hey im 13 and lately ive been feeling left out. i have a whole group of friends who iused to hang out with but i cant hang out on the weekends anymore because i need to study for school and i also have something going on. even though i cant hang out really ive been feeling left out, my friends wont talk to me, and the only chance i can hang out with them they always have plans. ive been also trying to hook up with my friends ex so do you think its that they dont wanna be friends with me or what
iluvkel10 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:23 pm: Well most likely your friends know that your trying to hook up with your friends ex and thats not cool. Just talk to the and apolgize if you hurt them in anyway, if they don't accept that you made a mistake then they can't be that great of friends to begin with. Just talk to them about it, hope it helps [ iluvkel10's advice column | Ask iluvkel10 A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:11 pm: That might be why. Why dont you just ask them why they are ignoring you? The fact that you tried hooking up with one of your friends ex's is wrong. You shouldnt do that and I think thats why they might be mad. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
EnemaOfTheState answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:10 pm: heres the typical answer your gonna hear.. you just gotta talk to them.. gotta let them know how you feel.. then they'll tell you the truth about it.. but just tell them how you feel.. that should make things better
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mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 2:27 pm: Talk to them. If they dont want to here about it then there not good friends, find some new ones you dont need friends that leave you out and treat you differently from the other people in the group. If they dont see how special you are there lose.
Michele answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 1:53 pm: It might be because you are studying, and they find that boring, and think maybe you are too, but don't let that discourage you. Keep studying, because when you grow up and can get a good job, and have more money than anyone else, you won't be boring. You'll be the most popular guy, and you'll have a job you like, everyone else will be stuck "shakin' fries". I know it sounds boring, but look you all have to grow up, whether you like it or not, you all have to get jobs some day whether you like it or not, and the happiest people, and the ones that have the most control over their lives,are the ones with educations. So childhood and teenage years are short in comparison to the rest of your life. The largest part of your life, which is from 21 to oh say, 100 years old, will be the longest, and that part had better be happy, or you will be miserable. Just look, I am sure that there are a lot of miserable adults around you.
xcuriousx0 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 1:47 pm: well all the other things you said are simply because of your scheduel thats alright. everyone is busy sometimes. you just need to find time to hang out with your friends. but it is a REALLY bad idea to hook up with your friends ex. especially if she still talks to him and has feelings for him.
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MCalways answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 1:07 pm: First off.. I dont think that you should be trying to hook up with your friends ex. DO you think thsta why they aren't talking to you?
If its not, then explain to them that you have a lot of things to do on the weekends, and you have a busy schedule, but you would like to set a day where yall could just hang. [ MCalways's advice column | Ask MCalways A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 12:57 pm: heyy .. its not that they dont want to hangout with you its just that they are unaware of waht your going throw you should try telling them that you have to study alot and there is something going on in your family (or if you are confortable with telling them what it is tell them) and that is the reason why you havent been hanging out with them so much and since you havent been hanging out with them latly you fele sort of leftt out and then ask them (in advance on a day that you can hang out) if they want to all go to the movies or mall or something like that together and start hangoing out again more often
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