship isn't right. Talk to her more and let her date around a bit, don't be controlling about it. When things start to look like she likes you ask her out, but don't give up if you really think its true love. Hope it helps!


I have cleaned my act up sooo much over the past 4/5 months. I havent done ne thing bad and the entire reason i changed all of it was for a few people that i really care about. One of the people i really like but she doesnt like me and makes it clear in some ways that she doesnt like me. What should I do??? (link)
Well as long as your act is "cleaned up" your best bet is to stay that way. As for the girl, try and call her more, talk to her on AOL or in school. Try and get to know her better, and most likely as you become better friends she'll grow to like you more. Spend alot of time with her and be "sweet" to her, then when you think the time is right you should let her know exactly how you feel if she dosent already know. Hope it helps!




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